DPs ex insisting on having MY address?

[GirIFiend]

DP and I been together 10 months.

His DS who is 8 has always stayed with DP and DP's parents at their house which is where DP lived until 6 weeks ago when he moved in with me.

Last month DSS came to stay at my house to meet me and my DSes on his agreed contact weekend.

The plan was the same for this month but out of the blue DP's ex has texted saying she wants MY address or DSS will not be coming She says she has the right to know where her DS will be staying.

Can she insist on this?

I bet you dont want her to have the address because youve been fed shit, you know, like the xdw is a psycho, just wants to cause trouble, wants your dp back.

They are the reasons I wasnt to know where my then 3yr was staying, despite me being the 1 that ended the relationship and moving away, and the fact I'd have rather died than spend a second more than I had towith xdp

Not all exs have ulterior motives!

School holiday boredom seems to have set in early this year.

OP, Exactly why would you not want her to know your address?

It would be highly irresponsible for her not to have full contact details.

so why the resistance, is she a known axe murder? or are you a drama larma?

It's pointless trying to keep it quiet anyway. An 8 year old is surely going to be able to tell his mother what road df lives in, what number the house is and, probably, what town or village it's in. So you might as well tell her now.

Well I rather think you or your DP (of all of 5 minutes) are very wrong about court!

No court in the land will send a child to an address unknown to the parent with care! Dream on!

I agree with Breville, I didn't realise you were a mother yourself! that makes this even more surprising.

Ahem

Ahem why? Must admit when there's a spate of deleted messages my curiosity goes into overdrive.

boymeetsworld, I think that's a different poster. OP isn't girlfiend but girIFiend.

Ah ok take that point back if wrong OP...

Maybe OP was part of the marital breakdown. It does seem odd that OP is acting in a hostile manner...

Not sure of the legal situation, but I think it would be kind to let the mother know the address/contact numbers etc but then I am assuming reasonable adults who are civil to each other irrespective of the rights/wrongs of the circumstances of the relationship breakdown.

YABU

It's not your address anymore its your DPs address too...

The other thread is by the same poster.

OP said her dp moved in 6 weeks ago. That says to me that they are living together.

RinseAndRepeat it says in the OP that he moved in with her six weeks ago.

Rinse, the fact that the OP's DP lives with her is at the end of the second sentence of the first post.

As you were...

rinse It says in the OP that he has been living with her for 6 weeks

rinse- you must have skim read the op aswel as the thread- they do live together