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For those born in the 50's, 60's and 70's...

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unpa1dcar3r · 27/09/2011 22:53

For those who were born in the 50's, 60's and 70's, this may sound familiar: Firstly, we were born to parents who smoked and drank while they carried us. They took aspirin, ate blue cheese, raw egg products and lots of processed meat. After that trauma, we slept in baby cots covered in coloured lead based paints. As kids, we rode in cars with no seat belts, air bags, power steering or anti lock brakes. We drank water from a garden hose, NOT from a plastic bottle. There were no McDonalds, Pizza Hut, Chinese, Indian or Thai meals. No KFC or Subway. If you wanted takeaway food, it was fish and chips, all wrapped in newspaper! And it tasted great! Even though all the shops were shut by 6pm, half day closing on Wednesdays, and didn't open on weekends, we somehow didn't starve to death! We could collect old glass drinks bottles, and cash them in at the local shop, and buy gobstoppers, bubble gum and toffees. We ate loads of sweets, white bread, real butter and drank fizzy drinks with loads of sugar in them, but we weren't overweight because........we were always outside playing! We'd leave home straight after breakfast and play all day. Our parents had no idea where we were, but knew we'd be home for tea. We'd build go-carts from old prams and fly downhill on them, suddenly finding out we forgot about brakes. We had no PS3, Wii or X box. No Sky tv, no dvd's or cd's. We had no mobile phones, no PC's, laptops or notebooks, and there was no internet. WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside to find them. We fell out of trees and got cuts, broken teeth and bones. Did our parents sue the landowners? NO! We learned to be more careful the next time! We ate mud and worms, and we didn't die! We were given air guns and catapults for our 10th birthday. The only time you could buy easter eggs and hot cross buns was at Easter. Shops didn't sell tins of Quality Street in September. Football, rugby and cricket teams had tryouts, and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to deal with disappointment. Can you imagine that?! Teachers used to hit us with the cane or a slipper. And if we broke the law, our parents sided with the law and wouldn't bail us out! We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility. And we learned to deal with ALL OF THEM! You my friends, are one of the lucky ones who grew up as kids before the government and lawyers regulated our lives "for our own good" Oh, you may wish to show this to your kids, so they can see how brave their parents were when kids were kids.

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StealthPolarBear · 27/09/2011 23:16

Well I only scrape into this (not saying which end :o) I was certainly never hit by a cane or slipper, and if I had been my (usually school-siding) parents would have been livid. And I was never allowed bubble gum Angry

caramelwaffle · 27/09/2011 23:16

Commodore 64

Wimpy V McDonalds battle

Freezing to death without central heating

Ahhhh memorieeeeeeeees...

MorbidlyMoribund · 27/09/2011 23:17

I had a spectrum too hiccymapops - but you can't compare Jetpack, Transam, PSST or Wriggler to a Wii game....even with rose coloured specs Grin

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 27/09/2011 23:18

Ohhhhh yes, Flowerista - the polyester!! None of mine ever melted on me, though I do shrivel now at the thought of my 'best' outfit, of mustard yellow nylon 'silk' blouse, brown nylon skirt and brown nylon v-neck jumper - or the one that superseded it - the red nylon skirt, with red, white and blue plastic belt, and the nylon knitted poloneck jumper. Ohh what a style icon I was!

Speaking of melting, though - my mum used to have one of those hood hairdryers like the ones hairdressers used to have - a great big plastic thing - and one sunday night, when I was underneath it drying my hair, it overheated and my mum dragged it off the top of me just before molten plastic dripped onto my neck!

caramelwaffle · 27/09/2011 23:19

Loading your computer game from a...cassette tape...for minutes...minutes I tell you

Mumcentreplus · 27/09/2011 23:19

chips in news paper tasted gooood...tasty ink stuck to chips..extra flavour Grin

pigletmania · 27/09/2011 23:19

I was born in 1977 and do agree with some of the stuff really, i remember fish and chips in newspaper, and used to lick the bowl out after mum had been baking, and played out all day, and went in when mum called me for tea. Ah yes and no car with seatbelts either, was on the motorway my dad driving, I was 8, someone swerved infront of my dad, he had to break hard and i nearly went through the windscreen.

usualsuspect · 27/09/2011 23:20

you forgot ,the no central heating .no bathroom ,outside toilet

ahh the good old days

Tyr · 27/09/2011 23:20

Born in the early 60's and never drank water from a hose. Wasn't it great how sadistic teachers could beat you with implements.
And no choice of food, eh?
Great...........

