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To be angry with disrespectful women!

247 replies

gotnotimeforthat · 02/05/2014 15:10

I'm talking about the women that know a guy is in a relationship yet continue to hit on him or upon hearing he has a girlfriend out right says 'I'm only up for a shag anyway, am I wasting my time?' Handing yourself on a plate like that to someone with a girlfriend and child is just low.

I obviously can't speak for all women but i wouldn't dream of hitting on somebody if they was in a relationship. I find it so disrespectful!

This happens quite a lot with my partner and it really angers me.

AIBU to let this bother me as much as it does? The woman I mentioned above might of got a peice of my mind..

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EverythingsDozy · 02/05/2014 16:09

I wholeheartedly agree!!! Stupid bitch was pursuing my husband and she got her nasty claws into him. Husband left, told me he loves her. Now he has started divorce proceedings!!!

VitoCorleone · 02/05/2014 16:10

I really want to know what you said on the phone to her

WorraLiberty · 02/05/2014 16:10

It's definitely a Tesco thing Sad

To be angry with disrespectful women!
VitoCorleone · 02/05/2014 16:12

Tesco value minge Grin haha

WorraLiberty · 02/05/2014 16:13

Well every little helps Wink

MexicanSpringtime · 02/05/2014 16:14

Mmm, I had a male friend visit me once and we went to the pub where we met up with some acquaintances of mine. One woman spent the entire night making a bee-line for him until she finally realised he wasn't my boyfriend and then she completely lost interest.

Some people are weird.

YoureBeingASillyBilly · 02/05/2014 16:14

Are mrsB and everythingsdozy being tongue in cheek? Confused i cant tell.

VitoCorleone · 02/05/2014 16:14

Hahaha

Whereisegg · 02/05/2014 16:15

I have been in tesco several times and no one has ever offered me a 2-4-1 on their love sausage.
I must be rough Sad

PourquoiTuGachesTaVie · 02/05/2014 16:15

It's your husband you should be angry at dozy as he did the cheating, I'm sure he was well aware of what he was doing when he let her "get her claws into him"z

PrincessBabyCat · 02/05/2014 16:17

I want to see a picture of this man who has perfect the art of being ridiculously good looking. Grin

Original poster
gotnotimeforthat · 02/05/2014 16:18

I called her because she had been emailing him all day, hinting he should give her a lift home after work etc. he of course didn't. when he got home she started texting his work mobile ( everyone who works there has each others work numbers). he told her staright he has a misses and kid. so she says ' i only want a shag ;) am i wasting my time?' he tells her she is infact wasting her timeand ignors the following texts as she continued to text him saying she only wants fun and nobody has to know.

so i called her and explained that i didn't appreciate the way she was talking to my partner and that her behaviour was pretty low

he tried telling her himself, it didnt work. he idnored her, it didn't work. i called her and she hasn't been appropriate since. in m eyes the phonecall was effective.

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beershuffle · 02/05/2014 16:18

I always wondered who those crazy women were who fought with other women for looking at their dude. Now I know.
Are you addicted to the drama or are you just paranoid, do you think?

MrsDeVere · 02/05/2014 16:20

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DandyDindie · 02/05/2014 16:20

It is 'might have' not 'might of'

mrsbucketxx · 02/05/2014 16:21

why did she have his number to text in the first place more to this than you think. i say

Bunbaker · 02/05/2014 16:21

Can't he just tell her that he is going show the messages to his manager? She is misusing company property for her own private gain. If she is only calling him for this reason can't he block her number?

What kind of world do you live in that people keep coming on to you both?

OddFodd · 02/05/2014 16:22

Worra :o

OP - was this in Tesco's? I'm confused

VitoCorleone · 02/05/2014 16:23

Wasn't very effective if she hasn't been appropriate since.

Grin sorry, couldn't help it

VitoCorleone · 02/05/2014 16:24

mrsB OP says it was his work phone and all the staff have each others numbers

YoureBeingASillyBilly · 02/05/2014 16:24

What do you mean "it didnt work"? Was she sleeping with him? No so his behaviour in preventing this woman from getting her shag was working. She wasnt getting a shag. That means what he was doing was working.

mrsbucketxx · 02/05/2014 16:25

he needs to block her number first.

and tell her forcibly to back off.

still not sure why she had his mobile number in the first place.

Coldlightofday · 02/05/2014 16:27

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gotnotimeforthat · 02/05/2014 16:27

I'm neither paranoid nor addicted to drama. I completely trust him. I just think that womans behavour was out of order.

if you genuinly didn't know somebody has a partner and try your luck then fair play. But to go as far as trying to persuade a committed man to sleep with you AFTER finding out he is spoken for and is also a father is kind of taking the piss.

The people in tesco's, hsamuels etc don't bother me that much. they can hit on him as much as they wan't it means nothing. But this woman was purposely trying to meddle with my relationship.

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gotnotimeforthat · 02/05/2014 16:28

vito i noticed that as soon as i posted it. I meant innapropriate Blush

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