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Father beats his teenage daughter and no prison term?

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coldwed · 02/11/2011 16:44

Video uploaded by daughter. (GRAPHIC) daughter uploads vid of father beating her.this was posted on reddit, and getting posted everywhere else on the intanets. fans of physical discpline, no ?

I am spitting mad! I don't care if this thread turns into a 'to hit or not to hit your child' thread. It should be illegal, there is NO excuse! indiscipline your child the correct way.

This 'father' needs to do time. Serious time. As the useless mother.

Here is the story.

"2004: Aransas County Court-At-Law Judge William Adams took a belt to his own teenage daughter as punishment for using the internet to acquire music and games that were unavailable for legal purchase at the time. She has had ataxic cerebral palsy from birth that led her to a passion for technology, which was strictly forbidden by her father's backwards views.

The judge's wife was emotionally abused herself and was severely manipulated into assisting the beating and should not be blamed for any content in this video. The judge's wife has since left the marriage due to the abuse, which continues to this day, and has sincerely apologized and repented for her part and for allowing such a thing, long before this video was even revealed to exist. Judge William Adams is not fit to be anywhere near the law system if he can't even exercise fit judgement as a parent himself. Do not allow this man to ever be re- elected again. His "judgement" is a giant farce. Signed, Hillary Adams, his daughter.

www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhq6AX6h7Vz4clu5xd

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coldwed · 02/11/2011 16:46

and no, I don't read the worldstarhiphop. I was on another forum which linked the video to that site

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GypsyMoth · 02/11/2011 17:09

It's all over you tube too but please, it's NOT fir viewing if easily distressed. It's full on abuse and us upsetting

She's 16?

And sorry, but the mother is questionable

HecateGoddessOfTheNight · 02/11/2011 17:21

oh dear god.

why is this man not in prison?

Oh, hang on judge william adams...

what a bastard.

troisgarcons · 02/11/2011 17:26

American?

Deep South I bet. All hell-fire baptists. (sweeping judgement there). Ah yes Texan.

Well I've no idea what the laws are in Texas, other than they have the death penalty so I'm guessing corporal punishment is probably still legal also.

Unpleasent but not my place to judge another countries laws.

coldwed · 02/11/2011 17:47

It is distressing to watch but I think the more people who see it will spur on appropriate action to the 'father'.

The way that grown ass man was cocking his arm back to hit her was ridiculous. And I want to smack that weak cosigning witch who has the nerve to call herself a mother.

I wouldnt be surprised if that man puts his hands on his daughter in other ways. The way he was just tossing her around and hitting her excessively was the worse thing I have ever seen and makes me highly suspicious. I understand spankings, but something wasnt right about that. I mean to hit her and curse at her even when she was broken down to the floor. Its almost like he was overdoing it to cover up for something else. And the mother probably knows it which is why she enjoys seeing her daughter beat so hard and showing her dominance.

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coldwed · 02/11/2011 17:49

I understand spankings - grr meant to say I don't understand

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GypsyMoth · 02/11/2011 17:50

Yes, there was some kind of undertone to it all.

Rollon2012 · 02/11/2011 17:50

disgusting, just disgusting

It wouldnt surprise if he beat the mother too, not thats its an excuse you can't really be one kind of father and another kind of husband.

NinkyNonker · 02/11/2011 17:58
Sad
NinkyNonker · 02/11/2011 18:01

I watched that with 15 mo old dd in the room, I just don't get it. The way hr threw her around as if she was nothing. Disgusting.

WardrobeYeti · 02/11/2011 18:04

That poor girl. And this man is a family judge. He rules on cases involving children- I hope that no one else has suffered because of this, and that his own behaviour hasn't effected the decisions he's made. The thought that he may have dealt with cases involving abuse while doing that is horrifying. He obviously had no problem with dealing it out so who knows how he looked at cases where there was abuse or allegations of it.

www.chron.com/news/local_news/article/Police-investigate-judge-over-online-video-2248539.php
It says here that a visiting judge will be dealing with any cases involving children for the next week. I hope that's made permanent and he loses his job.

Deargdoom · 02/11/2011 18:05

That's the USA for you. He should be behind bars and all the more so for being a judge himself. This won't have been the first time either. What a vile bastard.

Andrewofgg · 02/11/2011 18:08

The Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave! :o

AFuckingKnackeredWoman · 02/11/2011 18:09

Its the south of America. He wont get punished

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 02/11/2011 18:12

i feel sick

they were enjoying that!! you could tell they were standing there thinking of more thinsg to say so they could beat her more!!! i agree with others there was definitely more to that than just smacking her for disobedience.

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 02/11/2011 18:14

andrew what exactly do you find funny about this?

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 02/11/2011 18:16

and sorry but i dont believe that mother is blameless for what happened in that video!! she took the belt off him to beat her herself!!!

usingapseudonym · 02/11/2011 18:16

Who took and why is there a video?

I can't watch the video (too triggery even though I was never "beaten) so haven't seen it.

And a 16 year old girl!?!?!?!?

wannaBe · 02/11/2011 18:18

and what about the mother - so she's left the marriage - why if she cares, has she not taken the daughter with her. She's as much of a bitch as he is a bastard.

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 02/11/2011 18:23

when the 'mother' is telling the girl to turn over and she wont the 'father' tries to take the belt again and says "give me some more!!!! Shock

and the way the mother told her to 'take it like grown woman'

sickening. how are those children still allowed to be with those bastards?

Kladdkaka · 02/11/2011 18:26

Both of them should be in jail. I hope to god all their kids have been removed to safety.

HeresTheThingBooyhoo · 02/11/2011 18:26

i'm guessing it was filmed on the webcam or a secret camera in the room set up by the daughter to get proof?

DunRovin · 02/11/2011 18:28

Sickening.
And the comments below are sickening and disturbing, too.
What a fucked up world. All those comments saying 'so what, black families do that all the time'. As if that was OK. Or effective. Very sad.

DunRovin · 02/11/2011 18:32

I'm guessing she left the webcam on on her computer. Either because she knew this would happen, or because it was just on, incidentally.

I don't think he was enjoying it, I think he was in a frenzy of rage and self importance. The mother was cold and complicit.

Bastards - how could any human being do that to another? And especially a LOVED person. Jesus.

MrBloomsNursery · 02/11/2011 18:36

Shoooooott...This has made me cry. What did she do wrong? Was she not allowed the internet or did she download illegally?

How can a mother stand back and let the father beat up their daughter like that? Manipulation or no, that cow of a mother should have been sentenced aswell. Can't believe she got away.

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