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For those born in the 50's, 60's and 70's...

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unpa1dcar3r · 27/09/2011 22:53

For those who were born in the 50's, 60's and 70's, this may sound familiar: Firstly, we were born to parents who smoked and drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products and lots of processed meat. After that trauma, we slept in baby cots covered in coloured lead based paints. As kids, we rode in cars with no seat belts, air bags, power steering or anti lock brakes. We drank water from a garden hose, NOT from a plastic bottle. There were no McDonalds, Pizza Hut, Chinese, Indian or Thai meals. No KFC or Subway. If you wanted takeaway food, it was fish and chips, all wrapped in newspaper! And it tasted great! Even though all the shops were shut by 6pm, half day closing on Wednesdays, and didn't open on weekends, we somehow didn't starve to death! We could collect old glass drinks bottles, and cash them in at the local shop, and buy gobstoppers, bubble gum and toffees. We ate loads of sweets, white bread, real butter and drank fizzy drinks with loads of sugar in them, but we weren't overweight because........we were always outside playing! We'd leave home straight after breakfast and play all day. Our parents had no idea where we were, but knew we'd be home for tea. We'd build go-carts from old prams and fly downhill on them, suddenly finding out we forgot about brakes. We had no PS3, Wii or X box. No Sky tv, no dvd's or cd's. We had no mobile phones, no PC's, laptops or notebooks, and there was no internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside to find them. We fell out of trees and got cuts, broken teeth and bones. Did our parents sue the landowners? NO! We learned to be more careful the next time! We ate mud and worms, and we didn't die! We were given air guns and catapults for our 10th birthday. The only time you could buy easter eggs and hot cross buns was at Easter. Shops didn't sell tins of Quality Street in September. Football, rugby and cricket teams had tryouts, and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to deal with disappointment. Can you imagine that?! Teachers used to hit us with the cane or a slipper. And if we broke the law, our parents sided with the law and wouldn't bail us out! We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility. And we learned to deal with ALL OF THEM! You my friends, are one of the lucky ones who grew up as kids before the government and lawyers regulated our lives "for our own good" Oh, you may wish to show this to your kids, so they can see how brave their parents were when kids were kids.

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Insomnia11 · 28/09/2011 17:43

Nostalgia is all very nice but let's move onwards and upwards I say. And let's see the past for what it was, not through rose tinted spectacles. By the by, this thread makes me feel nostaligic in its own right as I first read it in a viral e-mail in 1999!

Our children's childhood's are a bit different from ours but so will their adulthood be different. What strikes me every day is how things haven't changed, too.

Insomnia11 · 28/09/2011 17:47

Five lads from my year group (of about 200) were killed in driving accidents when they were 17/18 and that was getting on for 20 years ago.

You'll find that not many potential young drivers today can afford lessons or insurance. Apparently it's several thousand to be a named driver.

Oblomov · 28/09/2011 18:41

Born in 73. I liked it, OP, think you've been given a bit of an unfair bashing. And I liked alot of the other posts, like Morbid's :
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Oh I love nostalgia shit.

Oblomov · 28/09/2011 18:42

Not that I'm saying the 80's were that great. There were loads and loads of shit bits.

Laquitar · 28/09/2011 19:27

I would like to have today's pros (medical care, law, protection, awarness, technology etc) plus some pros from the past. I wish my dcs played in the street, other kids knocked our door, we were all a bit more relaxed about birthday parties etc. When i had 3 under 5 and dh was away i was shitting myself in case i have to go to hospital or something, i didn't know anyone in the street.

unpa1dcar3r · 28/09/2011 19:36

Ha ha Oblo.
My aunty (now 90) always says 'dunno why they talk about the 'good ol' days' they were not good ol' days they were awful; rationing, bread n dripping (which she swears is what gave her heart trouble, that and pushing out one nearly 11lb baby anyway!), no money' etc...
But it's nice to think about some aspects of our childhoods and think about kids today and what they will make of theirs when they're old farts (like me)

yes a mixture would be nice; the community spirit, neighbours watching out for each other, extending families raising the kids, street raking and so on...with good medical care.

I don't remember my mum taking me to the dentist til I was 13 and had to have a brace! Mine go every 6/8 months!

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BedHog · 28/09/2011 20:05

And for all the syntax, grammar and paragraph police we also had Donny and David. So there!

