to think that women with spanking fetishes and suchlike should be ashamed of themselves?

[saidthespiderwithahorridsmile]

ditto being tied up, rape fantasies etc

what sort of message does this sort of "fantasy" send to the male of the species? That really, deep down, women want to be dominated? That physical control is sexy?

Honestly. Women who indulge in this sort of twisted self-hatred need therapy. And to grow up.

Biting and hairpulling is fairly normal, I wouldn't even really class it as kinky.

agreed monkey

What's it worth?

how does my sex life effect you in any way i dont go around saying your missionary only style sex is leading to repressed women everywhere so hands off me and my sex life unless you have handcuffs and a whip

when did I say I liked the missionary position?

there are enough straw men on this thread to keep Oklahoma crow-free all summer

Not liking degradation doesn't make me 'vanilla'

your a strange duck and unless my oh is spanking you instead of me you get no say in my bedroom unless i get a say in what happens in yours and let me warn you i bite and use whipped cream

It does, however, seem fairly conclusive that YABU.

Well then OP, if you're not vanilla then what do you do to have a bit of fun?

C'mon, I'm interested to know.

Do you have sex with bicycles?

You lot are filthy . I had no idea.

I used to be very into bdsm, gradually went off it, and find my generally very vanilla sex life lovely these days. That has bugger all to do with wanting ideologically appropriate sexual fantasies though

Standard shag non kinky hair pulling and bitting at the standard rate.

Bumsex, electic diodes and spanking attracts a premium and requires a health and safety assesment

Yes but the assessment's veerry interesting...

Very thourough (sp?) , involves rubber gloves too :-)

OP, why do you assume that bondage or spanking is degrading?

Just because you don't understand or appreciate something doesn't mean that women who indulge in it should be ashamed. I can understand why you might think this but I disagree with your opinion. What I find surprising is your complete inability to understand or appreciate the other side of the argument.

Completely worthy

Lack of curiosity maybe? Or imagination?

Or both?

maybe the op really wants to try it but thinks they should have a stiff british upper lip and be proper about sex

go for it its fun you have fantastic orgasms

Or maybe she got lost inside her great big judgypants. And can't find her way out.

I really cant be bothered to read 13 pages, but op have a

So what if I like dp to spank me, so what if I get a thrill out of it, I am a consenting adult.

Goes off to drag dp away from video game... ...

all this talk of being spanked and dominated has me all hot and bothered so im now going to go and find my oh to indulde my sexual fantasy so thanks to the OP for the night of pleasure and pain im about to go and if you dissaprove suck a

I tell you what is degrading. Me having to get up at 5:30 am to go to work.

Sarah , part of me thinks you can't possibly have any more outragous sexual confessions, part of me thinks you are are packed with fathomless surprises.

OP i think it's clear that all these women are liberated not downtrodden or repressed.

Night all...

Aww poor Gster. Just think, whilst you're sitting on your smelly train, I shall be having an early morning gallop up in the hills. Before it gets too hot.

i have made my bf come over now because i am all honey, so have to thank op for this thread because otherwise i would have just gone to bed, now were are my handcuffs?

horny not honey

I shall be climbing into my beloved Lotus Elise with the roof off and eating up the empty roads my dear... Don't do smelly trains .... x

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