Unreasonable DH. Divorce on the cards.

[marmaladetwatkins]

I have been craving spaghetti hoops on toast all day. DH rang me on his way home from soft-play to say he was calling in to Aldi to get some loo roll and then to the Co-Op to get some fruit/bread. Was there anything I wanted, he asked? I said yes please, a big tin of spaghetti hoops.

When he gets back, it seems that apparently he didn't telepathically know that I wanted Heinz hoops and not Aldi's own brand hoops. I am most annoyed. Aldi hoops have watery sauce and the hoops are soggy. This is Not Good Enough.

Looking past the fact that he has looked after DS all day and then taken it upon himself to go and get essential supplies, he is being very unreasonable isn't he? I can't be expected to live like this.

You must leave him at once. Immediately. Pack a bag and get out.

How anyone can stand such abuse is beyond me!

Am looking for the Refuse number.

what a bastard - but please don't go to the tip - try a refuge!

PMSL at "refuse"

Not that he is, obviously, he's lovely

Lol at Refuse. Bloody sausage-fingered buffoon...

Don't get me started on DH's telepathic failings when I was pregnant.

Amnesty International could make a special case, and take you on...

Leave the fucker

Is he depressed ?

He has tried to make amends by cooking them for me and grating cheese on and loads of Tabasco.

Too little, too late DH.

Bastard. Bet he's passive aggressive too.

That is mental cruelty, you definitely have grounds for divorce.

The fucking bastard, how dare he.

I think you would not be unreasonable to kill him, I am pretty sure you would get off on grounds of diminished responsibility.

Fucker. Its your body, you should have complete say over what he puts in it. You weren't asleep at the time were you?

Yes he IS controlling me in a passive-aggressive way, by bringing me home inadequate foodstuffs. What next? :(

Hold the front page! Call Max Clifford!

PS Can I have him?

Where in the country are you? Perhaps an MNer in your area could do an emergency hoops delivery for you?

I really feel for you, and you really shouldnt have to live with such apalling emotional and physical abuse.

Burn the cunt. Have you looked up NPD? It's clear he has it.

I think you might need to take your temperature, put a towel on the changing mat and lie with your legs in the air after sex. Does any of that help?

Sob bitterly until he goes out and gets you THE ONES THAT YOU NEED!!!!

When he asks what the matter is sob even more and say " YOU WOULDN'T UNDERSTAND "

DTMFA.
He'll never change. Once they've started down the value brand road there's no way back.

OMG, I have just had an awful thought.....
he didnt buy..

Fruit Shoots aswell did he? Or worse, Aldi brand Fruit Shoots?

GEt out, get out NOW.

He HAS given DS two Fruit Shoots today but I wasn't going to mention it. He is being terribly abusive to us both.

Ah ... There seems be more of a back story here...... Fruit Shoots eh? And what other horrors lurk?