to think our neighbour is spying on me through a wall?

[gnocci]

We live in a semi but a semi that backs onto another house, so our entire back wall is another house's entire back wall IYSWIM. So upstairs we share a wall on our bedroom, the landing and our bathroom.

The only noise I ever hear from their house is that noise of a pull switch light cord. And the only time I ever hear it is just after I go to the bathroom at night before I go to bed. Whatever the time. I never hear it before or after. Without fail it is just after I leave the bathroom. I go to bed at very random times (DH works away...). it could be 8pm, it could be 1am. Whatever time it is, I always hear that cord go within 20 seconds of me leaving the bathroom...

Uuummmmmm AIBU to think I might be being spied on..??!!! How do I find out for sure?!!

I'm sorry, they didn't show the peeping tom part. The guy who began fighting the property management guys was trying to keep them from entering a room of monitors. He had installed camera's inside fellow tenants showers and toilet area's, and had been watching them showering and using the toilet.

NOT that I think that is your mystery sound, no fear.

I'm still watching your thread sweetie

Well funnily enough since DH went round night before last it all seems rather quiet.......!!!!!! No light cord last night (not that I heard anyway).

helpful

biddysmama - I'd love to see how anyone could give any sort of 'helpful' response to this thread

The joke has worn thin now.

Is this still dragging on?

Ummmmm

Ok, everyone's got bored now. That's fine. I won't post again about it :( I was\am genuinely concerned about it, tried to figure out if it was light/tank/electric (all discounted), DH went in loft and even went round the house! Struggling to understand how that can mean my fear is "bullshit" tbh....

Anyway, whatever. I'm sure there's an innocent explanation. Glad DH is home now.

Gnocci, it's not bullshit if it is genuinely worrying you.

It is very odd, but not totally impossible.

Perhaps a redecoration of your bathroom could make you feel better and more safe?

if someone wanted to spy on me when I was 7mths pg, I'd probably have got the tassels out and given them a show with the sheer delight of someone thinking I was attractive enough to bother spying on.

(ps - move house, obviously)

Are you still hearing the same noise and is he still drilling??
Posts do go silent after a few days, don't worry we are all awaiting news of you finding out what it is
Believe me i have been through a simular situation and the reason why was never found out, if you look at my first post on here it will tell you what i experienced.
Everyone in my home felt they were being watched when in the bath, it was freaky, we lived in an old victorian house so to this day we do not know if it was truly the weird neighbour or a ghost as we had strange goings on to warrant the ghost senario but then again the nbr was weird also

I think if it is a camera you would find it. Did you search behind the extractor fan / shower switch thing?

sallyingforth - are you still here?

If you're not interested in reading it, don't fucking read it obviously

FWIW I don't think it's bullshit, but even if it was, it's the funniest thread I've read in ages!

Has anyone mentioned borrowers?

Some advice
www.wikihow.com/Detect-Hidden-Cameras-and-Microphones

I havent posted before but have been following your thread with interest,please let us know any developments.

I just read this whole thread . . . Creepy but very amusing!

OP - please keep us updated if you can. I'm dying to know what the noise is!

Have to say, I've never been in the loft of three houses I've lived in so wouldn't have a clue if it was carpeted or had a family or five living up there!

I've been lurking on this thread too and am fascinated and freaked out for OP, don't go OP!!! Let us know if there are any developments!

You are not allowed to go OP!!! I am not bored, very curious. You didn't answer re my post about whether you checked the other side of the switch, any disturbance etc?