To be upset about DPs porn habit?

[Flojo1979]

Ok, too much info for a monday morning. I dont get the whole porn thing, i hate it. I think its my DP getting off on another woman etc etc. Told him this a few months ago, b4 he moved in and expected him to respectfully refrain from such things. Since then hes moved in and well to put it blunt, got it on tap so has no reason to watch ever again, right?
So last night i said lets go for an early night (nudge nudge wink wink) and he said no I'll stop up for a bit u go up etc, fair enough, a guys allowed to say no ta too and off i toddled to bed. I heard his laptop boot up and when he went to work this morning in my usual suspicious ways, i checked his history, and he was on porn last night, when i was in bed!
Angry, furious, annoyed, upset, betrayed and oh feeling like he prefers that to me, and i must be rubbish!

Eewwwwwww dad that put me right off
Reading about someone having a wank is not fucking cool it's disgusting

Another link for your research, dad

ignores how weird that was to write

curry, you will have to re-type your penultimate sentence, I can make head nor tail of it

somebody tell dad to STFU now, I swear he is knocking one off as we speak

He thinks he's all cool with his talk of edging and cumshots.
In reality he sounds like a tragic 16 year old who talks about BDSM without actually knowing anything about it.

dad I have reported your post

now kindly fuck off

you are wasting good wanking time

I pity your wife, seriously

< pats self on knee, you tried, love, but it was in vain >

Yes, sounds blissful, not at all dysfunctional.

Anyway...

Flojo1979, how goes it today? Have you had a chance to gather your thoughts?

you dont know what i know about BDSM!, i'm not attall trying to be cool, i'm just saying it how it is
i'm just being honest.

Sorry I was rushing out to collect dd from guides!

I'll try again although it was a bit of a crap joke tbh!

"Mind you, if I were your RL friend and you patronised me like you did in that post, I'd be tempted to rush home and knock one out to youporn just to spite you"

Damn autocorrect!

Told you! :o

ever thought of joining the diplomatic corps any fucker ?

so we have it

flojo posted in good faith with concerns about her partners preference for porn as opposed to having sex with her

and we now know this fuckwit's daily wanking schedule, as well as having to be subjected to his juvenile drivel

dontcha just love Mumsnet ?

at least I can hide the thread, this nobber's wife has to live with it on a daily basis

Dadof2, you are either laughing up your sleeve at all this or you have quite a serious problem, I'm not sure which one is true.

Haven't read the whole thread but if he's starting to prefer porn to healthy sex life with you ten you most definately are not being unreaonable and you need to make him see that this is a potential relationship breaker.

Sure, lots of people need to go solo evey now and then but replacing reality with porn all together is going to hurt any relationship. I hope you get thast into his thick skull soon!

dad ever thought you might just be a dickhead ?

< hides thread like I should have done about an hour ago >

not laughing up my sleeve no, and sorry if i put anyone off their dinner. possibly too much information. i'm not trying to impress anyone , like you would be by what i'm saying.
i havent insulted anyone , more than many of you can say!

Dad I feel sorry for your sons and sorry for your wife.

But mostly I feel sorry for the women whose misery you wank over.

The marriage is ok but your wife doesn't want sex with you. When the OP posted that people wanted to know why that was? Was the OP not sexually servicing her partner enough, in the right way, with the right frequency.

And yet you don't seem to question why your wife is not really interested in sex with you? I wonder why that is.

I never insulted you. I didn't need to. You insulted yourself.

Way to go Dad! I think in football terms this is an own goal hat trick.

ps. The only person on this thread who had a cheap shot at you for your dyslexia was another man btw.

I think you have a serious issue, Dad . You really need to see someone. Your kids either already know, or will know in time, more than you think they do. Is this what you want them to think adult sexuality should be like? What if your children were girls?

haw
my sex drive is out if controll, i once had a GF with also a high sex drive m but i even burnt her out and sex (or lack of it) became an issue in the relationship . i decided long ago that i had the problem and i would sort myself out, masterbation isnt a spectator-sport, it doesnt affect my wife and sons . my DW has a low sex drive , if she , with another man would want sex every day , then indeed i would have a serious problem , but i doubt this is the case. and i never said that, you personaly, insulted me

in 'second life' i come across loads of women in relationships where they are unhappy with their sex-lives, so many time i have heard "he hasnt touched me in years", both sexes clearly have a wide range of possible sex drives and you lucky to end up with someone who wants it exactly the same amout as you.

when she's in the mood , which from long experience i have concluded is 2-3 days every month, the sex can be great, like i said earlier , i have a good marrage ,you really dont have to feel sorry for me.

dadof2littlebuggers - I used to have a partner just like you. (For a moment I wondered whether it even was you, but the posting style is not what I would imagine from him) I didn't see it at first, as I thought it was just how things were. Then I thought about it some, reflected on it, started to move away from this as being normality, and he disgusted me. Absolutely disgusted me. I can still bring the disgust to mind just by thinking about him. So I didn't fancy sex with him much either.

Strangely when I met my husband, wasn't so much of an issue.

Now had my ex asked me at the time, I probably would have been able to say some stuff about the porn and the obsessive wanking, but I was in the relationship, so not really able to reflect on it like that. He also would have gone on and on at me about why it was OK really, and not listened to what I was saying and accused me of twisting his words. So he would have thought that was just the way I was too. And had I been older and it been more difficult to split up, I may well still have been with him, telling myself it's just 'normal'. And he would have just thought I wasn't so keen on sex.

Turns out that wasn't true. It was him that was the problem.

And watch the documentary - it wasn't filmed by someone wanting to make a film about porn being bad. You can read the director's own testimony. He started out just wanting to do some fly on the wall thing, without an agenda. He's not used porn since.

And HellAtWork, you really are fucking great!

dad you actually make me sick. You sound like a teenage boy not a father and husband. To brag about wanking is just vile, most men are discreet you prick, hearing how you do how many times you do it as simply turned my stomach. Please don't come back on here, your a fucking pervert in my eyes. Your poor poor wife.