To want to discuss having children and a future?

[KissMyA]

My DP said we can start talking about having kids after we have moved in together. Why is it up to him when we start talking about having children? I just want to be able to discuss how many we would like/names and other general things but he won't.

Aibu to want to have conversations like 'when we have children...'?

You're an inspiration, OP! Well done, you're braver than I am.

Thank you Vivi, you are obviously one too as I wouldn't have done any of this without all of your advice.

Good luck x

That is great Kiss, delighted to hear it. You never know this chat might be just the kick up the bum that he needs. He might be just burying his head in the sand and feel afraid to think about it. Either way you're doing the right thing, good luck ;)

Well done, KMA.

Well done, that is good news.

I hope it works out for you!

Well done, Kiss! Hope it goes well for you.

:) thats great

I think you have handled it perfectly :)

Thank you so much.

I think you're right CailinDana, I hope you are!

Well done Kiss - I hope you will update us at Christmas!

Oh yes, I definitely will