A friend of mine was in tears last night (at a bloody barbecue of all places) because she is having doubts about her almost one year marriage.
Basically her husband suggested recently that she ahem, trim her pubic hair and start taking care of herself a bit more.
She feels he is completely out of order for asking this, he has also said he is struggling to find her attractive any more, that she has completely let herself go since the wedding.
It is true, without sounding like a bitch, she has.
She has put on a lot of weight, no longer wears makeup unless it's a formal do, her hair is never styled and she does tend to live in polo shirts and the same pair of jeans and trainers. She admitted to me not long ago that she hasn't shaved her legs in months and we all could see yesterday that her armpits were well and truly neglected.
She used to be so well turned out and her husband used to be the first to say how beautiful she was and how proud he was to have her.
Their sex life used to be crazy but now is pretty non existent, she said he isn't interested any more.
Yesterday she (hysterically crying) told me she felt he was being disrespectful, nasty, cruel and evil and that she thinks she wants a divorce...
AIBU for thinking she is being very short sighted.
I certainly wouldn't be happy if DP married me and then turned Into a slob and after telling DP last night he agreed and said he could completely see her husbands point of view and would probably feel the same.
???