ApocalypseCheeseToastie · 27/09/2011 23:21

Jesus christ, even mumsnet is being invaded by the dreaded cut and paste.

Where is my sanctuary ? Sad

Birdsgottafly · 27/09/2011 23:21

Reading most of the CP referals that come through, i often think that they were pretty normal childhoods where i grew up, in the 60's.

Those were the days, beatings, emotional needs ignored, sexual abuse covered up, being taught your place, thinking your friends were posh if they had their own beds and bedding, thinking you were lucky if you had enough to eat, the list is endless.

You drew comfort from having an ethnic minority neighbour to take the piss out of, though. Reminded you that you wasn't at the bottom of the heap, especially being female, an all.

Mumcentreplus · 27/09/2011 23:22

the internet is cut & paste..end of...annoyiiiinngg

Flowerista · 27/09/2011 23:22

My mum had one too. It was a Ronson right? It took about 3 days to dry a single hair.

There were only shades of brown in the 70's. Photos from that time have not faded, everything was that colour.

Also I recall dentists got paid for doing fillings. I had loads (obv not put in during Dec/Jan). None in my head now Hmm

MorbidlyMoribund · 27/09/2011 23:22

But surely someone born in 1950 would have a very different upbringing to someone born in 1979? Confused

itisnearlysummer · 27/09/2011 23:23

caramelwaffle and if the game was a really complex one you'd have to turn the tape over to continue loading it.

And after all that, there'd be a syntax error because the volume control hadn't been quite right.

MinnieBar · 27/09/2011 23:24

This is the kind of chain email shit my dad sends me and I then tell him off about.

Dad, is that you??

caramelwaffle · 27/09/2011 23:24

Definitely MM

The 50's were barely past the War. Still had rationing for example.

Flowerista · 27/09/2011 23:25

And Jim Davidson was funny WTF, thatvalone should cause a cease and desist from cut and pasting further.

Mumcentreplus · 27/09/2011 23:25

Wait a minute...I didn't have bad parenting even if I was born in the 70s and I was born to a teenage mother ffs....bad parents exist throughout history, the year you happen to be born gives them no excuse...

caramelwaffle · 27/09/2011 23:26

She understands Grin

fatlazymummy · 27/09/2011 23:27

I was born in 1960. I never drank water from a hose either. Some things were worse, some things were better. It's just swings and roundabouts really.

MorbidlyMoribund · 27/09/2011 23:27

Reminds me of our parish / village newsletter we got today ... the local minister was ranting about modern society and saying that Apples and other produce some in plastic trays with cellophane over - for the youth of today...

...I had to laugh - there is so much produce - apples, courgettes, eggs etc being swapped around the village - it's like he hasn't even opened his eyes to what is going on around him - just blythley wittering about 'how it used to be' - and the villagers round here don't even do it in a 'oooh look at us organic good life' type way - it's just how it is.....

wanker

iklboo · 27/09/2011 23:28

I counter these with 'in the 50's, 60's & 70's chemotherapy was rarely used for cancers, transplants were in their infancy & IVF wasn't heard of until 1978'.

hiccymapops · 27/09/2011 23:28

MorbidlyMoribund I didn't have any of those games Sad feel like I missed out now. Horace goes skiing and ghostbusters, my dc's don't know what they're missing Grin they're not learning the art of patience with this new fangled mario wii malarky Grin

DioneTheDiabolist · 27/09/2011 23:28

I was born in 1973. Unfortunately there's not much I can do about that now.

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