AIBU to think that if you invited to a relative's house for Christmas you shouldn't then have to forfeit your presents?

[Maisiethemorningsidecat]

Brief outline - have been invited to SIL and BIL (who are very, very comfortable financially) again for Christmas. She put it to DH that she would use the money she would normally spend on our presents to buy the food.

So, we spend about £80 on diesel to get there and take some nibbley type food, xmas cake and wine normally anyway, plus their presents. Nowhere near the same income level as them.

AIBU to feel a bit about this?

I think thats right too. Lucky children