To think I am as invisible on MN as I am at home?

[gaunyerseljeannie]

You know how it is, you speak.. no-one appears to hear, you clean, no-one cares, you cook, its yucky etc etc etc.
Well yes and I just accepted that as part of the motherhood deal, but thought MN was somewhere I might get noticed/ heard/ interacted with, but so many times I post and never get a thanks or even a WTF? I am beginning to feel like I am still at home............. anyone out there?

I am just pretty amazed anyone wants people on mumsnet to notice them or cares if they do/don't! I've had people reply to comments mainly by expressing 'controversial' opinions. I don't think that's a good thing, I'd like to piss people off less (though really more concerned about that in real life where it actually matters than on here where people are just arsing about) but they'd have to stop being so silly first .

Op i think being ignored on mn is the very least of your concerns.Why do you feel ignored in rl? I reply to specific comments too.

Start a thread on aibu about parent and child carparking spaces.You will soon get more replys than you ever thought possible

I think quoting another poster is always a good approach in actually, as it directly engages and shows you are listening.

I try to answer anyone who has referenced me too

But then sometimes, if I've returned to a thread and it's moved on really fast it seems pointless.

I have realised
1.I can't cope with all the attention,
2.I am crap at posting,
3.I am now as I am indeed doing what others do, sparky sparrow, even though I did reply to you

1. I think I might have to change my name to get back to a nice quiet place where no one knows me and I can have a nice sweet cup of

Lesson well learned girls... thanks for all the good advice and the slagging off

OP - I also don't like the attention that comes along with starting a thread. Too much responsibility. I do however, like to be noticed within a thread I'm on.

Do not change your name, no need. I will remember it

I didn't mean it in a mean way, just surprised that you disappeared. In my defence I had had a drink last night, I seem to get brave

Thanks for the reply

and keep you name! You are known by it now!

aaargh, feels like infamy everlong
OriginalJamie Me too

sparky and all others I am away again for noo! Don't start thinking I'm not answering, I have small 2 min windows for looking at posting usually at 4-12 hour intervals, i am going to plurk and shut up, but if you see me remind me to not get crabbit
Bye xx

I'm partial to a bit of Baby Names. Cheers me right up.

Maryz I will be following that advice form now on! Especially the bit about previewing. My downfall because I don't want to sound too much like a twat.

OP - some people on her do forget that some of you us have Real Lives

here not her