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I know I probably am being unreasonable but need a rant against bloody smokers again!

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sweetkitty · 02/08/2012 22:31

We were having a family day out today at a little theme park and I was so annoyed by the amount of parents smoking. OK I know it's outside and all that but things like when my DC were on this little carousel thing 2 parents were hanging over the fence smoking so I could really smell it.

Then that thing parents do where they blow smoke and keep their fag away from their DC by blowing it over your DC, this was in a queue for the mini dodgems. Then we sat down to eat and someone sat next to us smoking. All you could smell today was smoke.

If you must smoke then bugger off to some remote corner and do it, public places like playgrounds should be no smoking anyway.

I had to pull my DC out the queue as they were coughing having had smoke blown over them nevermind worrying about them getting burnt by a fag held at toddler level.

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FoxyRevenger · 02/08/2012 22:47

Because they're just two different kinds of airborne pollutant, so I was just drawing a comparison.

rainydaysarebad · 02/08/2012 22:48

There is a petition online you can sign to ask for a ban of smoking in playgrounds in parliament.. Just google it.

Nuttyprofessor · 02/08/2012 22:49

There really is no need for people to blow smoke around DCs. If they want to smoke go further away and do it.

I don't understand how anyone can justify this behaviour with the excuse "it used to be worse".

WorraLiberty · 02/08/2012 22:49

Oh why is it when anyone mentions smoking someone has to go on about exhaust fumes?

Because they're also harmful

ihatethecold · 02/08/2012 22:49

It's nasty. I really hate the smell of smoke. It's so anti social.
Hopefully the younger generation wont take up smoking like ours didHmm

meetupmisery · 02/08/2012 22:50

Yanbu was some scruffy fuckers in picnic area today puffing away over their toddlers in strollers standing and no one could use the two large picnic tables they stood between

Ignorant fuckers

WorraLiberty · 02/08/2012 22:51

Nutty I'm not justifying the behaviour

I'm just saying there seems to be an awful lot of whinging about smoking in the open air.

TuftyFinch · 02/08/2012 22:53

Would it be ok to drink in the queue?

rainydaysarebad · 02/08/2012 22:54

smoking worse than car exhaust fumes

ravenAK · 02/08/2012 22:54

Oh & I think we should ban smokers from getting on buses for half an hour.

There's this one bloody woman docks her breakfast fag & gets on my bus every sodding morning. I don't know if she's some sort of human hyper-conductor for fagstink but it makes me want to puke tbh. Even when she's sat half a buslength away.

However, in reality, she is probably lovely & has no idea how horrible she smells, so clearly IABU on that one before anyone else tells me not to be such a delicate little flower...

Smoking around children's attractions & the queues thereof as in OP is clearly minging & selfish though, surely?

LemarchandsCoxlessPair · 02/08/2012 22:55

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MrsPenrysJones · 02/08/2012 22:56

Why didn't you just line them up against the nearest wall and shoot them?

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trixymalixy · 02/08/2012 22:58

YANBU

littlemisssarcastic · 02/08/2012 23:00

NuttyProfessor "There really is no need for people to blow smoke around DCs. If they want to smoke go further away and do it. "

This isn't always possible if a smoker goes out with their DC and has no one to watch their DC apart from themselves. Are you suggesting they just wander off and leave their DC unsupervised while they have a smoke?

rainydaysarebad · 02/08/2012 23:01

Those of you claiming car exhaust fumes are worse than cigarette smoke please read the above article I posted.

FoxyRevenger · 02/08/2012 23:03

rainydays I don't think either of us claimed exhaust fumes are worse.

I'm not bothered about which is 'worse'.

I was just drawing a comparison for the sake of the debate...

WorraLiberty · 02/08/2012 23:03

There's this one bloody woman docks her breakfast fag & gets on my bus every sodding morning. I don't know if she's some sort of human hyper-conductor for fagstink but it makes me want to puke tbh. Even when she's sat half a buslength away

Jesus you'd never survive a bus journey here in East London...just for the smell of stale garlic and spicy foods being sweated out in the heat.

But that's public transport for you. You say Oh & I think we should ban smokers from getting on buses for half an hour

But then you'd have to extend that to every other foul smell...and who would police it? Confused

TuftyFinch · 02/08/2012 23:04

Lemarchands, I don't ever burp. Ever. Especially around children.

They should ask everyone in the queue to hand in a list of behaviour they don't want to see in the queue they are in. Or, to make it more manageable everyone should have to wear a t-shirt listing unacceptable behaviour. Everyone would know where they are then.
In Denmark the theme parks have smoking and non smoking rides. I kid you not.

trixymalixy · 02/08/2012 23:05

This isn't always possible if a smoker goes out with their DC and has no one to watch their DC apart from themselves. Are you suggesting they just wander off and leave their DC unsupervised while they have a smoke?

No we're suggesting you don't smoke near any children, including your own.

usualsuspect · 02/08/2012 23:05
meetupmisery · 02/08/2012 23:06

IME any socio economic group can be scruffy.

I could tell you some classics that happened to me and I observed when on day out today, 1000's of posts were swimming about my head from this place as I trudged through the day.

Smug parenting with person I was with.
Nappy changing on knee in public
Smoking in picnic area.
DS not listening and fecking off.
Getting lost and crying cos I'm hormonal
Loud parenting
Smacking
Middle classishness brands name dropped in convos.
There was naice ham.
There was haribos.
Rain/sun and all the fecking clothing for everything
Games machine to keep one of them quiet at least.
But we ate our veg and fruit
Bribery to do times tables.

So the smoking was in fact a small part of a very annoying day out fro start to finish. I've been waiting since three o'clock to get all that down.

Now the

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usualsuspect · 02/08/2012 23:06

scruffyfuckerface