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For those born in the 50's, 60's and 70's...

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unpa1dcar3r · 27/09/2011 22:53

For those who were born in the 50's, 60's and 70's, this may sound familiar: Firstly, we were born to parents who smoked and drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products and lots of processed meat. After that trauma, we slept in baby cots covered in coloured lead based paints. As kids, we rode in cars with no seat belts, air bags, power steering or anti lock brakes. We drank water from a garden hose, NOT from a plastic bottle. There were no McDonalds, Pizza Hut, Chinese, Indian or Thai meals. No KFC or Subway. If you wanted takeaway food, it was fish and chips, all wrapped in newspaper! And it tasted great! Even though all the shops were shut by 6pm, half day closing on Wednesdays, and didn't open on weekends, we somehow didn't starve to death! We could collect old glass drinks bottles, and cash them in at the local shop, and buy gobstoppers, bubble gum and toffees. We ate loads of sweets, white bread, real butter and drank fizzy drinks with loads of sugar in them, but we weren't overweight because........we were always outside playing! We'd leave home straight after breakfast and play all day. Our parents had no idea where we were, but knew we'd be home for tea. We'd build go-carts from old prams and fly downhill on them, suddenly finding out we forgot about brakes. We had no PS3, Wii or X box. No Sky tv, no dvd's or cd's. We had no mobile phones, no PC's, laptops or notebooks, and there was no internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside to find them. We fell out of trees and got cuts, broken teeth and bones. Did our parents sue the landowners? NO! We learned to be more careful the next time! We ate mud and worms, and we didn't die! We were given air guns and catapults for our 10th birthday. The only time you could buy easter eggs and hot cross buns was at Easter. Shops didn't sell tins of Quality Street in September. Football, rugby and cricket teams had tryouts, and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to deal with disappointment. Can you imagine that?! Teachers used to hit us with the cane or a slipper. And if we broke the law, our parents sided with the law and wouldn't bail us out! We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility. And we learned to deal with ALL OF THEM! You my friends, are one of the lucky ones who grew up as kids before the government and lawyers regulated our lives "for our own good" Oh, you may wish to show this to your kids, so they can see how brave their parents were when kids were kids.

OP posts:
Morloth · 28/09/2011 04:25

I would have traded a sibling (DB2 certainly) to have had the kind of childhood my DSs are having.

itisnearlysummer · 28/09/2011 07:28

Attic Attack
Chuckie Egg
Daley Thompson's Decathalon
Wizards Lair
Digger Dan

I think those were my Spectrum favourites.

mumblejumble But at least you didn't have to pay tax on your student earnings in those days.

I went to school with the bruises too. Mum later said she was always worried that someone would spot them when I got changed for PE. Not worried enough to stop it from happening though, eh?

Andrewofgg · 28/09/2011 07:47

The only bit that made me nostalgic was fish and chips wrapped in newspaper, oh but that tasted so good . . .

unpa1dcar3r · 28/09/2011 07:58

Poor you OP ! guessing you posted this in a light hearted manner, and you've taken a bit of a bashing

Haha yes indeed Sane, just for a bit of diversity and fun is all.
yes I did copy and paste (shoot me now) as I have just learn to copy and paste on my new posh lap top so this was my 1st experiment.
I did 1st get this via email a few years back and it made me laugh then too.
And as for the 'bashing', ha, no worries there. After all I grew up in that era and we were taught to be tough, at least where I lived anyway! So it goes over my head as unimportant and pointless for something that was simply a bit of fun.

And for all the syntax, grammar and paragraph police we also had Donny and David. So there! Wink

OP posts:
minimisschief · 28/09/2011 09:41

to be fair i did all the outside stuff and most of what you said and was born in 87. i grew up with video games aswell. Basically i had what you had and more.

my kids will have what i had and even more

also some of the stuff in there is bollocks tbh

ripstheirthroatoutliveupstairs · 28/09/2011 09:52

I thought my mother had joined MN.
She send me that, or a variation of it at least 7 times a year.
Me and DH were born six years apart. We couldn't have had a more different childhood.

Bloodymary · 28/09/2011 09:56

Well I was born in '54 so I am really old.
I can relate to a lot of it, ie. the freedom etc; tho we were never punished like some of the above, in fact we had a pretty much idylic childhood.
Maybe we were just extra lucky.

wigglesrock · 28/09/2011 10:00

My aunt sent me this e-mail about two years ago. Oh it was a great time in the 70s where I live, bring it all back, Belfast was really buzzing Shock

laptoplover · 28/09/2011 10:05

I was born in '68 and this is great.

Sorry about the miserable ones on here OP, thanks for posting.

Pakdooik · 28/09/2011 10:09

Not to mention Doris Day records

TheHumanCatapult · 28/09/2011 10:10

sorry i was born in the 70s and it was not all great and even what was good as a child .I think of the extra work and things my folks had to do and put up with

TheHumanCatapult · 28/09/2011 10:11

hmm no dishwasher , no tumble dryers , no dvd when was wet and cold .homework writing by hand and having to hope the library had a referanc ebook that was up to date

itisnearlysummer · 28/09/2011 10:13

FWIW I'm not being miserable - promise!

