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AIBU?

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Original poster

to want to sleep with this married man?

507 replies

pumpkincarver · 22/12/2011 22:09

so. Met a wonderful guy, married, no kids. Am on the verge to start an affair, a fling (I'm not sure what yet) with him. I've never felt such strong attraction towards anyone else, hence my strong desire to go ahead.

I'm separated and single.
Am wondering how this rates on Mumsnet's grand moral scale.
Opinions appreciated, and no offence will be taken : )

OP posts:
thunderboltsandlightning · 22/12/2011 23:09

Fabby needs her own advice column.

MyChildDoesntNeedSleepAtXmas · 22/12/2011 23:09

pumpkin Are you still here, or are you shagging?

Original poster
pumpkincarver · 22/12/2011 23:10

xmasFayre, I think a fling is a short affair.

OP posts:
FabbyChic · 22/12/2011 23:11

She might be covered in scales if he shags around, STD clinic here I come.

On a brighter note he might be a pile driver only and that would save on the Hemorrhoid Cream.

D0G · 22/12/2011 23:11

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XmasFayreToMiddlin · 22/12/2011 23:11

Ooh - this thread is a bit racy for me

Hang on a minute.............where's my DH ???

Sillyoldelf · 22/12/2011 23:12

YabuAngry

Moominsarescary · 22/12/2011 23:12

Yes fabby start a thread , we can all come and ask you advice, that would be a classic

FabbyChic · 22/12/2011 23:12

They a right bitch when you have to keep pushing them back up - you'd have a cure for your piles!

MyChildDoesntNeedSleepAtXmas · 22/12/2011 23:13

I know DOG Grin

I was falling asleep but that has woken me up...it's hilarious!

ABatInBunkFive · 22/12/2011 23:13

what Moomins said Xmas Grin

slavetofilofax · 22/12/2011 23:14

So, you are going to do this no matter what other people say aren't you?

WorraLiberty · 22/12/2011 23:16

Wait

Is his cock made of chocolate and does he ejaculate money?

If so then YANBU

He's a keeper

mumblecrumble · 22/12/2011 23:16

Bloody hell, you better not have met my hubby.... He's lovely, and mine and you may not in any way have him.

What if your chap's wife feels like this?

Sorry, tying to me sympathetic but nah.... sorry.

You may have mentioned.... does he kow how you feel? He needs to leave his wife first.... Sex is special to a person in married type relationship.

SOrry, just loked out the window to see if my DH is coming home soon....

maras2 · 22/12/2011 23:18

Merde! I'm so rubbish at irony.

GwendolineMaryLacedwithBrandy · 22/12/2011 23:19

As for the OP, I can't even take it seriously enough to answer.

ElfOfThePerverse · 22/12/2011 23:19

Please can we start a fabby agony aunt advice thread, where people can come to her with their problems! Grin Would be brilliant...

Original poster
pumpkincarver · 22/12/2011 23:20

slavetofilofax, I honestly don't know if I am or not. A lot to consider! Some valid points were raised, but I'm still none the wiser. All I know for sure is how overwhelming my attraction towards him is..

OP posts:
shinyrobot · 22/12/2011 23:21

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Moominsarescary · 22/12/2011 23:21

Yes someone start the thread, I think I might be too pissed

PishWife · 22/12/2011 23:22

Oh Fab, please can you start a thread of sex tips away from this extraordinarily dull OP?

DeePanCrisPandEeeven · 22/12/2011 23:22

pump - it's all been considered and neatly packaged for you. You're just stretching out the attention the thread brings. adieu.

WorraLiberty · 22/12/2011 23:22

Would love a Fabbony Aunt thread Xmas Grin

EnjoyResponsiblyIfSleighFlying · 22/12/2011 23:23

OP hope that this mans wife is not me. You see, I am the woman that doesn't go all dignified. Nor am I the woman that just blames her husband.

I am the woman that kicks up a fucking shit storm, and I will not stop until all the cheating whores family, friends and colleagues know precisely what a sheet of scum she is. Oh and did I mention that I have a vicious left hook?

Best hope your chaps wife isn't me or just like me right?

QuintessentiallyShallow · 22/12/2011 23:23

Op can come meet my hubby any time, he is farking gorgeous. He does not like alley cats, though. He is all mine....