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To be a bit shocked at how "mainstream" anal sex has become between couples?

246 replies

Scaredconfusedexcited · 14/10/2011 11:37

for the record i'm not a prude or against it in anyway.

I'm just shocked about how much more everyone seems to talk about it now, there seems to have been such a change in attitudes about it.

Until recently everyone seemed to think it was a bit "dirty" or "naughty" but now all my friends seem to be falling overthemselves to discuss it and I have even seem references to it on this morning the last few days.

Do you think Keith Lemmon and his smashing back doors in is to blame?

OP posts:
Moominsarescary · 14/10/2011 23:27

That's the thing, all those legs/bodies

Must say I'm intrigued about where everyone is positioned, and it must bloody hurt

PureBloodMuggle · 14/10/2011 23:38

Has to hurt doesn't it.

Just can't work it out, too many people around a two small (well should be small) area

InPraiseOfBacchus · 15/10/2011 00:32

Hang on OP... aren't YOU falling over yourself to discuss it, right here?

OldLadyKnowsNothing · 15/10/2011 02:09

Nope, OP hasn't been back since she first posted. Hardly "falling over herself" to discuss it.

BertieBotts · 15/10/2011 08:50

Oh crap did that come out really badly? Blush was just trying to point out it's not always some seedy thing people do to prove how adventurous they are Blush

AmberLeaf · 15/10/2011 09:31

Bertie, it came across fine dont worry!

catgirl1976 · 15/10/2011 11:42

slightobsession rimming is done with the tongue, not the finger :)

HecateGoddessOfTheNight · 15/10/2011 13:57

Why? Why would anyone do that? I can't imagine anything short of a gun or some other weapon shoved in my face, that would pursuade me to stick my tongue up someone's shitter.

[baffled]

catgirl1976 · 15/10/2011 14:34

I'm with you on that one hecate.....not for me....although have had it the other way round and it is rather :)

GossipWitch · 15/10/2011 17:36

Wow I really didn't know that many people were up for it, my ex says that anal's like a blow job, much prefer giving a blow job tbh.

Also me and my buddies talk about these things a lot and were late 20's early 30's, and I don't recall much talk about this sort of thing when I was younger.

Stiffler · 07/09/2017 10:34

Seriously...have you ever even tried it?

Stiffler · 07/09/2017 10:36

Quite agree, it's a porn thing. Though a finger circulating has the ability to make the climax more intense. But no, I agree with my wife it's a yuk thing.

ZeroFuchsGiven · 07/09/2017 10:37

THIS THREAD IS 6 YEARS OLD!

Fieryfighter · 07/09/2017 10:38

This thread is 7 YEARS OLD! Have you been googling 'anal sex mumsnet' stiffler

Stiffler · 07/09/2017 10:40

I've heard that as well, that it's an American thing for saving a young girls virginity. Thing is wouldn't the guy lie that it's anal he's wanting then go for it anyway, when he's positioned right??.....

Circumlocutor · 07/09/2017 11:07

Been thinking a lot about bumholes this morning Stiffler? And you thought 'I know, I'll dredge Mumsnet for an antique bum sex thread'.

Dahlietta · 07/09/2017 11:15

Circumlocutor Grin

happypoobum · 07/09/2017 11:16

Never mind the Zombie - It's not even Friday!!! Shock

DixieNormas · 07/09/2017 11:19

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soupforbrains · 07/09/2017 11:38

I think it probably is a bit ore 'maintstream' but I also think that everyone is entitled to go ahead and be shocked, or not, at whatever they want to be shocked at. It's all just an each to his/her own thing.

We none of us though have the right to judge others that's all. Personally it's not my thing, but I couldn't give a damn about what goes on between consenting adults if I'm not involved. None of my business.

VestalVirgin · 07/09/2017 11:41

I've heard that as well, that it's an American thing for saving a young girls virginity. Thing is wouldn't the guy lie that it's anal he's wanting then go for it anyway, when he's positioned right??.....

So you assume lots of American boys are rapists? Hm, actually, I think you are right, there was a study where a whopping 30% turned out to be.

Someone should teach those girls how to do anal to preserve their virginity. They seem to all be doing it wrong.
... if you fuck the dude's ass with a dildo, I suppose he won't be positioned right to shove a penis in your vagina. Wink

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 07/09/2017 11:44

zombie threadHmm

Pilgit · 07/09/2017 11:45

I don't see how the bum hole would get too slack from normal bum sex - most of us have done bigger poos than an average penis..... (or is that just me?)

I do it. A recent discovery and have to admit I love it - feels great to be that dirty especially when taken from behind. I have always orgasamed via it. But as with all sex - it has to be something you're both into and completely relaxed with your partner about. Next on my hit list is double penetration - but with a vibrator not another human being. As my fanjo
Feels empty. Adventurous as I am I don't want to introduce a third person. Okay definitely said too much!

anotherniceday · 07/09/2017 11:49

Omg, how small would his willy have to be to fit in her ear! Shock

He must have a microwilly.

anotherniceday · 07/09/2017 11:50

Zombie thread?
Shit. still funny