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To say well done to my super nephew...

259 replies

Theglassishalffull · 05/06/2012 19:13

My 10year old nephew had new splints fitted. The man who fit them was not his normal one, so when he came to fit them my nephew said to him"I think that they need to be cut more."
To which the fitter replied "Well I have had 24 years experience doing this so I do know what I am doing."
My nephew then turned to him and said " Well I have had 10 years experience at being disabled so I know what I am talking about.
I thought that was brilliant.

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Theglassishalffull · 05/06/2012 21:49

It happened mid way through the consolation blue, maybe that was not clear.

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Valpollicella · 05/06/2012 21:50

good for him I say. The fitter patronised him and he turned it right back on the fitter.

madmouse · 05/06/2012 21:50

annunziata don't you dare feel sorry for my fabulous, strong, sunny, happy, clever and resourceful ds. He doesn't want nor need your pity. You may need his though...

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 05/06/2012 21:51

forehead you are a spoiled brat.
Ner.

Theglassishalffull · 05/06/2012 21:51

Forehead you don't know my nephew So do not perlonally attack him like that.

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Theglassishalffull · 05/06/2012 21:52

*personally

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Annunziata · 05/06/2012 21:54

But what do you want me to say? That I don't care? Because I don't think any child should have to suffer.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 05/06/2012 21:55

OP, why did you post this thread? I'm curious. Anybody who doesn't agree with your point gets abused. People can only give their opinion based on what you posted; some agree with you, some don't, such is life.

thebody · 05/06/2012 21:55

Spot on mrs devere.

Can't be bothered with other ops as they obviously too stupid to read the posts or have the slightest bit of empathy with disabled children.

I will say this though

22 sets of parents lives including ours were turned upside down on one early morning in feb. disability can happen without warning to any child and I wouldn't wish it on any parent but your first lesson is the hardest, you have to fight and fight the medical profession for everything.

I hope the ops calling this child names never have to understand this.

Theglassishalffull · 05/06/2012 21:58

Lying posted because I am proud, I don't think I have argued back.

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OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 05/06/2012 21:59

aunnun how about a bit of empathy instead of the sympathy?

Theglassishalffull · 05/06/2012 22:00

The body tis true.

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thebody · 05/06/2012 22:01

You should be proud he sounds a little star.

forehead · 05/06/2012 22:02

You can attack me as much as you like. In my profession, i have worked on behalf of disabled people.
If your nephew was not disabled, i would have said exactly the same thing. I believe that your nephew was rude to speak to an adult in that manner. I cannot believe that you even started a thread tbh.

pinkyp · 05/06/2012 22:03

He sounds like a character to me Smile I think it's good he knows what he wants and it was the perfect response IMO Smile

sunscorch I think your well out of order calling a 10 year old boy an arse for replying to an adult in the same way he was spoke too. What a fantastic role model you must be Wink

TerraNotSoFirma · 05/06/2012 22:04

Some of the responses here are outrageous! Would you be happy at someone talking to your child like that?

I have and will always treat others as they treat me, If someone is arrogant to me, That is exactly how I shall respond to them.

I will teach my children the same.

TerraNotSoFirma · 05/06/2012 22:05

and OP, You should be damn proud.

Glitterknickaz · 05/06/2012 22:05

He was an absolute star.
Interesting to see that those who feel the response was inappropriate are those that are anti disablity anyway.

HRH2shoesofMn · 05/06/2012 22:05

yanbu
well done for your nephew.

blueemerald · 05/06/2012 22:05

Thanks for the clarification glass Then I can understand his frustration, (I have to deal with SLTs, OTs, social workers etc etc etc at work and I want to throttle them sometimes) however, whilst not chastising him, I would still not praise him for his response.

TheSecondComing · 05/06/2012 22:06

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GetDownNesbitt · 05/06/2012 22:06

I think that is ace. Well done your nephew.

Sassybeast · 05/06/2012 22:07

Well done to your nephew Smile

As an HCP, I have seen some shockingly patronising attitudes from colleagues over the years. Always makes me smile secretly when someone, young or old, has the balls to pull them up on it.

HRH2shoesofMn · 05/06/2012 22:07

AFO'S have to fit right, if they don't the lad will be in pain.

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 05/06/2012 22:07

I take it all back Forehead. you are obviously an expert what with working on behalf of disabled people and everything.
Because thats exactly the same thing.