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For those born in the 50's, 60's and 70's...

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unpa1dcar3r · 27/09/2011 22:53

For those who were born in the 50's, 60's and 70's, this may sound familiar: Firstly, we were born to parents who smoked and drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products and lots of processed meat. After that trauma, we slept in baby cots covered in coloured lead based paints. As kids, we rode in cars with no seat belts, air bags, power steering or anti lock brakes. We drank water from a garden hose, NOT from a plastic bottle. There were no McDonalds, Pizza Hut, Chinese, Indian or Thai meals. No KFC or Subway. If you wanted takeaway food, it was fish and chips, all wrapped in newspaper! And it tasted great! Even though all the shops were shut by 6pm, half day closing on Wednesdays, and didn't open on weekends, we somehow didn't starve to death! We could collect old glass drinks bottles, and cash them in at the local shop, and buy gobstoppers, bubble gum and toffees. We ate loads of sweets, white bread, real butter and drank fizzy drinks with loads of sugar in them, but we weren't overweight because........we were always outside playing! We'd leave home straight after breakfast and play all day. Our parents had no idea where we were, but knew we'd be home for tea. We'd build go-carts from old prams and fly downhill on them, suddenly finding out we forgot about brakes. We had no PS3, Wii or X box. No Sky tv, no dvd's or cd's. We had no mobile phones, no PC's, laptops or notebooks, and there was no internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside to find them. We fell out of trees and got cuts, broken teeth and bones. Did our parents sue the landowners? NO! We learned to be more careful the next time! We ate mud and worms, and we didn't die! We were given air guns and catapults for our 10th birthday. The only time you could buy easter eggs and hot cross buns was at Easter. Shops didn't sell tins of Quality Street in September. Football, rugby and cricket teams had tryouts, and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to deal with disappointment. Can you imagine that?! Teachers used to hit us with the cane or a slipper. And if we broke the law, our parents sided with the law and wouldn't bail us out! We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility. And we learned to deal with ALL OF THEM! You my friends, are one of the lucky ones who grew up as kids before the government and lawyers regulated our lives "for our own good" Oh, you may wish to show this to your kids, so they can see how brave their parents were when kids were kids.

OP posts:
NonnoMum · 27/09/2011 23:32

Wtf about apples? You sure he didn't mean Apple Inc, the multi-billion industry?

Birdsgottafly · 27/09/2011 23:33

mum- didn't say it was an excuse, my point was the law, which the OP thinks mollycoddles us today, protects us also, or rather the vulnerable.

DV were i grew up was considered part of marriage by everyone, including professionals. When i started, an older SW was retiring and can remember telling women, as directed, that child abuse was not a justifiable reason to become a single mum, you stayed and honoured your marriage vows, even at the cost of the childrens well being.

itisnearlysummer · 27/09/2011 23:33

Birdsgottafly DH and I often say this.

My dad was a latch key kid and spent many an hour in the house alone because his mum was a widow and LP's got no support in the 50s.

I was regularly dragged upstairs/across the room by my hair, locked in the porch/out in the garden in the dark and frost in my nightie and bare feet as punishments.

DH pretty much brought up his younger brother because his parents both worked and childcare wasn't as available in those days, and he worked during his teenage years to keep his mum in cigarettes and Bacardi.

Yep, lets bring back the good ol' days. Hmm

nakedandangry · 27/09/2011 23:35

1967 here, some of this cut and paste job rings bells with me. Sundays in particular were dreadful, the dullest Sunday school ever followed by the dullest of days of parents reading the papers followed by school on Monday with frightening teachers who hit you for fucking up your sums Grin. Oh what larks.

Oh and I was also run over by a car circa 1974 on my tod in the high street.

Mumcentreplus · 27/09/2011 23:35

ok Birds I hear you...

itisnearlysummer · 27/09/2011 23:36

caramelwaffle Grin

We had a Sinclair ZX81 and were really excited when we 'upgraded' to a Sinclair Spectrum 32k!

32k! Imagine that!

Cathycomehome · 27/09/2011 23:36

Were the fifties just like the seventies then? Or did the whole" just finished a world war"" thing compare to the "there was world war 30 years ago" thing?

