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268 replies

weebarra · 04/06/2014 08:46

I'm 36 and have been being treated for breast cancer for the past 9 months. I was diagnosed when DC3 was 8 weeks.
I've had 6 months of chemo, a bilateral mastectomy and now I'm doing the radiotherapy bit. AIBU not to want to walk through clouds of smoke at the entrance to the oncology centre?
I get that people are addicted. I've smoked myself and both parents do. It's just that I feel really pissed off when I see both staff and patients puffing away.
I was going to get cancer anyway - I have the BRCA2 gene, but these people don't have to get it. I just want to shake them.

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Grumpyrealist77 · 04/06/2014 23:00

Oooh don't call me names or I'll be rude!!!!
Dick.

InSpaceNooneCanHearYouScream · 04/06/2014 23:01

It really does piss me off when people say 'wow,just wow'

Grumpyrealist77 · 04/06/2014 23:02

Pubes.
You want to highlight the governments disgusting dependance on fag tax, but then base all your theories of black lung on 3 yank doctors who may or may not be in the pay of cigarette companies!!!????

slithytove · 04/06/2014 23:03

Tut tut inspace, you should be more tolerant!

It pisses me off when people smoke needlessly in entrances to public buildings.

PlentyOfPubeGardens · 04/06/2014 23:03

Well I look forward to some actual science links from logicalscientist on the black lung thing.

Meanwhile it's a bit beside the point, we've had pictures of diseases on fag packets for ages, it hasn't solved anything as far as I can see.

Smokers are not stupid or ignorant, they are simply addicted.

Grumpyrealist77 · 04/06/2014 23:06

Stupid for having gotten addicted. Oh and I know lots of stupid children...

TSSDNCOP · 04/06/2014 23:07

Addicted to fags doesn't mean you can't walk or be rolled in a wheelchair with your drip trolley since you're so determined a few extra feet so sick people, pregnant people and children dont need to run the gauntlet to enter a fucking hospital.

Smoke your heads off. I used to, it's great. But have some basic common decency.

PlentyOfPubeGardens · 04/06/2014 23:08

Their credentials seem quite good to me. There's also the pathologist who worked for the Dutch government:

This was confirmed by Dr Jan Zeldenrust, a Dutch pathologist for the Government of Holland from 1951 – 1984. In a television interview in the 1980?s he stated that, translated from Dutch, “I could never see on a pair of lungs if they belonged to a smoker or non-smoker. I can see clearly the difference between sick and healthy lungs. The only black lungs I’ve seen are from peat-workers and coal miners, never from smokers”.

I'm happy to reassess my opinion if presented with some actual science though. It's a minor point as far as I'm concerned.

slithytove · 04/06/2014 23:08

It is ignorant to subject others to it.

Grumpyrealist77 · 04/06/2014 23:10

After you cut up a pregnant mother with cancer you tend to lose sympathy for those who don't care for others
Inspace, how, did this sentence just pass you by?
I found it profound and spine chilling! It scared the life out of me.
My mum's a smoker and my children will lose their grandmother early because of the smoking related illness she has. I think she is stupid for smoking.
I am in awe of someone who does what logical does all day then finds the time to come on here and try to educate one or two tory-like, 'not for turning' unfortunate people.
After you cut up a pregnant mother with cancer you tend to lose sympathy for those who don't care for others
Wow, just...

logicalscientist · 04/06/2014 23:11

Here's one the BBC wants to use on cigarette packs. (that's UK)

logicalscientist · 04/06/2014 23:12

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logicalscientist · 04/06/2014 23:13

I would have posted some histology slides but I didn't think you would really see the disease

Smoking
PlentyOfPubeGardens · 04/06/2014 23:13

Yeah stupid fucking children probably deserve to die Hmm You're nearly as funny as the poster on a thread yesterday who said she wished fags were more toxic for smokers.

Some of us care about saving lives and increasing people's health, others seem to have quite a different agenda.

Do you have any actual science logical?

Grumpyrealist77 · 04/06/2014 23:14

Logical, come, come, surely thats a peat workers lung!!!!

TSSDNCOP · 04/06/2014 23:14

Just how brave would a government need to be to make cigarettes illegal?

PlentyOfPubeGardens · 04/06/2014 23:16

I'm not disputing lung cancer I am disputing 'black lung' - do you have any proper scientific evidence for black lung caused by smoking? (I can do words, you don't have to just post context-free pictures)

logicalscientist · 04/06/2014 23:17

I thought the histology slide was pretty scientific evidence that smoking causes diseased lungs. That was the point I was trying to make.in my.original pic. And so therefore should.be stopped.in all public areas. The rest of the arguement is a bit.off topic

Grumpyrealist77 · 04/06/2014 23:17

Why do stupid children deserve to die?
That's an odd thing to garner!!
Non-smokers deserve to breathe inconsiderate smokers black lungy breathe more like!
Smokers dont DESERVE to die, they just dont have the right to smoke anywhere near me...

PlentyOfPubeGardens · 04/06/2014 23:19

Well we don't know what it is grumpy, do we? Could be a bit of liver for all we know.

I am sure there must be lots of actal proper science papers on smoker's black lung that logical could link to though, after all, everybody knows it's true.

Grumpyrealist77 · 04/06/2014 23:20

Take your foil hat off pubes...

unrealhousewife · 04/06/2014 23:21

I think you should write to your hospital about it, it's a valid complaint. There was a crowd of smokers outside the hospice where my Dad was that used to make me cringe, they had cancer themselves and knew it was too late so seemed to want to smoke even more. Life is cruel sometimes.

InSpaceNooneCanHearYouScream · 04/06/2014 23:21

I don't think anyone's disputing that smoking causes diseased lungs logical.

Grumpyrealist77 · 04/06/2014 23:22

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat!

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PlentyOfPubeGardens · 04/06/2014 23:23

You really don't understand what is meant by 'scientific evidence' do you, 'logicalscientist'? Grin

Smokers will still have diseased (not black) lungs if they smoke in private by the way so not only is your 'science' a bit dodgy, your 'logic' isn't up to much either.