To think it is beyond rude & disgusting to leave shit stains in the toilet

[BobbysBeardOfWonder]

I fear I am reacting particularly badly to this as am feverish & knackered, but...

My parents are visiting - my DC are 2 and 10 weeks.
All gone pretty smoothly until this morning, just before we went out. I went to the loo & discovered a delightful array of shit stains all over the pan.

I asked my dad - yes it was him, he tried to get them off... But what?! Couldn't be arsed so left them for me to deal with?! Wtf?!?!

I'm so pissed off its unreal. Before taking DD to bed for her nap just now I asked one of them to clean it. I seriously never thought I'd have to have that conversation with my dad.

Here, I have giftwrapped your dead cat. I thought it was a kitten.

Sorry wrong thread.

Oh Yellow that is appalling

She must have tugged the string too hard so it shot out and thwacked against the wall like a big bloody cotton-wool whip.

Blech.

It's always beyond rude on MN. Why never a bit rude? Or plain rude?

I also don't own a bog brush, hate them, yuck.

Tissue paper is the answer to that one GetOrf.

Instructions on how to remove shite from toilet without a bog brush:

Do a turdie, check to see all ok, if not rub off with a bit of toilet paper and flush.

Sparkling

I thought we were in kitten-drowning territory for a minute

What the hell kind of plastery cement shites do you lot produce???

I have never owned or used a loo brush.

I have also never had to manually clean shite from the toilet.

Bleach overnight and after any bigguns.

OP - while not an ideal occurrence you were totally out of order.

I use rubber gloves and disposable scrubby cloth things, that way no disgusting poo covered brush sitting around in the bathroom.

The thought of ASD Ds getting his hands on one of those is horrifying!

It was a one off! If it happened regularly, I might have a discreet word but not the way you did. Blimey!

JodieHarsh, that is some very vivid imagery.

Sorry

I promise this is not something I have ever actually done!

Why was it wrong of OP to ask her Dad to clean his shit from the toilet?

Was it therefore OK for him to leave it for her to clean?

There is nothing so bad as a brush sat next to a toilet. Who still has these thing kept there?
As for managing to pebbledash the porcelain so that it didn't move after a flush, well surely that is a sign of a serious messed up tummy and in need of a better diet or a talent. Either way I´m sure if someone did they'd have a bottom like a japanese flag afterwards so you'd easily tell which house guest it was as they'd be the one having problems sitting. But since they are a guest, no need to have a go at them is there and sine they are your parent who no doubt clean up most of your excrement for quiets some years you should give them a break. You are very unreasonable.

I once went out with a fella that did a "huge" shite in my toilet and left it there! (obviously didn't even look to see it it flushed). Had to get my mate to cut it up with a knife.

And yes the bloke was "dumped".

How bloody dare he shame it wasn't his bowel instead

I for one rarely remember to check the impact (potentially calamitous, given that I am a Martyr to my Bowels etc. etc.) of my effluvium upon the porcelein.

Thank goodness I'm not the only one! Surely it just flushes away almost all the time?

I can't believe people DON'T have a toilet brush. You do realise that it's only going to be touching the toilet? You aren't supposed to be using it to clean the rest of the house.

Yanbu.

YANBU!!! it's also a pet hate of mine!
Who wants to see someone else's crap stains?! If OP's dad wants to do that in their own toilet then fine, but if you're in someone else's house, friend or relative, surely you don't want someone else seeing your poo??

It really doesn't take very long does it?!

A toilet without a loo brush is a nightmare for guests. What about marking below the water line? what do you expect people to do, plunge their hand in the bowl? Weird. Brushes are horrible but not if bleached and then changed regularly.
I would not be thrilled if a family guest did this but would not have a massive go and then post about it on the internet unless it happened all the time. is nothing sacred? (think I know the answer to that already)

I get upset when I think ive done a big jobby and go to look and it's already disappeared down the pipe

Miss Faversham!
That's horrible! I'd be mortified!!

Yes, Glamrock indeed, we Nicknamed him (for sake of here, not his real name) Mick Big Shit after that

MIL leaves skid marks on the seat frequently when visiting. I would never mention it as - presumably - she doesn't notice.

However it's the one thing I draw the line at doing for her. DH does it. Typically I discover it, he gets the look and off he goes upstairs to sort it. His family, his shite :)

Yellow A soggy wiry brush hoaching with different peoples shit and piss particles? Permanently sitting in my bathroom??

No fucking chance. They are utterly disgusting.

Eewww Highland!

at "His family, his shit."