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To be annoyed after visiting the Feminism section?

571 replies

Laquitar · 25/12/2011 23:39

Sorry, i know its Christmas but i got annoyed.

OP posts:
AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 26/12/2011 18:54

I find being called a facist a complete insult, so cheers for that

yellowraincoat · 26/12/2011 18:54

Er, that's what I said AnyFucker.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 26/12/2011 18:56

did you yellow ?

I must have missed it

LEttletownofBOFlehem · 26/12/2011 18:57

Maybe we can all just stop and do something else now that feminists have been likened to Nazis? I call Godwin.

BoneyBackJefferson · 26/12/2011 18:57

AnyFuckerForAMincePie

"am I lying" - from past knowledge of your posts - no you are not.

"the post was repeated a few posts below" - sorry didn't see it.

"you could have agreed with me just now...but you chose not to
why is that ?" -

if I was walking down the street and you said "that person looks awful" and I don't see them am I supposed to just agree with you?

Tortington · 26/12/2011 18:58

facists who wear large flower print dresses at that

yellowraincoat · 26/12/2011 18:59

Wow, AnyFucker, I don't know why you think I was disagreeing with you. I said that there's no point in feminists arguing against people making pathetic remarks. You are saying the same thing. We are agreeing.

BoneyBackJefferson · 26/12/2011 19:00

Barf

I agree that no killing is ok.

No DV or DA is OK so why is female on male DV/DA often overlooked?

thunderboltsandlightning · 26/12/2011 19:00

Still calling us names Custardo?

That's nasty.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 26/12/2011 19:00

if you believe I am not lying, then the comment was made

it existed

it's ok though, if you don't want to agree that it was a disgraceful comment

Tortington · 26/12/2011 19:01

italians were facists but not nazis

revoke your godwin immediatley

invoking godwin willy nilly

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 26/12/2011 19:02

yellow you are right, sorry

I did miss that post, I wasn't being sarcastic, have just realised it looks that way

yellowraincoat · 26/12/2011 19:02

The Nazis WEREN'T fascists?!?!?

Are you serious?

FellatioNelson · 26/12/2011 19:03

Well speaking as a 'non-feminist' (yes, that's non-Feminist, not anti-feminist) I was offended by the 'seeing to' comment and I can understand how many times feminists have to read that kind of infantile tedious crap, but the thing is, that's all it is, and we know it. That is trolling and derailing in the true sense, and the best way to deal with it is to refuse to engage, as it's a waste of energy, directing anger at some sad loser who is probably intimidated by intelligent women. So I didn't engage. Simple.

I think most people recognise an childish, thinly veiled attempt at trolling when they see it. Just because they didn't chose to waste breath arguing with him doesn't mean they don't object to what he said.

LineRunner · 26/12/2011 19:03

I know there's a specific arguments now undersway here, but I would like to say in general the Feminism Board has some excellent threads and yes, a few that aren't so challnging.

I have received advice on the Feminism Board about licensing policy and Sexual Entertainment Venues, which was really good.

I have also seen some pretty vile comments of the hyenas-in-petticoats variety, and ignored them because they were so very lamely faux 'provocative'.

Tortington · 26/12/2011 19:03

awesome

yes yes - i actually said the nazis aren't facists Hmm

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 26/12/2011 19:05

Fellatio, when given a later opportunity to revile such a comment though, I don't understand why someone can't just say it

yellowraincoat · 26/12/2011 19:05

What's with the Hmm? Just seems an odd thing to say when they patently were.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 26/12/2011 19:07

BOF had it right Xmas Grin

LEttletownofBOFlehem · 26/12/2011 19:08

Maybe we can call it a semi-Godwin? It might still be good if people would stop trashing a whole section of mumsnet- it is rather rude.

BarfTheHeraldAngelsHeave · 26/12/2011 19:08

Its not overlooked Boney, but its hardly surprising that a feminism section concentrates more on examining the female perspective than the male.

If you wouldn't be surprised to find that City aren't a hot topic of conversation on the United forums, even though they are both football teams, then you can't be surprised that Mens issues are not a hot topic of conversation on a feminist board. It doesn't take away the validity of the topic to discuss it in the right place.

MillyR · 26/12/2011 19:09

I'm so glad this bar fight isn't happening in an actual bar.

FellatioNelson · 26/12/2011 19:10

And technically Custy is right, they were National Socialists, whereas to be Fascist you have to be extreme right wing.

BoneyBackJefferson · 26/12/2011 19:10

AnyFucker

no sexual abuse towards any poster whether they are on a forum/blog or involved in any other form of discussion is ok. I whole heartedly agree with you.

LEttletownofBOFlehem · 26/12/2011 19:11

All Nazis are fascists, but not all fascists are Nazis, Yellow. So while the feminists on mumsnet aren't being compared to Hitler, they are being told they are a bit Mussolini-ish. Still, I'm told he got the trains running on time- so that's a silver lining, I suppose.

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