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Paedophile on my street

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EarlyYearsProfessional · 30/08/2011 00:01

I live in a lovely quiet village. Alot of the residents are either elderly or young families who have been brought up in the same street..it really is lovely!

Last yr a man whose parents live on my street was convicted and sent to prison for 16 months due to looking at paedophile images (sorry dont really know correct terminology for this filth) on the internet. It was reported he was looking into the worst kind of images you can imagine. they graded it in our local newspaper..but I cant quite remember what it was...just horrendous is what I remember!

Bit of background..my husband went to school with this man. He was a family man, worked as a postie and had 2 young children..a girl and boy under 8 at the time! His parents are lovely. I always see his children playing in the garden happily. It was his wife who found the images and reported him..it was then found to be true!

My issue is that I saw him the other day. In his car, laughing and joking with both his children on front seat laughing. He parked outside his mums and dads. i told my hubby he wud take refuge there but he said he thought he wud hide out from such a family orientated village. Obviously not! Then yesterday we drove past his parents house and we saw his car. I pointed to show my hubby and sure enough we saw him running round garden with his kids!

everyone was sooo shocked when it happened as he was such a normal regular family man! I cringe now thinking that he is on the same street (a few door away). What about my children? What about my childminding business?? I just cant digest it. I know its noit his parents fault but I just dont want him living nr me..or the children of our village! Im not comfortable with keeping quiet or just pretending it hasnt happened!

How should we as a family and a village deal with this?

OP posts:
TheOriginalFAB · 31/08/2011 11:00

Oh my God.

What about the city children?

All your !!! in your OP make you seem hysterical and over reactionary.

Words fail me.

And dont you know anyone can be a sexual abuser? Even normal family people. FFS.

pippilongsmurfing · 31/08/2011 11:04

Won't somebody think of the children!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dorie · 31/08/2011 18:19

Everyone is thinking of the children. Children's safety is the responsibility of their parents. Knowing where your enemy is can only be a good thing. It is when you don't know what your neighbours/friends/realatives are capable of is when it becomes a problem.

I am confused at what the OP thinks her village can do about a paedophile - who the whole village will know about by now - other than protect her children.

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