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At The Sign Of The Dappled Deer

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Psammead · 27/05/2011 18:36

A cloak and dagger thread. Or whatever floats your boat.

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Psammead · 29/05/2011 09:00

Cel, what are you actually looking for in this guy now?

At first it was just no-strings sex, now it's dinner....

I don't want to put a dampner on it or anything, but don't go falling for him too much!

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BrianAndHisBalls · 29/05/2011 09:07

Loves young dream Grin

Celibacyisnotforme · 29/05/2011 09:15

Psammead - I hear you... but...

I was never looking for a one-night-stand - what I was after was a casual, yet regular, friend who I like spending time with, to give me all the good bits of a relationship without the crap. I reckon if we can keep each other happy for a couple of months that'll be just fine... but as it stands I have no intention of introducing him to my friends or family, DD will not be meeting him, he will not stay over when she's home - he's my dirty little secret... and he is fine with that.

At the moment I'm just looking for sex and giggles, and he gives me loads of both... he's a lot of fun and will be just what I will need after court on Thursday but he's most definitely not the permanent relationship type... just a lovely friend who happens to be amaaaaazing in bed... Grin

Msfish · 29/05/2011 09:27

Not that I want to be a spoil sport, but I quote:

"to be gagging for a no-strings-attached one night stand?"!!!!

..you may well get emotionally involved....but then again he could be THE ONE...:)

Celibacyisnotforme · 29/05/2011 09:30

Yes, yes OK but that was BEFORE I was told about the existence of Fuck Buddies - and how they can change your life... Grin

And as for him being the One, it's not at all likely because neither of us is keen to ever marry again... besides, can you imagine the best man speech?? tee hee...

Msfish · 29/05/2011 09:47

Now I am going to sound very bossy, but if you feel the need to check him out a bit, then the website 192.com is useful - if you know his proper name and the town he lives in... .read this in book - Kate Atkinson "Started early, took my dog" page (goes to get book and search for page...)...227 Black Swan edition...good luck and have fun on Thursday.

AnyFucker · 29/05/2011 10:11

MsFish....is that book any good, I like Kate Atkinson ?

am going on hols tomorrow and need a good read....nearly took it out of the library but they only had very heavy hardback version (will shatter my luggage allowance which is close to the edge with all my sexy negligees Wink )

Msfish · 29/05/2011 10:37

yes - its another in her series about the private eye - Jackson Brodie - comic detective novels - others are Case Histories and One Good Turn.....and books sooo much more fun than negligees - throw them out and fill space with books...Mr AF quite happy for bare skin PJ's??

AnyFucker · 29/05/2011 10:39

ok, might buy it at the airport

MR AF would be happy with anything Smile

Msfish · 29/05/2011 10:42

hehehehe...have a good holiday and mind you don't put his back out again :o

northernrock · 29/05/2011 11:32

There's another Jackson Brodie book out?!
I didn't know!
Wow, this thread has been immensely satisfying.

ThatVikRinA22 · 29/05/2011 14:05

im a sucker for a happy ending Grin

Jackin · 29/05/2011 15:18

yay! Last touch!

Msfish · 30/05/2011 07:59

Hi Celibacy -is it over - or do we keep thread going to see what happens Thursday?

Celibacyisnotforme · 30/05/2011 09:04

Up to you, folks... want more juicy updates or are you all satisfied? Grin

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