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to wish that people would stop assuming I'm a feminist just because I'm female?

281 replies

HookingBrilliant · 28/05/2014 21:19

Does this happen to other people? It's beginning to annoy me.

OP posts:
LRDtheFeministDragon · 28/05/2014 23:30

wilie, that's very funny. Bless them.

WilsonFrickett · 28/05/2014 23:30

X posts again but feeling happy now.

FFF UNITE. JUST COS MEN ARE SHITE. SISTERS ALL THE WAY. MEN ARE PANTS WE SAY!

thatbloody I've put you down for a fringe workshop on fourth wave. Just make it up. Be funny though, 'k?

WillieWaggledagger · 28/05/2014 23:31

FFS is v good

LRDtheFeministDragon · 28/05/2014 23:31

Night pag. I must turn in too. I'm halfway through the last Hunger Games novel and I want to see if she gets the bloke in the end. I'm a giant pile of heteronormative slush, me.

ThatBloodyWoman · 28/05/2014 23:31
Wink

On it.

LRDtheFeministDragon · 28/05/2014 23:31

FFF UNITE. JUST COS MEN ARE SHITE. SISTERS ALL THE WAY. MEN ARE PANTS WE SAY!

Brilliant. Grin

PacificDogwood · 28/05/2014 23:32

Oh, LRD, enjoy. I found it not an easy read

Pagwatch · 28/05/2014 23:32

Ooh , we are reading that too. Dd is engrossed.

Night

LRDtheFeministDragon · 28/05/2014 23:33

I'm enjoying it. Largely cos I enjoyed the films and am resolutely pretending I don't know whatsisname is 21 or so. In an innocent, admiring of his acting kind of way.

I feel I may be letting the feminism slip a little now, so it's really good night.

WilsonFrickett · 28/05/2014 23:34

I'm also putting my name down for INANE.

Ok so I have bloody on fourth wave.
Saga vagina monologues. Excellent.
pacific leading the campfire headtilt sing song
I was thinking of putting Pag on the bar... No?

I need someone for vaguely amusing sister merchandise.

And OP? Nope, sorry, still not invited...

WilsonFrickett · 28/05/2014 23:36

LRD bookstall.

Grin
SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 28/05/2014 23:36
Grin

I kinda wish it was for real now!

ThatBloodyWoman · 28/05/2014 23:37

Woohoo !!!

WillieWaggledagger · 28/05/2014 23:38

i don't have many skills but i can knit, and could probably manage something amusing. or is that too close to liking kittens?

WilsonFrickett · 28/05/2014 23:39

Me too! But I do hope I haven't annoyed anyone by inviting them to take part?

Night sister-vipers Wink

WilsonFrickett · 28/05/2014 23:40

Willie you're in! You are the very spirit of Fourth Wave FFS.

ThatBloodyWoman · 28/05/2014 23:41

You lot have made me feel all warm inside tonight.

Night night.

WillieWaggledagger · 28/05/2014 23:41

i once knitted one of these each for the whole family at christmas. probably not appropriate for FFS though

to wish that people would stop assuming I'm a feminist just because I'm female?
OxfordBags · 28/05/2014 23:42

I accost strangers on the street and demand they listen to my feminist rantings, how come no bastard ever invites me to speak at wombyn-only events?! I've got my own DMs, dungarees, untouched body hair, and a signed copy of Pornography by Andrea Dworkin, WHAT MORE DO THEY FUCKING WANT?!?!

SagaNorensLeatherTrousers · 28/05/2014 23:42

Night FFFers, and remember, out of all your imaginary conferences this one will be the best.

Springheeled · 28/05/2014 23:42

I'm with you OP- it really pisses me off that as a human I am expected to be into all that human rights shit as well.

And as for feminism, I can't see what's wrong with a world where women are stoned to death for making their own choices.

I also can't see why people are so upset at being reduced to tits and a cunt every single day everywhere, in the press, on the tv, on billboards, on the internet, on the streets. And it's not as if there's any inequality- royal arses are treated just the same as us lower class arses.

We have equal pay with men as well, right? So what's the issue?

PacificDogwood · 28/05/2014 23:43

Night, sisters

PacificDogwood · 28/05/2014 23:44

Willie, I so need the pattern for that! Grin

WillieWaggledagger · 28/05/2014 23:46

free here pacific

FraidyCat · 28/05/2014 23:46

The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity.

The only adherents of any ism that aren't obnoxious are the ones that you are hardly aware of as adherents, because they don't go out of their way to bother you with their views.

If anyone seems overly keen on communicating that they are a feminist, socialist, Christian, Satanist or whatever, I suddenly remember somewhere else I need to be. I think women who say they aren't feminists are understandably trying not to be perceived as one of those people.

Not all followers of an ideology are obnoxious, but the ones who speak out strongly mostly are, therefore the illusion is created that all followers are obnoxious. People with lives to be getting on with don't need the burden of being labelled obnoxious.

(This post may not be completely serious.)