I think you are looking for a simple answer to a very complicated question if you ask 'Is life better for Iraqi people now than under Saddam'.
There is no black and white answer to this, and comparing the Saddam dictatorship with life in UK in 1800s is quite frankly ridiculous.
There is more to being a 'civilised nation' than architecture, literature and good infrastructure. The Nazis were 'good for the nation' too, if you look at it that way. (and, yes I am aware of Godwins Law, but we are talking about brutal dictatorships).
Yes, it is great when a revolution brings peace and prosperity to a region, but sometimes we have to be happy with the little revolutions. With the bridges built, the children educated, the girls saved from abuse, the babies vaccinated against measles.
LtEve has answered your questions with quiet honesty and a complete lack of aggression, and is to be applauded for that, and for her work in a troubled region. Even if we don't agree with the mission. Your attempt to belittle the achievements of LtEve and her colleagues reflects badly on you.