To tell my ex-husbands new partner that he uses prostitutes and gay 'cottaging' sites?

[Baronetta]

Those were the reasons why I divorced him. He's moving in with a woman with four young children.

Should I say something? I don't really know her very well.

Er no, I happen to disagree with you and object to some of your language. I can't speak for worra

So, the fact this bloke has paid for sex, justifies the use of language I consider to be biggotted and offensive.

For example, if a black person had made sexual choices you disapproved of, would you feel that gave you free reign to use racist terms to describe them?

Actually you can speak for me Compo cos I totally agree and it saves me typing

It's not just the fact you didn't bother reading what the predictive text came up with before posting, I really mean you are coming across as a little strange/angry...particularly in some of your responses to compo

Time to chill maybe? It's just a discussion after all.

You tried bum sex but that's a description of a sex act enjoyed by people with all sexual leanings

That must have been quite an experience for you Compo

Worra. Yes you are right that not reading a text back before posting is actually a criminal offense and of course gives you the upper hand and means you win the argument by default.

and yes i am angry with cosmos just as i would be angry with anyone who accused me of being homophobic and racist based on nothing, just so they can try to win a debate. Its a pretty low end pathetic way to try to win and of course says more about her then me.

Oh and i started the last paragraph without a capital letter . . . quick point it out!

I am nor hinting that you are racist, I am suggesting that you wouldn't use someone's ethnicity as a stick to beat them with, because you disagree with their actions, but you feel comfortable to do the same with someone's sexuality.
You use the term 'bum sex man' is discriminatory and biggotted as terms like this (see also bum chum or bummer) are used to stigmatise or abuse gay men exclusively. Especially as you have NO evidence that the op's ex partner has engaged in anal sex with anyone.

That must have been quite an experience for you

Well I'll try anything but Morris dancing or incest once!

I was going to make a joke about anal sex

Butt fuck it

I can't be arsed

Hilarious that you think bum sex is a term only for homosexual men! Ladies have bums too you know!

Your argument is so thin is laughable!

You used the term in connection with cottaging because that's what was being discussed.

Therefore 'random bum sex man', had nothing to do with anal sex with women did it?

But don't let that fact stop you back peddling.

No back peddling needed honey.

bum sex is a term only for homosexual men!

Oh so heterosexuals regularly get called 'bummers' 'fudge packers' or 'shit stabbers' or a million other terms I could think of to do with anal sex, do they?

Would you like a JCB so that you dig yourself any deeper into the hole you are in?

Ladies have bums too you know!

I know, as you are doing an excellent job of talking out of it.

Cos. Wow you're still going! Has it been fun arguing with yourself?

Btw to anyone else reading i didn't say any one of those horrible terms cos has mentioned. Bum sex is hardly in the same league as Shit stabbers, a term which is meant offensively. Whereas bum sex is a term used to describe er bum sex! Whoever that is between men women whatever.

Oh and that apparent quote from me should say bum sex ISN'T a term only for homosexual men. Get it right! Or are you deliberately misquoting to completely change what i have said?

Oh and the hole i am in is imaginary to you . . . [wonders off seriously worried about cos' reality]

Do you know i was just thinking about this . . . I disagreed with you on whether or not this woman should say anything. I felt she should and you and worra think she shouldn't and that its none of her business. Fine we disagree.

But since then, you have both tried so hard to discredit me, by calling me homophobic (for the use of the term bum sex which is just laughable as a homophobic comment as you insist it is) by criticising my mis use of predictive text, by implying that i am not "well", amongst other things.

You have to wonder at the size of the ego of people who can NOT bear to accept that another person does not share their views, and so will criticise that person in every other way they can. Ways which have no bearing on the original argument. But it doesn't matter to you as long as in YOUR eyes you have won.

Seriously, go for a walk or something. Get some fresh air. Life isn't all about winning. Not everything you say has be agreed by others. Not every conversation on here has to go your way. You don't have to get so desperate to rip another poster to pieces because they don't agree with you. It doesn't matter and well, frankly its not a nice way to behave.

Poopoo I still maintain you were acting weirdly and that has nothing to do with me not agreeing with you.

Your outbursts (now deleted) were rather strange in my opinion.

There was no way of telling whether the odd language was down to predictive text, alcohol, anger or anything else...but you explained so fair enough.

And regarding the last part of your post, I'm not sure it's me who needs the fresh air as I have remained calm and polite all the way through this interesting discussion...hence all of my posts remaining

WorraLiberty and ComposHat, the way you have goaded PooPooInMyToes over the course of today is frankly a disgrace

Had your fun did you ?

nice

I'm glad your posts were not deleted, because it means they stand for everyone to see how shitty you have been, repeatedly, towards another poster.

Sorry any fucker I am not having that.

Poopoo used homophobic and bigoted language and I objected to, she responded with personal abuse, subsequently got deleted (not reported by me incidently)

Someone whose opening gambit is too call other posters a 'shit' is not some helpless victim deserving of pity.

Thank you Anyfucker.

Compos. You know full well the reason i called you a shit was because you called me homophobic. An accusation which is based on thin air. Its a horrible thing to accuse someone of and so i reacted in a way i think a lot of people would to a nasty slanderous accusation.