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For those born in the 50's, 60's and 70's...

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unpa1dcar3r · 27/09/2011 22:53

For those who were born in the 50's, 60's and 70's, this may sound familiar: Firstly, we were born to parents who smoked and drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products and lots of processed meat. After that trauma, we slept in baby cots covered in coloured lead based paints. As kids, we rode in cars with no seat belts, air bags, power steering or anti lock brakes. We drank water from a garden hose, NOT from a plastic bottle. There were no McDonalds, Pizza Hut, Chinese, Indian or Thai meals. No KFC or Subway. If you wanted takeaway food, it was fish and chips, all wrapped in newspaper! And it tasted great! Even though all the shops were shut by 6pm, half day closing on Wednesdays, and didn't open on weekends, we somehow didn't starve to death! We could collect old glass drinks bottles, and cash them in at the local shop, and buy gobstoppers, bubble gum and toffees. We ate loads of sweets, white bread, real butter and drank fizzy drinks with loads of sugar in them, but we weren't overweight because........we were always outside playing! We'd leave home straight after breakfast and play all day. Our parents had no idea where we were, but knew we'd be home for tea. We'd build go-carts from old prams and fly downhill on them, suddenly finding out we forgot about brakes. We had no PS3, Wii or X box. No Sky tv, no dvd's or cd's. We had no mobile phones, no PC's, laptops or notebooks, and there was no internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside to find them. We fell out of trees and got cuts, broken teeth and bones. Did our parents sue the landowners? NO! We learned to be more careful the next time! We ate mud and worms, and we didn't die! We were given air guns and catapults for our 10th birthday. The only time you could buy easter eggs and hot cross buns was at Easter. Shops didn't sell tins of Quality Street in September. Football, rugby and cricket teams had tryouts, and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to deal with disappointment. Can you imagine that?! Teachers used to hit us with the cane or a slipper. And if we broke the law, our parents sided with the law and wouldn't bail us out! We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility. And we learned to deal with ALL OF THEM! You my friends, are one of the lucky ones who grew up as kids before the government and lawyers regulated our lives "for our own good" Oh, you may wish to show this to your kids, so they can see how brave their parents were when kids were kids.

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begonyabampot · 28/09/2011 22:49

Playing out back in the 70's was not just in your street though. We went long, long walks or bike rides in the woods and countryside for miles and miles. Mum would say don't go past the end of the road and we would say 'yes mum' and scarper off. Reason I'd be a bit nervous letting my kids out now is that I remember what we got up to and it would scare the life out of me. But it was loads of fun.

JLK2 · 28/09/2011 23:02

Mick McManus never killed anyone. Big Daddy killed a man but it wasn't on a televised bout. I think the guy just had a heart attack. They couldn't get him to the hospital quickly because he was so fat they couldn't get him out of the ring without dismantling the ropes first.

GrimmaTheNome · 28/09/2011 23:28

Wet sunday afternoons - after the washing up, all sat in the lounge watching whatever old film happened to be on telly.

Much more couch-potatoing then than now I think!

smartyparts · 28/09/2011 23:45

What a pile of shite. Sort of crap people post on Facebook. Yes, it was all so jolly with no seat belts, not to mention all the fab drink driving!!

I too remember how bloody boring Sundays used to be.

I think I'd much rather be a child today than in the 70s/80s.

housemum · 28/09/2011 23:59

Crackerjack is coming back - I saw Justin Fletcher on stage at Paulton's Park and he said they were going to film it soon. I was the muppet who yelled "Crackerjack" when he said it (and then was upset he didn't notice...)

