"Because you would not have been in the position of knowing how he would react."
Quite right, just as you don't know how ANY stranger is going to react to a comment that clearly has a point to it. Then add to this the taboo and eggshell walking that must be done around black people, which exists purely because of this misconception of racism, and there you have fear of offending a person when talking about ANYTHING associated with them purely because they are black - THAT is what I am saying is ridiculous.
You did it because you thought you would get away with it."
No. I did it because he wasn't listening....
And btw the word... is unkeMpt - It does infer a slightly different meaning and maybe this is why you think I am being racist by implying that untidy afros make you unable to hear? If this is the case then please re-read my posts (Also i invite a lot of you to reread the post at some of your comments make it clear you didn't fully understand what I have said).
"If he had not been African, I'm sure my sentence would have gone something like.....
So you are admitting that you adjusted your insult/comment to fit in with his ethnicity?"
NO - You are confusing the causality. His ethnicity doesn't come into it. It is because he HAS an afro which was in such a state that it was covering his ears! My hypothetical situation is this: If he was, say, Caucasian with fluffy hair that was in a mess and covering his ears the comment would have been related to that! The race thing doesn't even come into the decision to mention what style of hair he has.
Internet froze and gave me chance to see this last page of comments so sorry if what i wrote above seems late. Haha that would turn a few stomachs on here (and for no racist reasons ugh) if i was indeed jamaican :p but alas no I belong to the pasty brigade of caucasians :p