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AIBU?

to think that women are stupid?

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lovebunny · 06/07/2012 05:57

elsewhere, there is a complaint about being unsupported when breastfeeding. this is a feminist issue - and the fault lies fairly and squarely at the feet of women.

i am astounded that after the battles fought in the seventies and eighties, women have allowed such regression.

look how stupid women are today. they have their bodies surgically adapted to men's fantasies - breasts enlarged, labia trimmed - they bleach their hair, tattoo their eyeliner and lipstick and have themselves spray-painted. they remove their pubic hair so they look like children for their (multiple) partners. if you read about it in a book on social anthropology you'd be horrified at the 'oppression' of women. but women think they are choosing this!

then they say 'oh, its not fair, no-one supports me when i'm breastfeeding'. too damn right they don't. because you and your compatriots have allowed everyone to see you as barbie dolls to use and abuse. they don't want to see you being women, being grown up, feeding your babies, that spoils the fantasy. you created this; live with it.

when you've finished screaming at me about your 'rights' to have your mons pubis decorated with fake jewels and to have your isabella piercing, organise yourselves.

wash your faces, let the fake tan fade, cut off your dyed hair and let it grow back naturally, so your babies can recognise the human being their genetic memory was expecting to find here. stay free from chemicals that mask your natural odours, so your babies can recognise you by smell. if people are pressurising you to 'go back to work' say, 'certainly. when this baby chooses to stop breastfeeding'. that gives you four to five years at home, maybe longer, when you are doing something no-one else can - being your babies' mothers.

the 'male' has been accepted as the 'norm' in society - so some early feminists wanted to be like men - some of that lingers. but feminists who believe in the strength and value of the female, have retreated into hiding. wake up! speak up! these are your daughters, sisters, aunts, even your mothers tarting themselves up and whoring themselves out to all and sundry trying to be 'wives and girlfriends'! they're too stupid to realise they've been conned!

educate your daughters. make them aware of political and societal manipulation. make women free - free from pressure to look a certain way, behave a certain way. free, in fact, to be women. free to want to eat without guilt, work, reproduce, raise children, form partnerships, find contentment and find peace of mind.

don't leave this to someone else. if strong women don't act to make the world a better place for women, no-one will. and in twenty years' time, i'll be reading 'oh, society doesn't support breast-feeding mothers'. again.

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Petsinmypudenda · 06/07/2012 07:34

OP'S a teacher?

Good god I hope not

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exoticfruits · 06/07/2012 07:37

If she is a teacher she won't get very far if she is so patronising to her students.

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Tangointhenight · 06/07/2012 07:37

OP, if the stupid shoes fits.....

here have my very first Biscuit because by god you deserve it!!

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littlemslazybones · 06/07/2012 07:37

It does piss me off a little that being a feminist is largely understood as conforming to an economic rationality that has been established and geared towards men.

But I think that is largely the fault of mass media where having a career is seen as a feminist act (and then sometime demonised) and where staying at home is seen as an abdication of your feminist principles (if you had any anyway) and then, once again demonised.

Aren't women hated enough without feminists getting their boot in?

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StealthPolarBear · 06/07/2012 07:41

This is not a feminist. The title of the thread is "women are stupid".
She or he did refer to "pupils" though (in a very disdainful comment)

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Flatbread · 06/07/2012 07:46

OP, am with you for the most part.

I agree that all these supposedly free choices we make are most social conditioning, based on a me patriarchy. Why do we. We'd to wear make-up or wax? What does doing it for ourselves mean...to me it means we have so inculcated the norms of the male fantasy society that we no longer have our own notion of a desirable self.

And I admit I have bought into it too, to an extent. I wax my legs and privates (I say it is for myself, but tbh if I was the only person left on planet earth and everyone else magically disappered, i would never bother to do it)

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CurrySpice · 06/07/2012 07:46

Oh op thanks for putting me straight. Being as I'm too stupid to work anything out for myself.

My eyes have nearly rolled out of my head

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paradisechick · 06/07/2012 07:47

Oh my!

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Flatbread · 06/07/2012 07:47

Male patriarchy, I meant

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OatyBeatie · 06/07/2012 07:47

Has anyone linked to this, yet: Dear boy in outer space?

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TandB · 06/07/2012 07:48

I don't let men tell me what to do or how to look.

I don't let ranty, judgemental women tell me what to do or how to look either.

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Flatbread · 06/07/2012 07:50

And the damn iPhone messes all the text too Blush

I did attend a lecture on media and women once, and it was such an eye opener! I always considered myself a free soul, till I realised the invidious messages that are hammered home since we are wee girls

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fluffiphlox · 06/07/2012 07:51

I think you need to take more water with it, OP.

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ErikNorseman · 06/07/2012 07:51

You are the stupid one. Really, what a load of utter shit.

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Showmethemhappyfeet · 06/07/2012 07:53

A lot of first Biscuit on this thread. That was my first up-thread too. Wonder if OP is going to come back...

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DeSelby · 06/07/2012 07:53

What's an Isabella piercing?

I have two sons and I'm hopefully going to raise them to respect women (and men!) and their choices. Am now a bit concerned that they alteady have a secret hair dying, labial trimming agenda that I know nothing about!

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pigletmania · 06/07/2012 07:56

Dont men shave or wax Hmm. Mabey we should all walk round like hairy cavemen

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pigletmania · 06/07/2012 07:59

What's wrong male/female to take pride in your appearance. If it makes the person feel good about themselves so be it, who are you to rain on their parade

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paradisechick · 06/07/2012 08:02

Do feminists never wear make up?

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Tangointhenight · 06/07/2012 08:05

And if OP is a teacher and they were teaching my daughter...I would have her ripped out of that school in a flash.

OP I hope you realise how narrow minded and idiotic you sound in front of thousands of people.

Trying hard to resist pointing my finger and laughing at you.

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PooPooInMyToes · 06/07/2012 08:06

Why do you think women are whoring themselves out?

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ThisWeekonFancyPuffin · 06/07/2012 08:08

OP, What the actual fuck are you chunttering on about Hmm

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pinkthechaffinch · 06/07/2012 08:09

I think this is a windup.

Surely no self respecting feminist would choose the username 'lovebunny' Confused

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eslteacher · 06/07/2012 08:12

What a strange post. As others have said, it doesn't describe any women I know in real life. And I am shocked by the multiple partners dig. Why so judgey on this point OP?

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bronze · 06/07/2012 08:14

Aibu to think the op is stupid?

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