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to think the tax credits system is not designed to support people that have as many children as they fancy and expect the state to pick up the tab?

350 replies

LadyLazyLongLegs · 05/03/2012 21:24

An acquaintance has just announced she is pregnant with her fifth child. Her 4 children are by 2 separate fathers, and #5 is by a different father again. Her partner has a job in which he is unlikely to earn much more than the minimum wage. She doesn't work, and says they are heavily reliant on tax credits and housing benefit. Yet they are having baby #5, so effectively expecting that the tax credits system will just pick up the tab, as she has made several comments about how the tax credits will go up when #5 arrives.

Someone else I know who also says they are heavily reliant on TCs has recently had baby#3 and would like baby#4 in the near future. Again she says they can afford it as their tax credits will go up. The only working income coming into their home is that from her husband's 16 hours a week job in a shop, everything else is benefits.

What I'm trying to say is, those of us that support ourselves with no reliance on benefits have a cut off point of children that we can afford and we stop at that point. We stuck at 3 as that's all we can afford even though I would have liked one more. I feel that those that keep having child after child, totally reliant on tax credits, are abusing the system.

OP posts:
Honeydragon · 05/03/2012 23:31

(sorry did say assuming about the HB could't remember who said was claiming and who was not)

Moominsarescary · 05/03/2012 23:31

So do we Liam and it won't be for long, but the op still thinks I shouldn't have more children so unless you had yours when you were better off (like we did) op thinks you shouldn't have children

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:31

I can't I'm on my phone

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:32

explain fantasy

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:32

I don't rely on benefits though. Hmm

brdgrl · 05/03/2012 23:33

No, sorry, I will never understand why you are pissed off.

You are happy to enjoy the perks and benefits of living in this system, but incensed about someone else doing the same. If you take the benefits to which you are entitled, and they take the benefits to which they are entitled, you really have nothing to get so worked up about. If you think they are committing fraud, report them if you wish.

If you think they should not be entitled, but you should - then you want to change the system. Ok, so, try - but be careful what you wish for.

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:33

dim the lights tc and cb clue in the benefits

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:34

They rely souly on benefits!!!!

petite your thread from earlier on today.

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:35

which jazzy? Confused

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:35

souly - is that a fish?

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:35

The low one

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:36

Sorry phone must think soBlush

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:36

Do you mean my thread where I was asking if anyone else was feeling down? Confused And what? Do I get a goat?

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:37

Go onto that thread!!!!!

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:37

WTF has that got to do with you claiming benefits?

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:38

Explain.

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:38

Oh me gee! It hasn't! I can't get pm on silly phone!

Honeydragon · 05/03/2012 23:38

This thread is verging on the sureel now

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:38

What???? Are you dimming those lights again.

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:39

Haha! I have a thing for getting stuff to go pear shaped. I'm sorry if I upset anyone btw. It just does my head in sometimes!

petitema · 05/03/2012 23:39

We have been invaded.

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:40

petite It doesn't matter Sad

Honeydragon · 05/03/2012 23:41

petitema

WTAF are you gibbering about Confused
but amused Grin

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:41

Owt good on telly ? Smile

LiamsMummyJaz · 05/03/2012 23:42
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