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I know I probably am being unreasonable but need a rant against bloody smokers again!

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sweetkitty · 02/08/2012 22:31

We were having a family day out today at a little theme park and I was so annoyed by the amount of parents smoking. OK I know it's outside and all that but things like when my DC were on this little carousel thing 2 parents were hanging over the fence smoking so I could really smell it.

Then that thing parents do where they blow smoke and keep their fag away from their DC by blowing it over your DC, this was in a queue for the mini dodgems. Then we sat down to eat and someone sat next to us smoking. All you could smell today was smoke.

If you must smoke then bugger off to some remote corner and do it, public places like playgrounds should be no smoking anyway.

I had to pull my DC out the queue as they were coughing having had smoke blown over them nevermind worrying about them getting burnt by a fag held at toddler level.

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Tangointhenight · 02/08/2012 22:34

You're goong to get flamed for this but I'm with you on it, it pisses me off no end BUT I do feel for some smokers who have tried and failed at quitting.

You don't always know the circumstances

WorraLiberty · 02/08/2012 22:35

Dear fucking god will the moaning never end?

Seriously, I have no idea how old you are but you would never have survived years ago....when everyone smoked everywhere.

Yes I'm glad those days are well and truly gone, but for the love of God what will people have to moan about when it's stamped out completely??

Tangointhenight · 02/08/2012 22:35

*going

nannyl · 02/08/2012 22:36

YANBU

I completely agree with you!

McHappyPants2012 · 02/08/2012 22:36

i gave up 3 months ago, and it does not bother me if people smoke or not.

WorraLiberty · 02/08/2012 22:37

I don't even smoke

But the hysteria and the constant whinge, whinge, whinge is like a dripping tap!

manicbmc · 02/08/2012 22:37

Actually, I'm a smoker and I agree with you.

LemarchandsCoxlessPair · 02/08/2012 22:38

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Tangointhenight · 02/08/2012 22:38

Worry is that not what MN is for, to whinge a little??

OldGreyWiffleTest · 02/08/2012 22:38

I'm with Worra.

Cathycomehome · 02/08/2012 22:38

What worra said.

A few years ago, a parent complained to my employer about me smoking in my own garden. On a Saturday. She was alone, but her child could potentially have seen me. And presumably been scarred for life or something.

(I'm a teacher)

I smoked considerately when out though, not near other people, so maybe yan completely u.

BunnyLebowski · 02/08/2012 22:39

YANBU AT ALL!

Thoughtless smelly feckers.

Tangointhenight · 02/08/2012 22:39

Sorry worra flipping predictive text I apologise.

rainydaysarebad · 02/08/2012 22:39

YANBU. I had a thread about this a few days ago, and if fucking pissed me off. Today YET AGAIN there was another woman smoking inside the play area.

silverangel · 02/08/2012 22:40

I smoke when I've had a few glasses of wine. I like it. I would never ever smoke around DCs, other people's DCs, people eating etc and it riles me when people do. Totally hypocritical but can't help it!

sweetkitty · 02/08/2012 22:40

I grew up with 2 chain smoking parents, think at least 60 fags a day between them if not more. My Dad would finish one and light up another straight away, how he is still living I do not know.

We had bugger all money sometimes going hungry and having holes in our shoes but there was always money for fags. I remember getting sent to the shop bring told to pick the cheapest bit of cheese and the value bread but 40 fags.

Oh I had childhood asthma and loads of chest infections too so I'm really glad those days are over. But it's minging smelling smoke to the point it makes you cough and I would say the same for smelling someone's BO.

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squeakytoy · 02/08/2012 22:41

I suppose I can sort of see the point.. and I am a smoker. In America, all the theme parks have specific smoking areas, which is fair enough. I wouldnt smoke while I was in the queue, even if there were only adults there.

FoxyRevenger · 02/08/2012 22:41

Admittedly it doesn't look great smoking near kids, but seriously, it's the outdoors!

Do you also pull your kids in off the street when a car passes them belching exhaust fumes?

MrsKeithRichards · 02/08/2012 22:42

I smoke, in a considerate way and I agree with you.

In some attractions we've been to in Dubai etc they have smoking areas outside which makes total sense.

MrsHuxtable · 02/08/2012 22:42

YANBU!!!!!

WorraLiberty · 02/08/2012 22:42

True Tango but this subject is right up there with P&C spaces and 50 shades of cigarette smoke Grin

larks35 · 02/08/2012 22:43

I don't think yabu to find some smokers inconsiderate but to "my DC out the queue as they were coughing having had smoke blown over them" is a bit precious tbh, unless your DC have asthma or something similar, it's a bit "cutting your DCs nose off to spite your face really. Why not just ask the smoker to stub it out?

BunnyLebowski · 02/08/2012 22:43

I hear ya sweetkitty

My mum's breakfast when I was growing up was 2 fags and a cup of tar-like coffee you could have stood the spoon up in. She stank.

Do what you want in private. But for fucks sake don't expect me not to complain when you blow your rancid poisonous smoke in the direction of me or my child.

NotAnotherNewNappy · 02/08/2012 22:44

If it's considered so anti-social and enough of a health risk to be banned in pubs and offices, then I really don't see how it is still permissible in our children's playgrounds. YANBU

sweetkitty · 02/08/2012 22:46

Oh why is it when anyone mentions smoking someone has to go on about exhaust fumes?

I'm not saying don't smoke that's your choice but just dont smoke around me or my children to the point they are coughing or nearly getting burnt.

Do people think it seriously ok to hang over the fence of a carousel full of DC and blow smoke on them, there's a roof on it, it's kind of enclosed.

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