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For those born in the 50's, 60's and 70's...

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unpa1dcar3r · 27/09/2011 22:53

For those who were born in the 50's, 60's and 70's, this may sound familiar: Firstly, we were born to parents who smoked and drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products and lots of processed meat. After that trauma, we slept in baby cots covered in coloured lead based paints. As kids, we rode in cars with no seat belts, air bags, power steering or anti lock brakes. We drank water from a garden hose, NOT from a plastic bottle. There were no McDonalds, Pizza Hut, Chinese, Indian or Thai meals. No KFC or Subway. If you wanted takeaway food, it was fish and chips, all wrapped in newspaper! And it tasted great! Even though all the shops were shut by 6pm, half day closing on Wednesdays, and didn't open on weekends, we somehow didn't starve to death! We could collect old glass drinks bottles, and cash them in at the local shop, and buy gobstoppers, bubble gum and toffees. We ate loads of sweets, white bread, real butter and drank fizzy drinks with loads of sugar in them, but we weren't overweight because........we were always outside playing! We'd leave home straight after breakfast and play all day. Our parents had no idea where we were, but knew we'd be home for tea. We'd build go-carts from old prams and fly downhill on them, suddenly finding out we forgot about brakes. We had no PS3, Wii or X box. No Sky tv, no dvd's or cd's. We had no mobile phones, no PC's, laptops or notebooks, and there was no internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside to find them. We fell out of trees and got cuts, broken teeth and bones. Did our parents sue the landowners? NO! We learned to be more careful the next time! We ate mud and worms, and we didn't die! We were given air guns and catapults for our 10th birthday. The only time you could buy easter eggs and hot cross buns was at Easter. Shops didn't sell tins of Quality Street in September. Football, rugby and cricket teams had tryouts, and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to deal with disappointment. Can you imagine that?! Teachers used to hit us with the cane or a slipper. And if we broke the law, our parents sided with the law and wouldn't bail us out! We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility. And we learned to deal with ALL OF THEM! You my friends, are one of the lucky ones who grew up as kids before the government and lawyers regulated our lives "for our own good" Oh, you may wish to show this to your kids, so they can see how brave their parents were when kids were kids.

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Jux · 28/09/2011 21:00

I saved the David Cassidy show at the Albert Hall once [preens]. It's my major claim to fame Blush Grin

Jellykat · 28/09/2011 21:02

I actually remember the Thames flood warning sirens going off (scary) , and not being able to go out because of Smog..

Jux what did you do??

thefirstMrsDeVere · 28/09/2011 21:05

How jux? YOu know you want to tell us Grin

i remember those awful 3 minute warning adverts. God they terrified me.
I remember those terrible smogs in the 70s too.

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 21:07

Oh, god (haha), MrsDV, you're SO right about Sundays! My brother and I (unbaptised, atheist family) chose to go to Sunday school just to get out and do something Grin

Gotcha, livingdead, I just have a bit of an obsession a thing about reminding women what we fought for, and why, and how recent the gains are - so still very fragile.

Another thing that makes the 60s look nice in restrospectives - all disabled children were stuffed into institutions, out of sight and uneducated Shock
And, as Peachy says, child death was ever so common. Especially of 'defective' babies, who were quietly suffocated at birth.

pranma · 28/09/2011 21:09

That is so old I have been sent it as an email at least 4 times and whilst it was mildly interesting the first time [born in 40's] it isnt worth repeating here-sorry OP.

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 21:10

Jux - did you SCREEEEEEAM? You know you did!

BeerTricksPotter · 28/09/2011 21:19

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Jux · 28/09/2011 21:19

No, I thought he was a tit who couldn't sing, tbh.

At one point, my ASM and I were working outside his dressing room; we could hear him singing scales, but his voice was so weedy. She and I were both singers ourselves, so we just piped up, which was really mean of us; he didn't really have a chance. But then, he was the one with the old tv show and the money and the girls. I tell you, it was extraordinary; there were grown women in the audience in their 30s behaving like 13 year olds, rushing to the front and screaming at him. I can only remember being that astonished when Engelbert Humperdink was on and a load of old (to me, in my early 20s) women did the same thing. Hilarious.Grin

Jellykat · 28/09/2011 22:00

I preferred Donny myself Grin

MrsDeVere I was so scared of the sirens, i had a packed bag with a change of clothes and fav toys under my bed, in case we needed to evacuate.

But i do lovingly remember The clippity Clop of the Rag n' bone mans' horse and cart.. and buying Cockles and Winkles from an old lady from her wheelbarrow.
Yum Yum..
God,I sound like i was around in the Victorian Era Blush

suburbophobe · 28/09/2011 22:03

Well, I'm from 1955 and thank god we're in 2011. Roll on 2012 I say!