I'd love to go back to the pace of the 70s, without the institutionalised racism & sexism, the 3 day week (as a kid I couldn't understand why it was a problem, didn't realise you only got paid 3 days!), the attitudes to disaility. But a yes to TV stopping at midnight and starting at lunchtime, nothing except the corner shop open on a Sunday, and I really should turn off this computer if I'm saying all that...

garlicnutty · 29/09/2011 00:11

Actually I'm starting to think we could do with some '70s militance just now ... ain't gonna happen, though, we haven't got a shared conscience anymore, have we? Perhaps we need a return of "all join in" TV shows with catchphrases, to kick-start the feeling ... You said Crackerjack's coming back ... ?! Grin

VegetablePatch · 29/09/2011 02:39

I've enjoyed reading this thread so far...despite posting a cringe-worthy old email/Facebook circular (and being slated for it!), OP, you have opened up an interesting conversation.

Many stories here, a mixture of nostalgic, happy, sad, disturbing, funny...all very moving, and all worth sharing.

suburbophobe · 29/09/2011 07:20

haha Garlicnutty, still all woman - if a bit saggy LOL - and luckily not a granny for at least the next ten years...son just off to uni, so yea, free, free, free!! The best way to be!! Grin

Love the cheap flights nowadays, you never had that in the 70's!!!

Oblomov · 29/09/2011 10:07

The life I have with my kids now is not THAT different from the life I had growing up. We had central eating and we ate well. I still cook roasts, spag bol, sausages mash and peas. The main difference is technology. You can Goggle and get any info you like, in an instant. You don't even need to go to the library to try and get hold of 1 of the 3 copies (between 25 of you) of Ian Kershaw's book on Nazi Germany, the Third Reich. Back then I couldn't get a copy and how I managed to write an essay is a miracle.
Technology has got better.
General gloominess has got worse. The way we treat eachother. My mum says she has stopped reading newspapaers, but its just all too depressing.

mumzy · 29/09/2011 16:40

I remember growing up in the 70s and 80s how much more racist society was then and accepted as the norm to be casually racist towards ethnic minorities . I remember teachers calling kids offensive racist names and laughing at racist jokes made by pupils towards their classmates on a regular basis. I also remember the national front marches and the violence that followed towards anyone who wasn't white. Tis much much better these days for ethnic minorities in this country.

Best thing about growing up in 70s and 80s was the freedom kids had to play out learnt lots about life that way.

unpa1dcar3r · 29/09/2011 18:10

Haha Veggie Patch Indeed i did. guess that was kind of the intention; nowt like a bit of good old reminiscing good and bad.
Some of my own was dire, some was fun. The dire parts involved my mother, the fun parts my mates and my dad.

Garlic, Leslie Crowther did host 'Crackerjaaaack' too but he was after Michael Aspel.

Housemum; Grin I would've been right there with you shouting. My mate took her litlun to that show, she said Justin was excellent and her son had his picture taken with him after.

I was forced to go to Sunday school from the age of 5 with my sister. We walked the 2.5 miles there and back. I think it was so mum n dad could have a 'special lie in'! But I would come out of church and thought for years i could smell the sunday dinner we were having from outside...didnt occur to me that everyone else wa salsa having sunday roast and I could smell it from their houses!

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housemum · 29/09/2011 19:23

Crackerjack had Michael Aspel, Ed "Stewpot" Stewart and Stu "I could crush a grape" Francis (not to be confused with Stew Francis who is actually a funny comedian). I think Leslie Crowther did Crackerjack right at the beginning and later on.

Unpa1dcar3r - DD2 as a sophisticated 8 year old didn't want to join in, but when I suggested we queue for a photo after for her little sister she was straight in there Grin

unpa1dcar3r · 29/09/2011 19:26
Grin Of course, not only sophisticated but totally altruistic too! You're a lucky mum Grin Wink
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hocuspontas · 30/09/2011 16:22

Eamonn Andrews did Crackerjack to start with. They had a quiz with three children and when a child got a question right they won a board game or toy and if they got it wrong they won a cabbage. Three cabbages and you were out. The exciting bit was that they had to stand in a row and hold all their prizes so you could see at a glance who was winning. I dreamed of going on there and winning all those prizes Grin

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