to be furious that ex wifes new partner put soap in ds mouth?

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Sat down at breakfast and my eldest son who is 5 tells me that my ex wife's new partner has put soap in his mouth and he was worried and it made him wet the bed.
We have been separated 2yrs and things are pretty good between us all.
Tbh I took what he said with a pinch of salt because he has been making some pretty far fetched stories up recently.

I rang my ex that eve to check and it true. I am absolutely furious and a bit concerned. I'm not sure if it is my protective instincts making me overreact or if I am right to worried?

he was being bullied himself that is why

he came on for some advice, he also got advice from the NSPCC but he was ripped apart on here for not protecting his son. he is well aware that he needs to listen to his son and watch out for him that is quite clear but that was not enough for some he was meant to go round and bash the door down because that is what parents who really love their children do

poor guy is in a very difficult position give him some credit for trying to do things the best way so not to loose contact with his son which could be a possibility then you really do have big problems for this child

Ok , thanks. I haven't read the whoel thread. Are people on here really bullying the OP?!

No one is bullying the op. He is choosing to bury his head in the sand. To the detriment of his child.