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Original poster

to want to sleep with this married man?

507 replies

pumpkincarver · 22/12/2011 22:09

so. Met a wonderful guy, married, no kids. Am on the verge to start an affair, a fling (I'm not sure what yet) with him. I've never felt such strong attraction towards anyone else, hence my strong desire to go ahead.

I'm separated and single.
Am wondering how this rates on Mumsnet's grand moral scale.
Opinions appreciated, and no offence will be taken : )

OP posts:
runningwilde · 22/12/2011 23:24

fabby you crude pottymouth!

Keep it up, I fucking love it!

OP - why do you want to fuck a man who is such a
Fucking cunt to his wife? Get some self-respect girl

PishWife · 22/12/2011 23:25

I have started a begging advice thread Fab, help me please.

Moominsarescary · 22/12/2011 23:27

Where is it phish

PishWife · 22/12/2011 23:28

Chat!

tallwivglasses · 22/12/2011 23:28

So, OP, aside from this 'overwhelming attraction', what else exactly has this guy got going for him that's, you know, worth screwing up one or more people's lives?

I'm really interested to know.

Original poster
pumpkincarver · 22/12/2011 23:29

Enjoy, you see, I'm actually single. When I was with my ex dh I never cheated on him. So why does the responsibility of this fling fall on me when he's the married one? I mean, if your DH cheated on you (with a single woman), should your not, say, just get a bit angry at him instead of the OW?

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maras2 · 22/12/2011 23:29

And shut up about the 'overwhelming attraction' you feel.You sound like a 15 year old.

midlandsmumof4 · 22/12/2011 23:31

And I so need to apologise to AF-my sat (troll) nav is playing up..Grin.

Original poster
pumpkincarver · 22/12/2011 23:31

maras2, maybe you haven't experienced it since you were 15?

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AnyFuckerForBreastorLeg · 22/12/2011 23:32

pumpkin put me in your article won't you ?

pwetty-pleeeeease

maras/midland.... np Xmas Wink

WorraLiberty · 22/12/2011 23:32

It doesn't 'fall on you'

But at the same time, you're choosing to walk into this...knowing the devastation it could well cause.

The man's a lowlife shit to even consider shagging you or anyone else while he's married to the one he vowed to be with forever.

YOU are no better than him to consider enabling him to treat his wife like shit.

Original poster
pumpkincarver · 22/12/2011 23:36

AnyFucker, consider it done!

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maras2 · 22/12/2011 23:37

Perhaps not but I'd like to think that if I did feel like that,I'd have the decency to not even contemplate shagging another woman's husband.

Original poster
pumpkincarver · 22/12/2011 23:39

thanks ladies,I'll sleep on it. (actually it'll keep me awake) x

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EauDeLaPoisson · 22/12/2011 23:39

Im confused- doesnt everyone normally slag fabbychic off and call her a dick? Now shes subject of a love-in?? Confused

EnjoyResponsiblyIfSleighFlying · 22/12/2011 23:42

Pumpkin, you see, I wouldn't give a shiny shit about your whiny, self righteous, cunty past only that you would be a willing participant in fucking up my present and future.

Yes, I would blame my husband, but you'd do well to be looking over your shoulder at all times because you can be damn sure I'd blame you too.

Merry Christmas. Oh and there's a cab to Fuckrightoff waiting for you, don't let the door hit you on the arse in the way out.

aquashiv · 22/12/2011 23:43

Oh gawd.

Moominsarescary · 22/12/2011 23:44

When she picks the right subject fabbys comments can be great

ballstoit · 22/12/2011 23:45

What makes you think he has no kids? He told you that? Or because you know his wife?

If it's the first...he's clearly a lying cock, and probably lying about that too

If it's the second...then you're more disgusting than I first gave you credit for.

Either way, why don't you just look for a single man and save yourself a lot of trips to the STI clinic hassle.

aquashiv · 22/12/2011 23:48

OH gawd help us its Christmas...

TheOriginalNutcracker · 23/12/2011 00:01

Don't do it. He isn't worth it.

Supposing you fell for each other and he left his wife. Would you ever be able to trust him ?? Nope

Or, what about if you fall for him and he doesn't for you. You will feel like a complete idiot, cry more than you ever thought possile, and lose any bit of self respect that you ever had.
He though will still carry on as if nothing happend, stay with his wife and then possily move on to another bit on the side.

runningwilde · 23/12/2011 00:21

I would say that I often strongly disagree with fabychic's posts but I like her a lot still as she never gets offended or nasty to anyone, she thinks how she thinks and says it - albeit sometimes very controversially - and is fine if you don't agree with her.

Fabby - give us some more crude reasons why she shouldn't sleep with this man - I love em!

OP - this man is cunt and why do you want to join him in cuntsville?

ViviPrudolf · 23/12/2011 00:24

Yeah, I reckon if he cheated on me with a single woman I'd "just get a bit angry at him"

Confused

Are you on glue?

& [fsnigger] @ Bump and Grind. Seeing Fabby in a whole new light.

Jemma1111 · 23/12/2011 00:26

Op, what a classy lady you are Hmm

I would guess that no matter what advice anyone gives you on here to leave well alone and have some self respect, you will probably go for it.

After this so called 'wonderful guy' has shagged you a few times (probably in some disused car park) you will, I imagine, start to fall for him and get too heavy for his liking. This is when he will toss you aside as cheaply as he picked you up.

Also remember how Karma is a bitch only if you are one

MrsJAlfredPrufrock · 23/12/2011 00:28

He might take you out dogging on your first date. Grin

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