You can talk about the "good old days" as they were then, yea right, racism rampant, apartheid in SA and USA, need I go on....? Nah, can't be bothered.

Saggyoldclothcatpuss · 28/09/2011 22:06

I actually find the whole 'Things are waay better now' thing quite amusing actually! Its like kids thinking they know more than their parents! Yes, we may have better health care than our parents, and yes, they may have smoked and now have lung cancer, but how do we know that we are any better off? Life has moved forward at such a rate, that we regularly do things and expose ourselves to things without ANY idea of the long term consequences. Look at mobile phones, who knows if in 30 years time, millions of people will end up with phone related brain tumours?
And as for child abuse being rife, back then, from what I see and hear, it hasnt exactly been eradicated nowadays!
Yes, the present has lots of benefits, but Id gladly go back for certain aspects. Id love to see my Dcs roaming the woods and climbing trees, or playing kerplunk, than being gradually assimilated by the myriad of technical devices we are all attached to nowadays!

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 22:11

Whoo-hoo, suburbophobe! 56 is a very good age, imo. Half granny, half woman Confused half biscuit and almost free Grin

unpa1dcar3r · 28/09/2011 22:12

Anyone remember CrackerJack? With Michael Aspel.
"It's Friday, It's 5 o clock and it's.....Crackerjaaaack"

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CupOfBrownJoy · 28/09/2011 22:13

Jellycat the rag and bone man still comes round the village where I live (in Germany) on a Saturday morning, ringing his bell.

He's got a lorry though now and not a horse Sad

PeachyWhoCannotType · 28/09/2011 22:13

Oh Goodness 1970's Sundays

and the Sunday Roast rota- chicken / pork / beef / lamb..... stretching on for eyars and eyars and years...... even in the heat of summer........

and YY to racism: my school mate coming to say bye as her family ahd given up on being accepted in our small town and were moving abck, apprently we were only family who spoke to them [sad[ didn't really understand back then of course. And Dad being sent to coventry at work becuase he dared to get a lift in each day with- shock- a gay man.

Crap.

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 22:14

Saggy, the kids here still play out - it's a cul-de-sac off a cul-de-sac, so that gives them 3 streets to rampage - still play imagination games and ask if they can play in my front yard :) It's not all as the Faily Male depicts, you know ...

PeachyWhoCannotType · 28/09/2011 22:15

never knew Aspel did crackerjack. He is a mate of Dh's Aunt, tlived near her when evacuated.

And that, dear people, is as excitinga s our family gets..... Wink

Although I suppose to the list I could add Nan dying in 1972 from a thyroid issue that had kept her bedbound for 3 decades and is quite easily treatable now

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 22:16

OMG! CrackerJack!! Didn't Leslie Crowther host it, too? Creepy git.

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 22:19

YY to medical advances, Peachy. My inability to carry full-term is easily fixable now, too. And there's HRT, bless it, when the women of my mum's generation all had full hysterectomies to "get it over with".

Saggyoldclothcatpuss · 28/09/2011 22:28

I dont read the Daily Mail, thanks!

PeachyWhoCannotType · 28/09/2011 22:31

I know GN, Mum had 4 stillbirths (and one termination for rubella damage)- now I wouldn't be here if they'd been able to save my brothers but they were all 28 weeks and I bet Mum wonders sometimes if she'd have had all boys and not all girls

Note that my sisters and I all went on to have all boys, with dodgy pregnancies and good outcomes

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 22:41

Yeah :( One of my brothers was born with chicken pox. Mum arranged for a small army of friendly women to be on hand, if he was 'viable' Hmm - he was - to protect him from the fake-tragic pillow over the head. He's now a superfit, lovely and successful bloke with just one defective ear. So YAY to the stroppy women, and boo to a system that thought to determine which babies a woman should be allowed to keep.

iklboo · 28/09/2011 22:46

Saturday afternoon wrestling & my nan shouting obscenities at Mick McManus, Giant Haystacks & Kendo Nagasacki Grin

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 22:46

Sorry, Peachy, I went off on a sentimental tangent there. I did hear what you're saying - mine were likely girls (sister had some tests done, following a midwife's throwaway comment, and did indeed give birth to boys) - and, while I don't waste time regretting what didn't happen, sometimes marvel at how fast gestational medicine has improved! It's one of those things that could so easily go backwards, if women don't keep pushing the agenda.

Grin
garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 22:48

Oh, god, didn't Mick McManus kill somebody in a televised fight?
I did see someone killed on telly boxing. Too lazy to google.