My DS really likes David Cassidy and the Osmonds (I didn't brainwash him, honest!), but he has the advantage of being able to listen to them on cd, download to ipod, watch videos on youtube, and look at their websites - plus they are all still touring and if you keep away from the front rows and squint a bit, they still look and sound the same!! Grin

hormonesnomore · 28/09/2011 20:12

Well I was born in the 50s and spent a lot of my time being Bored. Oh how I would have loved Google for my enquiring mind.

White bread and fizzy drinks did nothing for my digestion and I hated living in a cold damp house.

They weren't the 'good old days' by any stretch of the imagination.

JLK2 · 28/09/2011 20:12

I think life was much better in the olden days. There wasn't the pressure of modern life.

cory · 28/09/2011 20:20

It's no good, I've missed the boat Sad. I was born in the 60s, but abroad, so no junk food and no corporal punishment.

Adversecamber · 28/09/2011 20:28

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BeyondLimitsOfTheLivingDead · 28/09/2011 20:31

I was born in the mid 80's. Thought I'd rebel a bit and click on this thread.

Can't decide if YABU or not though Grin

Adversecamber · 28/09/2011 20:35

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garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 20:35

Haha, JLK, there were the pressures of 50s/60s life instead ... Having to build and clean fires for the ONLY heating in the house; waking up to find everything frozen; no hot water taps; no supermarket, no car, no freezer; no instant-cleaning products (all scrubbing, carbolic and Brillo); no credit cards, only hire-purchase; having to set your hair and having to wear makeup; no women's rights to equal pay or divorce; women not allowed a mortgage or a bank account; no contraception or abortion, shame if pregnant and forced adoption; divorced women not allowed custody ... it goes on. Stressful it was!

I was born in 1955 and have all the nostalgia for playing out, free roaming and pine for the gender-neutral upbringing kids enjoyed back then. But it bloody wasn't stress-free, not for the grown-ups.

CupOfBrownJoy · 28/09/2011 20:37

E numbers gave me the concentration span of a gnat

I therefore can't be arsed to read your post, OP

Soz...

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 20:39

Oh yeah, no maternity leave. And we were still on rationing when I was little. My Gran used to buy chocolate rations off other people for us to have sweets Grin

TimeWasting · 28/09/2011 20:40

I was born in '78 and my favourite restaurant when I was 5 was Chinese, regularly went to MacDonalds at 6/7 and had a meal out at an Indian for my 8th birthday.
I have never eat dripping.

BeyondLimitsOfTheLivingDead · 28/09/2011 20:41

garlic my mum was born in '61 but she had mat leave when she had me? PAID too?

TimeWasting · 28/09/2011 20:41

We did eat a lot of mince beef pies in the late 80s, so it'll be the Mad Cow disease that gets me in the end.

garlicnutty · 28/09/2011 20:44

my mum was born in '61 but she had mat leave - er, yes, that would mean she had you in the 80s?!

BeyondLimitsOfTheLivingDead · 28/09/2011 20:46

Sorry, thought you meant those born in 50s/60s/70s didnt have it :)

BeyondLimitsOfTheLivingDead · 28/09/2011 20:47

(when they had DCs)

BeyondLimitsOfTheLivingDead · 28/09/2011 20:47

(as opposed to when they were born themselves Grin )

PeachyWhoCannotType · 28/09/2011 20:54

You might ahve elarned to deal with all that unpa1d
I otoh was always picked last, bullied relentlessly and still have massive issues with self confidencve, and ahd eating disorders in my early twenties. dad would bring us Chinese when he was drunk and we would eat it reheated for brekkie and as Mum always says' back then people didn;t worry so much about accidents becuase we all expected some local kids to die. it just happened'

As for Mat leave- Mum lost several babies before me, and was put on bedrest when expecting me; so she lost her job and enver worked again. result!

Sorry am grouchy due to other thread so will go away

(1973 me)

Mind dad was born in teh 40's so not long before, 1944, and tehre were 18 to a 3 bed council house and they gopt regularly beaten, Grandad was al alkie who woudl spend every penny he had on booze so Nan had to send ehr kids out to work aged 5 and onwards and they regualrly ate what they caught- eg hedgehog- and susbsisted on bread and jam, dad was a violent twat for many eyars (not now, saught treatment, am very proud and love him to bits) but nothing comapred to what he had to survive

thefirstMrsDeVere · 28/09/2011 20:54

But do you remember Sundays Shock

They were awful.

I am not quite old enough to remember only being able to read the bible and play with Noah's ark but I remember everything being shut and that longing for Sunday to be over but dreading school on Monday.

Wandering round empty streets desperate for entertainment and finding nothing

I love going to the shops on a Sunday now. Fab.