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Original poster

to want to get hold of my best friends NOW ex boyfriend and kill the bastard?

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 19:41

as he is a lying cheating fat ignorant 2 timing cheating dirty cunt who deserves to be strung up by a fucking noose and slowly totured until he screams and then totured some more?

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Mare11bp · 07/03/2011 19:42

er, can you tell us any more?

purplepidjin · 07/03/2011 19:43

YANBU

Please tweeze every pubic hair individually then chop his bollocks off with a rusty hacksaw Grin

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 19:48

they have been together 12 yrs and this morning she found a txt on his mobile which said

"I can't wait to see you again, you can be good to me and i'll be very good to you. Love you loads from A n B"

She called the number and a woman answered there was a child in the background.
I spoke to her at 6 and she said I am going to call and ask who she is what should I say. So I said just ask outright if she is sleeping with him.

Well she did and the slag is not only sleeping with him but has a 30m old with him and KNEW about my friend!!!!!!!!

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 19:48

Purple I really would trust me i want to make him suffer!!!

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Sn0wflake · 07/03/2011 19:50

Ohhh fuck. Christ that's bad.

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 19:52

I just called her as the dirty cunt is sitting in her car trying to get round her - like i didn't know what he was going to do ffs. I simply asked if she was ok and she said fine, my reply was you know where i am and I am minutes away.

I am so fucking angry on her behalf

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Mare11bp · 07/03/2011 19:53

Dreadful behaviour. Needs throwing out on the street pronto. With his clothes shredded.

Actually don't, the latter is illegal and he isn't worth getting arrested for!

miniwedge · 07/03/2011 19:53

Slag? Nice.

Boozilla · 07/03/2011 19:54

Words fail me. Some men really are the scum of the earth aren't they.

molemesseskilledIpom · 07/03/2011 19:54

The Lady,

You're friend must be devestated. What a fucking shit.

Sn0wflake · 07/03/2011 19:54

Not the time mini.

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 19:55

Mini, yes slag she knew about my friend and still shagged him and went on to have a child with him. hardly makes her a nun does it?

Mare I am going up there on Thursday and helping her bag all his stuff up told her we'll drop it off at the barbers he hangs around in

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LittleMissHissyFit · 07/03/2011 19:56

LES, she needs to say nothing, nada, niente. Nothing at all to him, just get his shit together in a bin bag and dump it and him today, now, this very second.

She needs never, ever to have anything more to do with him.

Oh yes, it is THAT simple.

The child is 6m off turning THREE???? Angry

molemesseskilledIpom · 07/03/2011 19:56

Sorry, not You're I do mean Your.

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 19:57

Mole, she is in bits, she has taken my advice and is holding herself together in front of him. I know she will let rip when he is not there though.

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smokinaces · 07/03/2011 19:58

fucking hell Lady, what is it with men needing to stick their fricking penises in everything - and not using a fucking condom????

hope your friend is ok. do they have kids?

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 19:59

LMHF, I am furious on her behalf. She is such a good girl, and yes I always call her a girl she is 33 but is very young for her age iyswim?

I would rip him a new one if i was there which is probably a good reason I am not!!!

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Sn0wflake · 07/03/2011 19:59

She is throwing him out tonight, yes? I just can't imagine how one would cope. Could she stay the night with you....or could you go over?

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 20:01

Smokin, no they don't, when I was pg with DS2 who is now 3.6yrs she desperatly wanted a baby but he kept making excuses. Then when I had DS2 she was more broody than ever but again he made excuses.....

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TheLadyEvenstar · 07/03/2011 20:02

I have offered to go there, and also said I will collet her and bring her here as ds2 sleeps in my room so his bed is free.

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smokinaces · 07/03/2011 20:02

what a wanker. I have really been shown the true colours of men, their fidelity and their fucking procreation this week.

I really hope she holds her head up. And she can get through this. and glad she has a friend in you.

molemesseskilledIpom · 07/03/2011 20:05

She needs to rise above this. It's bloody hard but it's the best thing, then she can play the long game.

Get his stuff, bag it up and leave it outside. Change the locks and then take her out or turn up on her doorstep with a "rescue pack", which contains a takeaway, wine, fags (if she smokes) and sit there and hatch the nastiest plans you can think of and have a good laugh about it. Plan what she can do now he's not with her anymore. Have a proper girly man bashing night in...it'll do her wonders.

Sn0wflake · 07/03/2011 20:06

The stuff about her wanting a baby is going to make this an even larger betrayal. What the fuck was he thinking?

Did you think he was an OK bloke before this?

LittleMissHissyFit · 07/03/2011 20:06

LES, just be there for her, actually thank GOD she doesn't have kids with him, she need never have anything to do with his sorry scabby arse again.

I wish she was my friend, I'd be round there like a shot, kidnapping her if I had to.

She most likely WILL let rip when she's away from him, tbh she needs to.

WTF is wrong with some people?

LittleMissHissyFit · 07/03/2011 20:08

THREE YEARS.... that child is almost 3, the OW would have been PG OVER 3 years ago.... and our poor friend has not had a conversation, an inkling, in all this time??

When exactly has this prize of a man been there for this poor child?

I am in shock LES, I tell you, SHOCK!

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