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To expect a midwife to carry out termination duties?

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foglike · 18/01/2012 11:30

To think a midwife has to carry out these duties and not claim religious discrimination because she's catholic?

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whatmess · 19/01/2012 23:20

Charlene, it is totally irrelevant whether you think it is murder or not. They signed up for a job, they should do the job (the whole job), if they don't like it, they leave. Very very simple.

charleneanna · 19/01/2012 23:21

I am not religious at all, i just do not agree with murder.

RevoltingPeasant · 19/01/2012 23:22

Here's an honest question - are there no places where MWs and drs who feel strongly about this can work? In the private sector I mean?

I grew up in the States so the idea that you woudl have a 'Catholic hospital' isn't weird to me. Is there anything like that here, BadDay?

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 19/01/2012 23:22

Its not like if the midwives refuse to look after someone else they have nothing else to do! They just do another job on the day.

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 19/01/2012 23:23

As long as the service provision is there, does it really matter which individuals provide it?

McHappyPants2012 · 19/01/2012 23:23

I don't know what to think of abortions, but I know I could not care for a women before, during or after an abortion....... I would be so nervous of what to say or what to do.

Moominsarescary · 19/01/2012 23:29

In that case you shouldn't be a mw, what if you didn't know what to say or do if someone's baby died

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 19/01/2012 23:30

Peasant (can't bring myself to call you revolting)
There are very few opportunities for midwives to work in the UK outside of the NHS.
No 'religious' hospitals that I'm aware of.

whatmess · 19/01/2012 23:33

No you should not be allowed to pick and choose what you do. What happens to those mothers who are devastated at having to terminate for medical reasons who then are faced with midwives refusing to have anything to do with them. Sorry but these people are in the wrong profession.

I have been in hospital for an EPRC following a MC. It was the worst experience of my life which was made even worse my insensitive comments from a nurse. You only have to visit the conception threads to see that this sort of thing is not uncommon.

All religious health professionals need to just suck it up and provide the care they are paid to provide without judging people.

charleneanna · 19/01/2012 23:36

If its a partial misscarriage, then obviously yes, but if its a complete abortion on a baby with heartbeat then no, thats murder.

yellowraincoat · 19/01/2012 23:36

Most people with a heart will agree its murder.

Wow. So much for not using emotive language.

RevoltingPeasant · 19/01/2012 23:39

But I am Revolting, I am sitting here in my PJs drinking Wine

Hmm I know you will disagree but I think whatmess is right. I have been that teenaged girl (not raped thankfully) scared as shit about being pg and on the receiving end of snippy comments from a HCP who assumed I was 'sleeping around with protection', her words.

I don't think a woman who has been forced to make that difficult choice should ever have to confront a GP who is basically telling her she is wrong. And I don't think MWs in the pay of the state get to decide which taxpayers they treat and when.

I know that's emotive but I think the right of women to have safe, legal, readily available healthcare absolutely trumps the private scruples of HCPs, much though I respect their moral consciences.

BadDayAtTheOrifice · 19/01/2012 23:40

The thing is, they wouldn't be 'faced' with anyone refusing to have anything to do with them. They would never know or come into contact with them, unless there was an emergency in which that staff member would not be able to refuse care.

The shift co-ordinator on a labour ward would be aware of any staffs objections (and these are few and far between btw) and would allocate staff on the shift appropriately. Its not like those staff are 'getting out of work' and the same option to 'opt out' does not extend to looking after women having a late miscarriage or a stillbirth. Exactly the same 'work', but different from an ethics point of view. They are not shirking their responsibilities!

edam · 19/01/2012 23:41

charlene - murder has a very precise legal meaning. An abortion is not murder. Your opinion is one thing, the facts are another.

charleneanna · 19/01/2012 23:42

Abortions should not be done as a form of contraception.

BupcakesandCuntWorms · 19/01/2012 23:44

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BadDayAtTheOrifice · 19/01/2012 23:45

Peasant, thats part of my point. Do you want HCP's who don't agree with what you're doing but forced to look after you anyway because its 'part of her job', or one who doesn't have that view point and will give you respectful care?

McHappyPants2012 · 19/01/2012 23:45

Abortion is not murder.

charleneanna · 19/01/2012 23:49

Abortion is murder, you are taking a life, stopping a heart, so it is murder.

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foglike · 19/01/2012 23:52

This thread's took a bit of a turn for the worse.

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entropygirl · 19/01/2012 23:55

Of course abortion is not murder. It is not murder from a legal perspective and it is not murder from an ethical position either.

Moominsarescary · 19/01/2012 23:55

Ignore ignore ignore I say, let her froth to herself

charleneanna · 19/01/2012 23:55

BupcakesandCuntWorms You sound like you dont want to hear the truth, how many abortions have you had then .

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