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To be angry with disrespectful women!

247 replies

gotnotimeforthat · 02/05/2014 15:10

I'm talking about the women that know a guy is in a relationship yet continue to hit on him or upon hearing he has a girlfriend out right says 'I'm only up for a shag anyway, am I wasting my time?' Handing yourself on a plate like that to someone with a girlfriend and child is just low.

I obviously can't speak for all women but i wouldn't dream of hitting on somebody if they was in a relationship. I find it so disrespectful!

This happens quite a lot with my partner and it really angers me.

AIBU to let this bother me as much as it does? The woman I mentioned above might of got a peice of my mind..

OP posts:
YoureBeingASillyBilly · 02/05/2014 15:35

Where do you live?? Confused

Tvseemstobemyhobby · 02/05/2014 15:37

Once upon a time I think I might have been seriously good looking Hmm

PourquoiTuGachesTaVie · 02/05/2014 15:38

Still like to know what you said when you called her.

FrigginRexManningDay · 02/05/2014 15:38

I used to work with a woman who had a dh like the OP. She used to tell him stuff to deliberately wind him up. FYI.

BettySwollocksandaCrustyRack · 02/05/2014 15:40

Well as long as you know he is loyal to you why are you getting so het up?

You really called someone because she showed an interest in your partner? She must think you are really unhinged now!

Why don't you just brand him like you would a cow and then everyone will know he is yours......give him a nose ring or something.

YouTheCat · 02/05/2014 15:40

In my much younger, prettier, fitter days I used to get chatted up a lot, usually right in front of my then husband, though he was oblivious on account of being drunk all the time . I used to find it a bit of a boost (but didn't take anything further) and also quite hilarious that he never seemed to realise because he was so absorbed with talking to his mates about utter shite.

Dp has been 'hit on' at a works do. He found it quite embarrassing and pointed out he was in a relationship. His friends didn't understand why he didn't just have a quick shag anyway. Hmm

I'd find someone who pursued someone they knew to be in a relationship a bit of a twat.

Pumpkinpositive · 02/05/2014 15:41

He told her he was in a relationship and she then overstepped the line so I gave her a phone call.

Did she give you a restraining order?

MrsDeVere · 02/05/2014 15:43

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

BerylStreep · 02/05/2014 15:47

I'm also wondering what type of signals he is giving out.

Phoning the woman just makes you look like a loon.

Montegomongoose · 02/05/2014 15:54

Do please tell us the content of the phone call.

And thanks for the huge Grin!

SirNoel · 02/05/2014 15:54

Well this is a strange phenomenon indeed...the pair of you seem to attract utter arseholes...

Andanotherthing123 · 02/05/2014 15:54

You just have to come to terms with the fact that the two of you are so hot, people get turned on just watching you eat out or push a trolley round tescos.

FreudiansSlipper · 02/05/2014 15:56

maybe he needs to cut back on wearing so much Lynx

the adverts obviously speak the truth

neverthebride · 02/05/2014 15:57

Women in shops come on to him and offer themselves even when he says he's in a relationship?.

Really? In shops?.

candycoatedwaterdrops · 02/05/2014 15:57

Where do you guys live that you get hit on so often? Genuinely curious; I am looking for a bloke!

CoffeeTea103 · 02/05/2014 15:58

Sirnoel GrinGrin

ihatethecold · 02/05/2014 15:59

Load of old bull
Grin

SaskiaRembrandtWasFramed · 02/05/2014 16:04

A man once tried to chat my DH up in Tesco with me standing right next to him. This has never happened in Sainsbury or Lidl. Maybe, change your supermarket OP.

RiverTam · 02/05/2014 16:04

have I stumbled into a episode of EastEnders? Did you call her a cahhhhhh?

If it's really happening at all-- then your DP is giving out vibes that he's up for it - and maybe he is.

AlpacaYourThings · 02/05/2014 16:04

He told her he was in a relationship and she then overstepped the line so I gave her a phone call.

Hmm
RiverTam · 02/05/2014 16:04

whoops, strike-out fail.

PrincessBabyCat · 02/05/2014 16:05

He told her he was in a relationship and she then overstepped the line so I gave her a phone call.

LOL!!! You called her? Really?? Really??? You're letting him wind you up like this?

Look, you either trust your husband or you don't.

My husband tells me women hit on him I just shrug and go "Can't blame them, you are a pretty good catch". That's the end of it. If he continues on the point, just be like "Should I be worried? I trust you." They're just looking for an ego boost. Tell him he's sexy and get on with your day.

He'll find something else to get your attention with. Mine keeps showing me his abs every day because he's working out.

OddFodd · 02/05/2014 16:05

This is definitely Tesco-related. Change your shop OP. The women are a lot more respectful in Morrisons

Appletini · 02/05/2014 16:08

I think he's full of shit and trying to make you jealous...

mrsbucketxx · 02/05/2014 16:09

i would have called too, women like this need to be told.

he need to stop flirting too, women don't just flock to someone unless they are giving off a flirty vibe.