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My 5 year old daughter given a 5 day detention!

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Cherry2011 · 19/06/2011 16:59

I received a call to say my daughter had a few incidences with another child. They were unaware of anything but apparently my daughter had nipped the other child. When asked my daughter said that the other girl had slapped her and admitted she nipped her. She was sorry for what she had done. The school have obviously had a complaint from the other mum and has said that other things have happened althought nothing has been seen by the teachers and as with this incident my daughter had been hit and had retaliated. I was told she had to stay in at lunchtime but by the time i arrived at the school to pick her up i was given a letter to say she had detention for 5 days. Now i was unaware that a child of that age would be given a detention at all, let alone for that long for something that happened the week before. My daughter will not understand what she is being punished for and i find this rather extreme. The headteacher refused to lift the detention and my daughter had to stay in every lunchtime and breaktime. Im appalled by this punishment and so are a number of other teachers and professional people i have spoken to. The local secondary school doesnt even sanction that length of time of detention on 11 to 15 year olds. How can they get away with this???

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Vicky2011 · 26/06/2011 19:42

Cherry I'm so sorry for your loss. Of course the stress won't have helped.

Best of luck to you both tomorrow for the new school

CarGirl · 26/06/2011 19:43

So sorry to hear about your baby Sad

youarekidding · 26/06/2011 19:43

Cherry

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sad

I'm glad you've moved DD schools though Smile

PinkSchmoo · 26/06/2011 20:09

Cherry, been lurking on this thread from the beginning hoping you got a satisfactory outcome for your wee woman.

So glad you have found a new school for her were she can thrive, only a few weeks left of term and hopefully this will all be a distant memory after the long holidays.

I'm so so sorry for your loss.

Please keep us posted on how your DD settles in to her new school.

Cherry2011 · 27/06/2011 18:14

Thanks guys, i have totally given up with the Head but i think she has got the message. I received a letter this morning from the consultant i saw and its a copy of a letter she has sent the head telling her how inappropriate and harsh it is , to impose that detention on a 5 year old. I didnt know she was going to do this but im glad she has. I think i've kicked up enough fuss now. I'm still coming to terms with my loss but thanks for the kinds words and support.

My DD started her new school today and WOW what a change in her. She hasnt been that happy for a long time. She loves it. Hope it stays that way :)

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JsOtherHalf · 08/07/2011 12:17

How is your DD now? Hope she is settling well iinto the new school.

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