Here's the thing. When people are passionate about something, they do sometimes come across as somewhat "shrill". I'd rather have the "shrill" HH in parliament than any dead pan tory, who keeps pushing the needs of women further and further down the line.
As for the "rape isn't a big issue" or "rape only affects women" lines. I call bull. It affects women predominantly. But I know of at least one man who's been raped. By improving "wimmin's issuez", we're improving things for "menz, too". I mean, can you honestly say that if your partner got raped, and you knew about it, it wouldn't affect you too? Or your mother? Sister?
And, btw, I think HH was right when she said that fathers aren't "essential"... DS is managing pretty fine without his father around... What's "essential" is a loving, caring, parent (of either gender) who puts the child first. And yes, two loving, caring parents is a bonus, but the sooner we stop belittling single parents, the better...