I've just got one kid. People often say to me "couldnt you have any more?" or "are you planning for another?" or "don't you want a brother or sister for..."
NO!
I have one kid. I absolutely love the fact that I don't have to dilute my attention between more than one kid; I love that I don't have to resolve repetitive minor sibling disputes, that I don't have siblings competition for my attention/affection; that I'm not doing a multitude of "taxi jobs" between xtra curricular activites; that my disposable income stretches further with just one kid;
that actually, parenting of just one kid can be really difficult and parenting of more than one must be (...
I LOVE the fact that I have (kinda) bucked the trend.
I look at people with more than one kid and I think WTF are you doing! Why on earth would you do that!
I've created a family Nirvana!