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To be furious with the way I was treated at Zara?

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VeryAngry · 10/06/2012 00:06

Right, so how many times have you seen women at Zara (or any other store for that matter) trying on things like jackets or coats over their shirts in front of one of the store mirrors? I see it all the time.
Do you always take a coat/jacket into the fitting room especially if it's the only thing you want to try on and there is a long cue? I doubt it.

So today at a Zara store, I was trying on a jacket over my T-shirt in front of one of the store mirrors. I was not the only one doing this, there were at least 6 other women in the same store trying on things outside the fitting room.
An extremely rude zara employee came up to me and told me that I couldn't try anything on unless I took it into the fitting room. Despite her tone and rude manner of speaking, I politely assured her that I was not interested in trying on any dresses/blouses/jeans etc., I only wanted a new jacket which I could easily try over my T-shirt. She said it was against the rules to try anything outside the fitting room "for security reasons". This was completely odd to me as I have tried on jackets on the store floor several times in zara and I've never been stopped. Nevertheless, I let it go and carried on browsing.

Not even 5 minutes later I saw a woman trying on a skirt in front of the same mirror and the same Zara employee said nothing to her. Another woman came and tried on a top and wasn't stopped either.

I was upset. Firstly, I was unaware of any such rule at any store and secondly, if such a rule did exist why was she stopping only me? Why not the others? i have no issues with such a rule as long as it is enoforced on everyone and not selectively.

I approached the employee and asked her why she didn't stop the lady who had tired on the skirt and jacket on the shop floor instead of the fitting room, if it was indeed against the rules. She started addressing me very rudely and began a torrent of arguments saying it was for "security reasons". Now this befuddles me! Do the "security reasons" apply only to me? Did I look like a thief to her? I told her I didn't appreciate her tone and that she had no business speaking to me so rudely. She even snapped "Do you want the clothes or not?" I asked her to explain herself calmly and politely. Instead, she said that if I didn't "stop", she was going to call security Angry Angry. I was fuming by now. I told her to go right ahead and call security. While she did that, I asked another employee that I wanted to speak to the manager.
Throughout this time, people kept trying on various items of clothing on the shop floor and nobody stopped them. I thought this was blatant discrimination.

The manager was completely unhelpful and she wouldn't even give me the employee's name so that I could lodge a complaint. She kept saying she would have to see the CCTV footage herself before she could take any action. This was extremely insulting because it made me feel like I was some kind of liar- which I most certainly am not.
I told her I wanted an apology from the woman who spoke to me so rudely and insulted me in front of other customers. She said she couldn't arrange that unless she had heard the employee's side of the story. She told me that if I was that keen on taking action I could wait until the store closed. This was at 4pm. Zara closes at 9pm at westfields on a saturday. Interestingly, not once did she confirm that the employee was right and that zara did have any such rule regarding where jackets could be tried on.

What galls me is that all this time women kept trying on clothes in the store instead of the fitting room and and nobody said a word to them. I have been shopping at Zara for years now and never before have I been made aware of this rule.

OP posts:
Patapouf · 04/08/2016 16:42

ZOMBIE THREAD!!!
Start a new one jenny

augustwashout · 04/08/2016 16:49

Op I have to say I have never had a good experience in Zara, I have found staff rude and totally un helpful, I also had to complain about one once.

Beeziekn33ze · 04/08/2016 17:06

Jennymcgee - why, oh why??
Please start a nice new thread instead of this ZOMBIE!!
Now I'm wondering whether furious OP did ever CONTACT HEAD OFFICE!!!
Or cancel the cheque ...

2kids2dogsnosense · 04/08/2016 17:40

Speaking as someone who got barred from the chip shop after an argument over batter, I would certainly have challenged the "policy" if it looked as though it applied to me only!

Go in with all guns blazing, OP.

(Mind, personally I wouldn't spend 800 quid on a purse/bag - do you know how many Fry's Chocolate Creams you could get for that? LOTS!!!!! That's how many!)

