This is what a 15 year old has just posted on face book to my 76 year old MIL

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I HAVE TOLD THE SCHOOL, I AM GOING TO SPEAK TO HIS MOTHER AND i THINK MIL SHOULD CTELL THE POLICE.

AIBU to think what a vile excuse for a child

If you're loving your pension keep your mouth shut. your name reminds me of something .. AN ESCAPED OLD PEOPLE'S HOME OLD WOMAN WHO HAS MADE A FACEBOOK ACCOUNT THOUGHT SHE'D DO THE OLD EXPERIENCED LIFE LIVER THING AND TRY BE FUNNY WHO HAS A ALBUM CALLED 'My eye' HAS SAGGY OLD TITS HASN'T HAD SEX SINCE THE POPE WAS ALIVE.
shut up you old bag, I'd put my dick in your arse and fuck you till you love me

Report him to the police, although I doubt they will do anything more than talk to him. We have had far worse for 4 years and all the boys have had is "words of advice".

I can't see what the school will do because it wasn't against another pupil. It is vile, if my DC had written that I'd want to know and would be furious!

Have tried to print it off but it would not work, can not find his mother on FB but my sister has copied it so if it is taken down I still have proff. I did copy and past it to an email to the school.

To be honest and I know I will be flamed for this but if the boy stood in front of me now I would take his blood head off. Mil is a 76 year old widow who does sod all to anyone, she was just happy to see a photo of DS1.

I would know I had failed as a parent and was a shitty human being if my children spoke to someone like this or if I thought it was in any way ok for them to speak to someone like this

I would report.

That is a horrific thing for a 15 year old to think and say. What kind of adult is that kid going to make in 3 years.

Agree take a screen shot and show it to the mother, but tbh I would also contact the police.

well the vicious little scrote is threatening to rape a pensioner, so the police need to know about it, definitely. Your poor MIL, and what a repulsive little scab that lad is. He clearly needs a beating.

I completely agree with you and I won't flame you for wanting to take the head off that child. Presuming it was him that wrote it and he wasn't hacked, he's an absolute cretin.

Your poor MIL. How is she doing?

she is friends with him I think it is because DS1 is friends with the boy who posted the photo and with MIL

Isn't she squeaky? I am then!

How horrid.

Report to facebook too, they may shut down his account.

DS1 is 6 foot 2 and not exactly little, he has some SN so is a bit of a target, if he wanted to he could take seven shades of shit out of this kid, but I raised him better. I shall report report report.

That is so sick.
Your poor MIL.
I would go to the police without hesitation

I'd report it to FB, school and police...tbh at 15 I'd wonder what the boy is seeing and hearing to even have a thought like this is his head.

Think that was a typo by OP valium and should read she isn't friends with him....
My understanding is a friend posted a picture that included DS1 and tagged him. MIL is friends with DS1 and therefore sees picture he is tagged in along with comments. Little shit also friends with original friend. Sees photo and comments. MIL responds....
Nothing to do with MIL settings.

Thank you Blue.

Mil is friends with DS1
Boy who posted photo is friends with DS1
Evil child is friends with boy who posted photo

DS1 and MIL are not friends with evil child

Firstly print it.

Secondly, report it to the police. This is harrassment.

Thirdly, report it to Facebook.

That is absolutely vile.

Get onto the police straight away. Hopefully a visit from them will scare the living daylights out of the bastard him. And report to Facebook. He will have his account suspended. Just a shame he will easily be able to set a new one up.

I would also march round to his house and be having words with his mother.

Hope your MIL is ok :(

Oops yes report it to the school as well.

That is awful, definitely try to get a screenshot( no idea how to do it, anyone else know?) to have better prove though.Hope the police charge him.

Police in our area take 'hate crime' against both people with disabilities and the elderly very seriously.

Do the ins and outs of who is friends with who really matter in this situation?

I agree police, I don't see any reason to contact the mother. What would she do? She may well come down on him like a tonne of bricks, but she may just view it as something kids do.

To take a screen shot - press the Print Screen button (top right on keyboards) and paste into Paint. The whole screen as you see it is replicated.

Re-reading what he has written, it does seem that MIL might need to be shown how to tighten up her own account if he has been able to see her photos too.

I think they do get because if MIL WAS friends with this little shit she needs to protect herself and lock down her account more securely.

Oh ok valium - I must admit I know fark all about how FB works so I will keep my trap shut.

Do the ins and outs of who is friends with who really matter in this situation

I think it does, because if my kid was friends with someone, or my MIL was friends with someone who posted such disgusting comments, there would be trouble. I like to think my stepkids have reasonably decent friends and would be horrified if any of them associated with someone who thought that this sort of behaviour was acceptable.

I called the police about an extremely rude and racist comment made to me via FB and their response was if they spent all day dealing with FB compliants they would do nothing else.
No interest from the police what so ever.