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To wonder why MN has turned into such a bitch fest recently.

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Lucy88 · 07/03/2012 23:12

I have been coming on MN on and off for about 2 years and have always found it to be very useful for reading others advice and asking others for advice, reading reviews and getting holiday advice. There will always be times when people will disagree or not like other peoples advice, but I have been truly shocked recently at some of the posts I have read.

I am quite an outspoken person (in real life), but do try to adhere to the mantra of 'Don't put anything online that you would not be prepared to say to anyones face' but OMG even I have been surprised at the amount of bitchy, nasty responses some people have received on here recently.

I know that it is difficult when communicating just through the written word, as there is no body language or intonation to always give the correct message, but some posters really do think it is ok to be really nasty and make personal comments. Name calling seems to be the 'in thing' at the moment and I have to admit, that I just don't get it - not from grown women.

The majority of people who make these types of comments, probably wouldn't dare to say these things to people's faces, but think it is perfectly ok to do it online.

Can we at least have a week where we think about what we post and if we can't post anything constructive and polite, then perhaps don't post at all.

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Hullygully · 11/03/2012 13:47

HAPPY BIRTHDAY FANJ

xxxx

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 11/03/2012 13:58

Thanks Hulls

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 11/03/2012 17:40

you are ganging up on the people whose birthday it isn't, you are joining the birthday well wishing quiche and not sure whose shout out it was although i paid you to say happy birthday

lesley33 · 11/03/2012 17:41

It isn't my birthday [wails]

lesley33 · 11/03/2012 17:41

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Grin
Maryz · 11/03/2012 17:42

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lesley33 · 11/03/2012 17:44

Have reported you Maryz for your abusive comments

And ffs you haven't even taken my advice. I have seen LOTs of your posts the last few days. And has even ONE of them been funny Hmm

lesley33 · 11/03/2012 17:46

5 posts later...
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lesley33 · 11/03/2012 19:19

I have noticed the quantity Hmm

Mind you I'm not slacker in that Department either Grin

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 11/03/2012 23:18

Ooh I have a huge enormo head now, DD's carer was shocked when she saw my happy 40th cards as she thought I was 30..maybe she needs glasses!

lesley33 · 11/03/2012 23:26

Another stealth boast Grin
Did you enjoy the pandas and the meal?

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 11/03/2012 23:34

Not stealth...an outright boast! Grin

Pandas were great although asleep like panda rugs on the floor, like someone had drugged 'em!

Meal was amazing, 2 hours of luxury..with matching price tag but worthless special treat!

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 11/03/2012 23:36

*worth it as not worthless, my iPad is mean spirited plus I had too much wine

lesley33 · 11/03/2012 23:37

Sounds great. And congratulations on looking 30.

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