I do recognise a lot from the OP, however, I have received it via email several times from my mum over the past few years. Which I'm always a bit Hmm about given that she was (and still is) a source of shit for me and it does conveniently overlook the associated negatives of the time. It wasn't all perfect and there are things about life nowadays that are better than they were then.

laptoplover · 28/09/2011 10:15

I have never seen it and A lot rang true for me.

But then I had a lovely childhood and great parents.

GrimmaTheNome · 28/09/2011 10:21

I was born in '61

The trick is of course, to take what's good about now, but not lose the stuff that always was and always will be good about being a child. If your kids aren't playing outside climbing trees etc with their friend,, don't blame the times but blame yourself - take responsibility! Wink

LadyWord · 28/09/2011 10:22

I was born in 1969. Life was shit without mobile phones. I actually remember thinking "when are they going to hurry up and invent those blakes-7 style wristwatch communication thingies?"

And of course people died from not wearing seatbelts, shooting each other with real arrows etc., wnadering around in parks on their own and getting abducted etc., duh. Some of that is much the same as today, some things are better, some are worse, that's life. But I knew very overweight kids, a kid who fell out of a tree and was brain damaged for life, and a woman who had lost the sight in one eye from an arrow going in it. I was allowed to go paddling in the park on my own aged 6, cut my foot on glass and bled seriously, had to be rescued by strangers.

What a pile of rose-tinted nostalgic wibble.

LilBB · 28/09/2011 10:24

I hate the 'well it didn't do us any harm' bullshit. How many people died because there where no seatbelts or car seats? How many people in their 40s and 50s are overweight? Aren't these the people who grew up in these good old days? Also listening to my mum and MIL food was utterly terrible in the 60s and 70s. It was very basic and a lot came from a tin. I would much rather have the huge choice we have now.

Also if you want your kids to play out and have a childhood like you who is stopping them? Less children die on the road now and there are not peadophiles lurking around every corner. Let them out and stop whinging about how good your childhood was/how bad your kids childhood is. The only people making them fat/greedy/lazy/stay in is you!!!!!

laptoplover · 28/09/2011 10:25

Bimey..............ladyword...you had a rotten childhood. Did anything nice ever happen or are you just a grump?

LadyWord · 28/09/2011 10:26

Oh and don't forget, teachers abused kids horribly, bullying by teachers was fine, sexual and physical abuse at home was at least as common as it is now, but kids had less of a voice and were less believed. Women could be raped by their husbands with impunity. Teenage girls who got pregnant were forced to have their babies in secret and give them up.

Happy days.

Hmm
GentleOtter · 28/09/2011 10:28

There was good and bad in the 60's yet we tend to look quite fondly at how things were but thank god they have progressed.

The good things have already been mentioned, less worry if children were out all day, less materialistic etc but the issues considered bad now, were acceptable then.

It was mostly acceptable to slap or belt children, lead water pipes, lead petrol, very little help with deeply personal issues for women, thalidomide, chauvinism, low wages, energy shortages, daylight savings(!) when we walked to school in the dark, potato and berry picking (hard work, low pay but you bought your school uniform with the money) and let's try to forget the hairdos.

wigglesrock · 28/09/2011 10:29

This kind of thing drives me mad, as you may have guessed Grin In the 70s children were a lot less likely to be believed if they felt violated by teachers, parents, strangers etc, there was less visible help for victims of domestic abuse, my grandfather died in 1969 and my granny was left with a large family and had 2/3 jobs in order to live and keep the family together - it wasn't some jolly lets all go out and play together type of thing, more is there enough bread for dinner.

Not as many advances in medicine for childrens health and babies, seriously driving without a seatbelt a good thing Hmm

If you want your children to climb trees put them outside, take them somewhere, mine eat mud, climb trees and have occasionally licked the odd bit of paint.

LadyWord · 28/09/2011 10:29

laptoplover :o well as it happens I AM a grump (have pmt...) and I did have an abusive childhood - but don't get me wrong, I love life. I can see problems with modern consumerism etc but really appreciate a lot of the changes that have happened.

I just get very annoyed at the dunderheaded suggestion that things like seatbelts and women's rights and gay rights and banning teachers from beating kids on a whim, are some how silly-headed modern softiness.

Angry grumpy see

earlyriser · 28/09/2011 10:40

and my teeth are full of fillings from all those sweets (1972) Smile as i don't want anyone to see said fillings by Grin

earlyriser · 28/09/2011 10:41

oh and yes, yabvu

pramsgalore · 28/09/2011 10:51

i have to say i agree, i collected glass bottles and took them to the shop for sweets, i played in the woods and made dens just me and my little friend, our mums never knew where we were, but we always turned up for tea. i hardly watched tv, nothing ever on, i played with toys and played loads outside with my friends, we would phone someone up from the phonebox and ask if they had any walls in their house? and that was about as bad as we got Grin i am 39, it was fun and exciting being a kid.

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