I was born in the late seventies, and my earliest real memory is my youngest brother being born in 1984. When some one who was born in the fifties could very easily have been his mum. Oh, wait, she was. My mother and I are from different generations (obviously!) and I doubt our childhoods were that similar.

Mumcentreplus · 27/09/2011 23:38

fucked up parents come at any age ...but now they can be prosecuted

MorbidlyMoribund · 27/09/2011 23:39

Lord only knows nonno - just being very preachy about the whole 'oh look everything comes from a supermarket' thing.....

a. no it doesn't where i live arse end of nowhere
b. even if it did - does that mean that i don't have to go to four different shops for what i need? - plasters, potatoes, meat and a lightbulb ... My, what a terrible thing....

MorbidlyMoribund · 27/09/2011 23:42

re the Spectrum - i used to love the noise it made when making a picture - how it used to speed up.... and the programming you could do:

10 "MM is skill"
20 Go To 10
30 Run

Or similar ..... fun as it was i'm glad we're not still there wrt technology....

MarginallyNarkyPuffin · 27/09/2011 23:48

What a load of mindless jism.

Pandemoniaa · 27/09/2011 23:51

Why do I never recognise my childhood in the 50s and 60s from these drivellish streams of consciousness that are more suited to Facebook? Could it be that the lead poisoning has affected my faculties? Or is it because actually, most of what is alleged to be our experience of those days is actually utter bollocks?

GetOrfMo1Land · 27/09/2011 23:57

I was born in 1978, can recognise a cliched load of crap when I see it, so skimmed that nonsense in the OP and have decided to ignore it.

Pandemoniaa · 28/09/2011 00:03

"Mindless jism" - in a nutshell!

Sanesometimes1 · 28/09/2011 00:14

Poor you OP ! guessing you posted this in a light hearted manner, and you've taken a bit of a bashing !

Pandemoniaa · 28/09/2011 00:17

Well it's crap. Honestly it is. And why is it in AIBU anyway?

alittlebitcountry · 28/09/2011 00:19

Grin at caramel & itisnearly

Space invaders on the zx81, now that was cutting edge technology.
When we upgraded to an acorn electron there was the ultimate frustration of waiting half an hour for the cassette to load your game then playing solidly for 2 hours to get back to the highest level you ever reached, just to accidentally hit the break key at a crucial moment and reset the whole damn thing. AGAIN

begonyabampot · 28/09/2011 00:25

It is cringey but overall I agree. We grew up on a council housing estate in the 70's and what the op said rings very true and it was so much fun, even if we didn't have fancy houses, designer gear, pony lessons etc. We had a ball as kids, sometimes feel sorry for my kids as they just don't have the same adventures and freedom.

Jux · 28/09/2011 00:27

born in 58.

I remember chucking proper darts at the board we had hung from a tree. Unsupervised. As a result, my little brother had a lovely trip to A&E.

My elder brother stepping on a rake in the local park. A prong went right through his foot.

I fell out of a shop window. No front teeth.

Many more but I'll stop there. Them were the days. Grin

begonyabampot · 28/09/2011 00:28

Space invaders and packman - loved it. Just can't get into these modern, new fangled computer games. Our first computer game was the tennis ping, ping thing on the green background, we thought it was well high tech!

makachu · 28/09/2011 00:34

Sounds like my childhood. I was born in 1988 :D

makachu · 28/09/2011 00:35

Except for the cane part, that is.

superdragonmama · 28/09/2011 02:01

I used to laugh (born in 1960) but now am having people dying. SIL has just died (born 1953) due to side effects of parents smoking while young, and being brought up for first few years of life in cheap prefab made of asbestos.

Sorry, I remember the 60's and 70's very well, and being poor was no joke whatsoever. The only people, IMHO, who can joke were pretty well off and insulated from the awful problems that stem from poverty.

mumblejumble · 28/09/2011 02:26

I remember as a student in the 80's I could sign on during all holidays. Or I could get a summer holiday job for slave wages.
P

mumblejumble · 28/09/2011 02:30

I also remember going to school with bruises, and no-one being concerned or suspicious of my parents because my father was a doctor, and I lived in a "lovely home"
Hmm

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