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To think that the West is seriously fucked up on the bosom front?

918 replies

Hullygully · 12/01/2012 12:49

Bags of poison sewn into our infant feeding parts.

How fucked up is that?

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bemybebe · 13/01/2012 16:34

I am chilled katy just found your post rather funny... Wink

katykuns · 13/01/2012 16:39

that's good lol... think I may have pissed off entropyglitter tho :S

entropyglitter · 13/01/2012 16:50

Oh good grief no! I am not annoyed at all....see I look like this :)
When I am annoyed I look like this Angry

Im just pointing out that wanting to feel 'feminine' is a bad idea when the concept of 'feminine' is not only a rapidly moving goal post but determined by popular consensus and the media...

I dont think there is any difference between saying I want to have bigger boobs so men will find me more attractive and saying I want bigger boobs so I feel more 'feminine'.

Its just a way of rationalizing your desire as being for yourself rather than being imposed from outside peer pressure....but we will not be fooled ooooh no. Grin

bemybebe · 13/01/2012 16:52

I also happen to agree with entropy in "I dont think there is any difference between saying I want to have bigger boobs so men will find me more attractive and saying I want bigger boobs so I feel more 'feminine'. "
Wink

entropyglitter · 13/01/2012 16:53

other non-feminine traits are: being intelligent, out spoken, spirited and liking sport. Or at least they were in the Austen era......

yellowraincoat · 13/01/2012 17:08

I didn't feel less feminine with small boobs...in fact, I have no idea what feeling feminine is. I just feel like me.

Hullygully · 13/01/2012 17:33

We all express ourselves in different ways with different language. We need to remember that too.

Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

Om Shanti

Ommmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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LaCiccolina · 13/01/2012 17:53

Its the pornification of women. False this and that. Devoids us of personality and intelligence.

And we save to pay for it! Bee-zarro!

EssentialFattyAcid · 13/01/2012 18:02

I am a B cup and have no envy at all of anyone with bigger boobs - they would just weigh me down and get in the way.

I am very sad to live in a society where so many women aspire to having fake boobs.

I can understand reductions though.

Chandon · 13/01/2012 18:05

Your nickname is very ironic here Ciccolina :)

PotterAndHisWand · 13/01/2012 18:23

I have breast implants and love my breasts. DH prefers smaller breasts but I am very happy.

My breasts were very small, an AA cup if that and I always wanted breasts, I love the way they look and they way they feel. I don't think this makes me any 'less' of a woman.

PotterAndHisWand · 13/01/2012 18:24

I'm a D cup now by the way

PotterAndHisWand · 13/01/2012 18:29

In response to an earlier question no it has not affected my ability to breastfeed and if there had been a chance it would I would not have had them. I've breastfed three children with no problems at all and am still breastfeeding DS3.

As far as I know no one has intentionaly had poisinous sacks sewn into their chest, and as for PIP's (which I have) there is no evidence that the silicone is poisinous.

LadyBeagleEyes · 13/01/2012 18:36

I dunno Potter, I suppose I just want to ask why did you want them done really?

PotterAndHisWand · 13/01/2012 18:40

Like I said, I wanted breasts. My mother and Grandmothers all has large breasts and I felt quite 'boyish'. I assumed they would eventually develop but never did. I love the way full breasts look and feel, soft and curvy, I never wanted to look like I had implants, I just wanted breasts. That was 8 years ago and I still love them.

silentcatastrophe · 13/01/2012 18:56

I have minature boobs too. To add insult to injury, one of them was removed and I was offered a replacement because the operation was basically disfiguring... so... I have a rubber tit. Had I been older at diagnosis, I may have decided it was too much. I would not normally have chosen a major operation to alter a functioning body.

PotterAndHisWand · 13/01/2012 19:15

I really hate the way women are still being vilified & judged for choices they have made about their own bodies. I love my breasts, I don't care if they are part silicone so why should anyone else?

Im not some idiot who's life's ambition is to look like a Barbie doll and I thin kit is utterly ignorant to assume the majority of women who have had breast augmentation are. It really boils my piss, if you'll excuse the phrase.

trice · 13/01/2012 19:27

I had a mastectomy. It does give you a different view of boobs. I think these women are very feminine. Damaged perhaps, but definitely beautiful.

mishtake · 13/01/2012 19:47

Me too Trice - the Scar Project is brilliant.

bluemousemummy · 13/01/2012 19:47

potter, am with you. I had mine done last year having bf 2 children for over a year each. I was small beforehand, but completely flat chested after bf. I loved bf but hated how I looked afterwards. I have no regrets about having surgery, I don't have PIP ones and did a lot of research into the surgeon and type used, and I had them put in under the muscle so that I would be able to bf again, which I intend to. I can honestly say that for me it was the right decision - like potter, I am no Barbie doll and I don't think you would be able to tell they are not real - I went from an AA to a C cup so hardly massive, but I am really happy with them.

silentcatastrophe · 13/01/2012 19:50

Thank you for that link trice. I don't think I would have dared to wear nipple tassles had I not got a rubber boob! It's a bit lumpy as it's meant to have more than 25ml saline, and it can go up to 250ml. It's quite entertaining to see your front rise and fall!

mishtake · 13/01/2012 19:57

@ katykuns "having virtually no boobs makes you feel less feminine"

What a ridiculous comment.
I have have no boobs at all (following bilateral mastectomy) and I can assure you that I feel just as female as I always did.

LaVitaBellissima · 13/01/2012 20:01

I don't normally comment when I haven't read a whole thread but I can't do 16 pages Smile

I was always pretty flat chested 34A/32B and it never bothered me and I carried it off as I have always been fairly slim.

When I was pregnant I loved my boobs, I went up to a D cup and I felt much more confident in my self in clothes especially. I Breastfed my twins for 12.5 months but hate them now, they are too small to be saggy, probably an A cup but are like jelly in texture, and I would love a boob job. I'm back to a size 10 but my stomach isn't flat anymore and I can't wear tight clothes as my stomach sticks out more than my boobs!

funnypeculiar · 13/01/2012 20:02

Wow, Trice - that site is really fabulous - what great photos, thanks.

wheresmypelvicfloorgone · 13/01/2012 21:28

mishtake
CrispLeCrisp
Great posts, inspirational, made me cry (but not in a bad way!)