What sort of DLA does your eventing friend get, btw? Personal care or mobility? Higher or lower rates?
I don't know for sure, as she is a bit secretive. But from what she has said on the past, I would guess it is lower rate. I know she tried for a mobility car and got turned down, but that she has a blue badge, which may or may not be getting taken away. And there are problems with the pension, due to people complaining about her getting it (I think people she used to work with).
I do understand her medical capacity. She does the same sport as me, and I find it exhausting. There is simply no way you can do 3 day eventing and claim you have mobility problems, when you have to walk a 3 mile cross country course 3 times, before riding it twice, on 2 different horses.
Shes not my friend any more. I distanced myself because she is the type of person who constantly asks you do things for her (unconnected with her "disability", she just likes freebies) and is a bit of a user. ie when I needed some help from her, she was going to charge me for it!)