To think there's nothing wrong with having a toyboy?

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Name changed for this, just in case.

I'm 33, 2 DDs (7 and 3), single, and recently had a 19 year old in my bed.

Already heard I'm being talked about unfavourabley by friends, peers etc who have found out (although I haven't broadcasted it to the world!)

AIBU?

Why should meeting her children mean anything to a 19 year old?
Unless it reminds him to ensure that he doesn't end up being a father before he wants to be.

That's what I meant it shouldn't mean anything to a 19 year old so surely of he's putting the effort in maybe he's the exception to the rule and not a typical 19 year old? IFYSWIM

his mum dosent know

oh this may be a quick romance

YABU for calling him a 'toyboy'.

For me the age thing isn't an issue as long as you're both consenting adults. Neither is the no strings sex.
What is an issue is your attitude to it.

From the way you are talking about it you don't seem to have much respect for him or be at all bothered that he is your DD's classmate's brother.
In fact you seem to enjoy the idea it might shock people.
Each to their own I suppose

There's no romance in it.

It is what it is - animalistic fucking

The next girl that gets him is going to be in for a treat.
No conversation or socialising, just fucking.

Bless you - its a nice fantasy isn't it - id stick with 50 shades if i were you

One thing is for sure, he wont be looking @ the mantlepiece when he's stoking the fire.

op from your responses i dont really see you have any issues with this

so pointless post really

Except she's found a lot of people here that agree with her.

You do realise that either now or when it's over, he will tell everyone absolutely everything, don't you?

Well you sound about the same mental age so that's fine.

Seriously dought this is a real life scenario but if it is don't you think he will be telling everyone how he shagged an older bird, how she was gaggin for it and that it may get around your school.

Dignity and all that!

If the shit hits the fan, your children will realise that, either now or in the future that you have been happy to have them around someone who you were mearly shagging. This is going to affect their respect for you, at the least.

I think you lot over think things.

It won't effect my kids, I'm sure of that.

As for him telling his friends, I'm sure he does and I don't see why I should mind if they think I'm a fit, older bird, who's great in bed , surely thats something to be proud of

Or maybe they will just think you are a bit of a sad old slapper

I'm only 23 and wouldn't want to go out with anyone under 20. They act like tiny, little boys. You need some level of maturity to even have an adult conversation.

I don't care about your children, they will be someone else's problem.
I was thinking about the damage that sort of relationship could do either of mine.
You sound like a user OP. Get a vibrator instead.

If you have a 19 year old in your bed, you should be far too busy to worry about what nosy old curmudgeons think about it.

op why did you post?????????????????

you clearly are confident in your choice,why ask

My DP is eight years younger than me. I met him when he was 19. He didn't tell me this until the next morning- naughty! I sent him on his way the next day thinking I wouldn't see him again as he lived 200 miles away. I was wrong- he was very keen!

To cut a long story short, we got pregnant six months later (unplanned, but much wanted, sadly miscarried ), he moved those 200 miles and we're together three years later. Sometimes those fun shags give you a whole lot you weren't expecting!

He's smarter, more ambitious and more mature than all the older guys I've been with.

shes attentions seeking thekidsrule, its quite sad really

Keumbum Age does not always equal maturity!

luceyellensmum99

Yes I know that but when you get very young, as in teenagers then definately are more immature. Havn't even finished puberty!

DS has just read this thread over my shoulder.
You really don't want to know his opinion OP.