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to be getting pissed of with my friend

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msnaughty · 03/09/2012 19:14

she comes round my house and she helps me out alot. she is an ace friend. her humour is very dry mine can be to. she swear alot i do to sometimes. everyone including the kids will get into a swearing match. such as. slag,fucker,bitch, hoe, and so on. when my 5 year said cunt she had a rigth go at him saying its a really bad word and he shoudl say that. but its ok for her to say fucker and all the other things and she seems to think my kids should now the difference between cunt and fucker.

and today everyone was messing about flicking hair bands at each other. so my 5 year old started doing it to. and she said if he can dish it out he can take it. if he flicks me i will flick him back and if he gets hurt its his own fault. she will start theses things then when she has has enough she has a go at everyone.

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comedycentral · 03/09/2012 19:16
Biscuit
ErikNorseman · 03/09/2012 19:18

You encourage your children to swear and use words like slag and ho? Well stop that for a start.

Fisharefriendsnotfood · 03/09/2012 19:19

And it's pissed off not of

OsmiornicaGold · 03/09/2012 19:20

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CakeMeIAmYours · 03/09/2012 19:20

Ye Gods! I actually don't know where to start with this one Shock

SauvignonBlanche · 03/09/2012 19:20

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CakeMeIAmYours · 03/09/2012 19:21

...although while the point is in debate, I hate the idea of a word for female genitalia being the absolute worst thing you can call someone.

Why is that?

HokeyCokeyPigInAPokey · 03/09/2012 19:21

She's totally unreasonable your kids should be able to say cunt and fucker, they are far too young to know the difference, why worry Hmm

applecrumple · 03/09/2012 19:22

Sorry, couldn't actually see what point OP was making as the grammar was so appalling - can someone translate please!

DizzyKipper · 03/09/2012 19:22

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GroupieGirl · 03/09/2012 19:25

Now maybe I'm missing the point...but if this is not real...why bother?! Why waste your time?!?!

Nancy66 · 03/09/2012 19:25

YABU - it's very important for 5 year olds to know the difference between 'cunt' and 'fucker' - i would bring it up with your kid's teacher if I were you.

WhatYouLookingAt · 03/09/2012 19:27

How do you have a five year old when you are twelve? Confused

peeriebear · 03/09/2012 19:28

Are they allowed to say 'cuntfucker'?

RuleBritannia · 03/09/2012 19:29

This would not be my friend, talking like that in front of my children.

TheGoldenKnid · 03/09/2012 19:30

Oh dear. Neither of my children has ever said 'cunt' (as far as I know Hmm). I have really failed as a parent, haven't I. :( Or should this have been school's responsibility?

Nancy66 · 03/09/2012 19:30

and please, if you are any kind of mother, make sure your child knows how to correctly use 'cocksucker' in a sentence.

dipitydoyou · 03/09/2012 19:31

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HokeyCokeyPigInAPokey · 03/09/2012 19:32

TheGoldenKnid your kids have never said cunt, what kind of mother are you? Wink

TheGoldenKnid · 03/09/2012 19:33

I know, HokeyCokey, I know. :( But is it really all my fault? Shouldn't school have taught them this? I mean, what is school for?

FatherHankTree · 03/09/2012 19:33

OP, please look at the 'How to swear in a foreign language' thread, you could really expand your repertoire and I'm sure your DC's MFL teachers would be appreciative.

Camusfearna · 03/09/2012 19:34

Sorry, can anyone tell me what a 'hoe' is in this context? [have my suspicions]

GhostShip · 03/09/2012 19:34

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startwig1982 · 03/09/2012 19:35

Means whore. Nice.

HokeyCokeyPigInAPokey · 03/09/2012 19:36

Camus no wonder you're confused it should be 'ho' you gotta be down with the kids & know this stuff init?!