Can we please stop with the "it must be incredibly difficult to look after a child safely/provide nutritional meals/entertain a child if you're blind," comments.
I appreciate that people cannot imagine how they personally would be able to do these things if they had no sight but the reality is that for someone who is blind having no sight is how it's always been, so there's no "adapting" involved - if you've always had no sight then you've always done things a certain way. iyswim.
I am blind and I am a parent. I gave up a career to bring up my son, yes there are sometimes precautions that can be taken to ensure a child's safety e.g. I had safety gate on my kitchen to prevent ds from coming in without my knowledge; I had a playpen I could safely leave him in if I left the room; he went out on reins, but tbh these are probably all precautions any parent should take to ensure their safety, it's just that many parents choose to rely on their sight rather than take such precautions whereas if you can't see you don't have that option.
I am a better cook than probably most sighted people I know, and I certainly nutritionally fed my child - he never ate a jar of baby food in his life.
There are plenty of lazy parents who feed their children chips and beans every night and disability has nothing to do with it.
I rather suspect the op mentioned his being blind because she knew that would spark some doubt in people's minds as to his ability to parent a child, and it seems she was right.
I wonder whether the op actually plans to end the relationship, so this mark (which the dh wouldn't even know was there) is a good way for her to become hysterical and call ss and change the locks and make allegations because let's face it, as a SAHD he would be more likely to be given residency.
This thread is pretty nasty all round.