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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to want to try coke just once?

532 replies

CentreParting · 20/01/2014 22:37

I'm nearing a significant and have a bit of a bucket list.
This is one thing that I'm considering.
Sourcing it shouldn't be a problem.
I've tried softer drugs in my midtwenties, but am now just got a yearning to give it a go in a very controlled environment. But and a little bit concerned about the aftermath.
AIBU to be thinking like this?

OP posts:
thepurplepenguin · 21/01/2014 18:09

I did it once at uni. It was fun, having sex whilst high on it was mind-blowing, but the hangover was BEYOND vile. I'd never do it again, but I'm glad I tried it, so I'd say do it if you can guarantee you can do it safely and you are prepared for the most vicious hangover of your life...

thepurplepenguin · 21/01/2014 18:09

Clearly did not read to the end of the thread, oops...

droppedscones · 21/01/2014 18:15

Ffs what a shit bucket list item.

Assuming this thread is genuine, I am quite entertained by the tenuous argument that if I am against drugs I should therefore be looking to buy fair trade petrol! What a brilliant abdication of personal responsibility! Because I can't avoid buying petrol without giving up my job I therefore shouldn't worry about any implications of human suffering caused by drugs purchase or derivation as it's all the same and I either stop it all at once or don't bother to take a stand against anything at all. Genius. I'll just 'crack' on through life as I please by that theory. Drugs are an essential item after all.

ziggiestardust · 21/01/2014 18:54

baby I don't know where the men we detained ended up; but if they got sent back to their country of origin they are almost certainly dead, along with their families.

droppedscones abdication of responsibility is right!

ProfessorDent · 21/01/2014 19:02

If someone has gone to all that trouble to get coke into the country, even sacrificing their loved ones, the least you can do is try a snifter. It would be sheer ingratitude to think otherwise.

Oh, alright, but this thread is running the end of its course anyway....

Coke has a great image, because the picture editors of newspapers illustrate a drug story with a foxy gal snorting it with a bank note. All drugs have great names that sound like pop bands.

But a lot of it is the ritual and context with coke, the setting and so on. I don't think it will do much for you otherwise.

SpottyDottie · 21/01/2014 19:16

So on this 'bucket list' when there is the whole world out there to discover, doing coke is the best idea you can think of?? Especially when you have DC? Hmm

AmberLeaf · 21/01/2014 19:41

The demand will never end.

Which is why drugs should be decriminalised IMO.

McFox · 21/01/2014 19:43

SpottyDottie, I think its pretty clear that the OP said that she had 'a bit of a bucket list.' List = a series of items.

TalisaMaegyr · 21/01/2014 19:45

Loving the raving reminiscing Wink I was a late 80's/early 90's raver, although I didn't take drugs until much later on. I was on a natural Wink

ProfessorDent · 21/01/2014 20:13

It does make me think what it will be like in nursing homes when our time comes, instead of the war it will be all midnight raves and so on reminiscing...

TalisaMaegyr · 21/01/2014 20:26

Acieeeeed! Grin

Belize · 21/01/2014 20:53

Yy ProfessorDent!

Hilarious that the OP just chucked this little firework in to AIBU and then disappeared in a puff of well puff Grin!

CentreParting · 21/01/2014 21:14

Well, some people can't stay on here all day everyday. Hmm
Yes, it's a genuine thread, and ofc I'm an obvious namechanger. Hmm
Thank you to all posters with their comments, both pro and con and downright rude.
It may come as a surprise to you, but I actually had not connected the devastation of coke production and distribution with me having my few minutes of fun. I thank people for these comments and wonder if any of you can point me to any further reading on this topic.
My yen for this experience comes from long term overhearing of how much fun a group of slightly distant peers have with coke on odd occasions. Their attitude had slightly normalised me to this behaviour and almost persuaded me that it is an desirable lifestyle. Call me weak, I think I am. But realising that life is passing me by without doing anything slightly edgy gave me some sort of misplaced desire.
And yes, it is a bucket list - there are several things on there.Hmm
And RTFOP - yes, I have DC. Hmm
Thanks again for all your comments on a divisive subject. I think the debate that this has created justifies the starting of the thread. Hmm

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 21/01/2014 21:18

Are you on drugs already, your eyes have got stuck

CentreParting · 21/01/2014 21:20

megalulz

OP posts:
VampyreofTimeandMemory · 21/01/2014 21:22

sort of see where you're coming from OP but it wouldn't be edgy anymore.

lottie82 · 21/01/2014 21:24

It's not that great, really. If you want to be able to sit up all night drinking then it does the trick, but I'm not too keen.

I haven't taken one for years, but if you want one amazing drug experience then you would have a MUCH better time taking MDMA (ecstasy ).............

landrover · 21/01/2014 21:28

Bloody hell theres a lot of experience on this thread!

HollyBrrr · 21/01/2014 22:09

I'm usually a lurker on MNet and this thread seems to have run its course, but this is a topic I feel really strongly about, so had to post...

I feckin' hate drugs and I struggle very hard not to be highly contemptuous of people who boast about taking drugs like it's something to be proud of. I have never tried drugs so can't comment on whether you would feel happy/dreamy on them, but I have been close to several people whose lives have been ruined by them. Two relatives are now schizophrenic and on benefits, unable to work and barely able to string sentences together, because of their drug use as teenagers. Another 'acquaintance' brutally killed one of his friends while high on drugs.

As I see it, some people are absolutely fine on drugs. Some people, for whatever reason, have brains that are wired in such a way that drugs seriously affect them and, in some cases, kill them (some even on their first try). We don't have any way yet of being able to test who will react badly to certain substances, so why on earth would you risk it? And that's ignoring the fact that you actually will have very little idea of exactly what you'll be snorting, as well as the wider moral issues of the drug trade.

Having said that, and despite my hatred, I wish the government would blooming well legalise the things. At least that way people can be sure what their snorting/smoking/injecting.

Salmotrutta · 21/01/2014 22:17

I must be very staid and naive because I'm taken aback by the number of posters who regard it as quite "okay" to take illegal drugs. Confused

Yes, I drink alcohol, and yes I have also been known to have gotten tiddly on occasion.
But alcohol is produced legally and in well-regulated conditions (unless you make moonshine in your shed Hmm) and less likely to be doctored with god knows what.

PeriodFeatures · 21/01/2014 22:22

If someone has gone to all that trouble to get coke into the country, even sacrificing their loved ones, the least you can do is try a snifter. It would be sheer ingratitude to think otherwise

I know this thread is done but i have enjoyed reading it and just want to say ^^ made me laugh.

I also agree with lottie get some MDMA instead.

Salmotrutta · 21/01/2014 22:27

I'm sure goinggreyagain didn't find anything to laugh at on here Sad

I'm sorry for your loss goinggreyagain. Thanks

AnyFucker · 21/01/2014 22:37

The insensitivity shown by some posters on this thread is quite breathtaking.

VampyreofTimeandMemory · 21/01/2014 22:40

as are all the 'try mdma instead!' and 'aciiid!' comments. honestly sounds like a bunch of teens attempting cool. speaking from experience, op you really aren't missing anything. it's pretty dull otherwise people wouldn't stop taking this shit.

AnyFucker · 21/01/2014 22:42

I did honestly think this site was for adults.

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