2kids2dogsnosense · 04/08/2016 17:41

Oh cr*p - just realised as I posted that this is a zombie thread - must learn to look at the dates.

RichardBucket · 04/08/2016 17:46

I like zombie threads but only when there was a resolution Angry

GobblersKnob · 04/08/2016 17:54

Ffs just read the whole thing, thinking 'I'm sure I've read this before', probably did the first time. Oh well used up a cup of tea.

Serialweightwatcher · 04/08/2016 18:08

I think you're definitely in the right - no need whatsoever for her to be rude to you - I would email Head Office definitely. You're no way in the wrong, although others seem to be making out you may be - odd if you ask me.

woodhill · 04/08/2016 18:08

Sounds awful op and she should not have been so rude to you. Zara is like a jumble sale and the quality is poor.

In hindsight perhaps you should have left the shop and rang the head office before you got all the grief.

hobnobsaremyfavourite · 04/08/2016 18:12

FOUR FUCKING YEARS OLD
FOR ALL THAT IS HOLY WHY????

woodhill · 04/08/2016 18:17

Oops

tofutti · 04/08/2016 18:25

Zara staff are so unfriendly and unhelpful. They look at you like you're shit from their shoe. I would understand if they were on commission.

likehamnotjam · 04/08/2016 18:25

Very Angry,
I understand you being angry.

I had a similar experience today.
It was in a coffee shop and the barissta was so rude to us. He insisted on moving us, but instead of asking in a tone that you should be using to customers, he said:

''You! You need to move over there! Now!''

I was fuming and initially vowed never to go in that coffee shop again.

but, after sounding off to some friends about it, it seems he is a bit rude and shouty to everybody.
We are even wondering if it's something to do with his accent. He has that very, curt Polish/German way of addressing people, which can seem rude and abrupt at times.
What nationality was the shop assistant?
Could it be a similar thing?

e1y1 · 04/08/2016 18:27

Why would they have mirrors on the shop floor then?

Agree with PP, contact head office, any issues in the retail stores for the company I worked for were always dealt with through us when the customer was not satisfied by the store.

It will also help MASSIVELY if you tweet them, as this is then effectively public shame for them.

likehamnotjam · 04/08/2016 18:27

2012? Oh dear.

Why do people resurrect these old threads.
What's the point?

LoreleiGilmoreIsMyBFF · 04/08/2016 18:42

Gosh, what a terrible waste of ten minutes! A thread started in 2012? Thanks, jenny, you can look forward to hearing from my lawyers about irrefutable loss of 'precious moments'. I will now return to Pokemon Go.

WhoTheFuckIsSimon · 04/08/2016 18:51

If I saw someone with a Gucci bag I would assume it cost £20 from Turkey. Grin. Like all the Michael Kors bags I see the 16yos in town trotting about with.

Or maybe the Zara sales assistant thought you'd previously shoplifted the bag!

WhoTheFuckIsSimon · 04/08/2016 18:53

Ffs, Jenny start a new thread.

Or people will just answer the OP all night.

GeorgeTheThird · 04/08/2016 18:58

Surely she isn't still angry?

RepentAtLeisure · 04/08/2016 19:10

It sounds like the Zara shop assistant took an instant dislike to you and wanted to let you know about it, and the supervisor did the 'we all stick together' routine. The days of the customer always being right are long gone. Don't give them your business anymore, their prices are always inflated anyway. You can get the same stuff at H&M for less.

RepentAtLeisure · 04/08/2016 19:12

Oh, old thread...

MsJudgemental · 04/08/2016 19:27

This happened to me once, years ago. I complained to the manager and got an apology.

PovertyPain · 04/08/2016 19:29

FFS PEOPLE!

TiggyOBE · 04/08/2016 19:49

They are a bunch of crooks nowadays.

Zara stealing artist's designs

Serialweightwatcher · 04/08/2016 20:01

Oh heck - never think of reading the dates as it comes through email so assumed it was new ........... will definitely look for date in future ... to assume makes an ass of you and me Hmm